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January 21, 2020 5 min read

8 Masturbation Tips All Women Should Know

If you have ever tried to pleasure yourself, you know that no one can ever pleasure you as well as you do. Once you have found a way to hone your own pleasure, then your sexual satisfaction is set for life. It is a bedroom superpower that is unparalleled. What more, sole sex allows you to explore your body making you learn the tricks that work for you. You become a better lover as you can guide your partner through mutual sexual satisfaction.

 However, a lot of people don’t know how awesome sole sex is because they either don’t know how to pleasure themselves or it is considered traditionally or religiously taboo. While we are not here to turn you against your faith or culture, we just know that the body is the most wonderful piece of art ever created. With it, a great pleasure source that contours into your greatest satisfaction. A woman is a special creation with a body filled with pleasure points. Almost every spot on your body can be turned into an erogenous zone if you know how to stimulate it. Masturbation allows you to explore every part at your own pace, discovering how it feels to really fall in love with yourself.

Maybe the reason why masturbation is not explored a lot is that many women only concentrate on clit and vagina stimulation. This doesn't have to be the case, notch-up your self-bedroom play by making love to yourself more. Introduce some variety in your play with different sex toys. Go to the shower and bang it in there, have yourself a candlelight sex party in the tub, clamp your nipples, play anal, whatever you want, you can do it in your own privacy. Learn your likes and boundaries. Enjoy the stimulation and train yourself on how to delay or have multiple orgasms. It is your moment with yourself! Masturbation gives you the opportunity to realize all your sex fantasies without fear of being judged or crossed. It is an exceptionally sensual moment tailor-made only for you. Here are a few tips to spice up your solo play.

Masturbation Tips All Women Should Know

Set the Mood

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While in most cases masturbation happens from the blue, it helps to set up your scene for an awesome moment just like you would if you have a partner coming over. Place some flower petals on the bed to help set a romantic ambiance.  Play some slow and romantic music (or whichever genre works for you). If scents are your thing, get some scented candles for the occasion. Take a bath with essential oils and salts to relieve tension from your body and relax the muscles. Also,  glass of wine will be a good idea to help heighten your senses just a bit as you get self-aroused. Put on sexy lingerie for a chic feel. Let the moment be arousing and fun in every way possible.  

 Start with Your Fingers

Is you are just starting out; your fingers will be your greatest gateway to starting a masturbation session. You want to contour your body slowly, learning the curves and spots that tick you sexually. Rubbing your fingers gently on your clit and vagina helps stimulate the body sexually and bring you to the right mind-set.  Once you are aroused, you can now build up your sexual massage with other sensations.

Try out different Sensations and Toys

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For most women, masturbation entails only clitoral and vaginalstimulation. But you wrong. A woman’s body is so erogenous there are over 20 spots you can stimulate for an ultimate full-body experience. This is a perfect time to try out with sex toys if you haven’t already. Get a vibrator or a magic wand and run it through your clitoris. Have a sensational play with glass dildos. Dip it in cold water and insert slowly and leave it in for a few minutes. Feel your body warm it up as you lift your pelvis slightly up and down. Remove it and dip it in warm water, feel how your fluids ooze out with acceptance. You can also play with sensational cooling, tingling and warming lubes just to explore the unique sensations and introduce some diversity in your play. To keep the game long for longer you want to avoid deep penetrative massages at this time.

Combine Multiple Types of Stimulation

As previously said, the woman’s body boasts different spots that are erogenous zones including cervix, clitoris, vagina, inner thighs, nipple and anus. All these parts can give you serious pleasure if stimulated in the same sessions. So take the opportunity to play around with the different zones for a blended sensual experience. Clamp your nipples and clitoris and run a vibrator over them. Run a feather tickler under your inner thigh, butt cheeks, belly, and arms. Create your own stimulation by playing with your anus. Have one hand massaging your breast while the other stimulates your anal opening. Give yourself a hand wandering moment to explore every inch of you.

Play with Different Positions

You play with different positions during partner sex, so why not play the same when masturbating? There is no one position that is recommended or a go-to for everyone. So you need to experiment with different positions and angles for a more diverse and intensifying moment.  Some women like to just lie on the bed while rubbing their clit; others prefer to lay on their backs. Some kneel, others splay their legs straight on the bed, and others love the V-shape missionary. Be open-minded and explore each and every position you can think of. If you need to enhance your position, do it. Trust us, it pays.

Take your Play to the Shower

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You might have wanted to enjoy shower sex, only you haven’t been so very successful in achieving those crazing orgasms you keep hearing about. This is your chance. Sit on the bath stool and rub your clit as warm water flows down your body. Stick a suction cup dildo on the wall and have a gliding of your lifetime. Stick it on the tub floor and enjoy warming inserting like you haven’t experienced before. If you have a removable showerhead; why not insert a waterproof vibrator in your butt and use the water pressure to stimulate your clit as you take a bath. Your options are out of this world.

Use plenty of Lube

This maybe goes without saying but for as long as you are using sex toys; lube is a crucial addition to your play tools. Lube also helps reduce vaginal dryness commonly caused by birth control pills or hormonal imbalance in the body.  You can use either water-based or silicone-based lubes, whichever is your favorite but take not of your toy materials to avoid destroying them.

Bring in Some Visuals

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For some women, it is just difficult to be super aroused by yourself. So don’t be shy to bring in some sexy movies or porn. Replay your old videos when you are banging with a partner that is well hidden away. Sit in front of a mirror as you rub your clit and see yourself enjoying the sensation. Visuals help your visualise the art of solo sex, bringing you to the realisation of how amazing the feeling really is. 

Now that you have a few tips to improve your masturbation session, our delight is that you find the explosive solo orgasms your so crave for. Enjoy your happy party babes!


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