5 Reasons You Should Try Restraints

5 Reasons You Should Try Restraints

By Ksenia Sobchak

Bondage is a popular sport, and for good reason. Whether you indulge in the minimal wrist cuff or you are going full on suspension bondage, you keep coming back to it because it works, and it works well. Bondage is one of those sexual acts that let you imagine so many variations and different setups that you can never fail to find something new to try out. However, bondage safety rules should always be adhered to for the greatest and safest of plays. On that note, here are some of the reasons that make bondage such an awesome game play. If you haven’t embarked on it yet and are on the fence about it, take a moment and check out if any of the reasons is enough to get you in it.

Sexy Arousing Look

There is something alluring about your partner being all tied up and helpless. The helplessness strikes a chord in you and your primal instinct just kicks in, begging you to indulge all the fantasies you have ever dreamt of. With their hands out of the way, you get to look at every single part of their body without the possibility of them covering themselves up because of shyness. Power is a great aphrodisiac and bondage grants you the greatest power there is, control over your partner.

Enhanced Sensations

Limiting any of your five senses immediately triggers the others into survival mode and they perk up, more sensitive than ever. Bondage takes away your ability to touch, making your nerves immediately conscious to any stimuli. With your armed to the teeth with toys dedicated to sensory play, your body feels stimulated on a whole other level, making every registered feeling feel even more intensified. Test your sensory receptors by getting tied down and experience foreplay like never before.

Relinquish Control

Most people like to be in control of every aspect of their lives, even in the bedroom. This may be infuriating to your partner as they never get to indulge in all the fantasies they have about you. Take a chance and let someone take over the reins for once. Let your partner hold you down and get to enjoy the back seat as they steer you towards that orgasmic bliss that you have been craving for so long. You may even discover things about your body that you never knew existed. Life is not always about control, and you shouldn’t try to make it so.

Stay in Place

Getting your partner to stay still may be a bit of a challenge as there is always an inclination to shift ever so often. To get access to the same spot over and over again, pin your partner in the desired position and enjoy as you get to that spot time and time again. It may sound like it’s not that much of a big deal, but some points make for better orgasms and the only way to get your partner to experience them is by indulging in some restraining techniques. Once they get to experience the difference, you will receive rematch requests over and over again.

Experience the Joy of Trust

However kinky you may think you are, there is no way you would ever accept to be tied down by any stranger. Bondage is a game that exposes you to all sorts of abuse as you are helpless, so it only makes sense that you would be comfortable indulging in it with someone who has your trust. As you advance in your bondage play, you place more and more trust in your partner which enhances the bond between you. This increasing level of trust also enhances the emotional connection you share, solidifying your relationship even further.

Enjoy the world of bondage by starting slow and surely, making each session count. Keeping your partner safe and comfortable within their flexibility thresholds goes a long way in ensuring that you get to enjoy every single moment of your play. If you happen to have multiple partners, always ensure that your bondage accessories are sanitized before each use. However, for ropes and toys made from porous materials, always ensure that they never get shared. It is always better to be safe than sorry.