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September 14, 2017 6 min read

ADVANCED BEDROOM BONDAGE TECHNIQUES

Yes! You have successfully introduced bondage into your relationship and it's going well, but you start thinking, "how do I proceed from here? Is there more to bondage than just blindfolds and cuffs?" Well the good news is there is more and that is something you may want to try.



For vanilla couples bondage is all about being bound and become an object a thing that is owned by their partner. Bondage becomes more of a one sided thing, which is ok for the partner receiving but over time it tends to become stale. To avoid repetitive play in the bedroom one has to spice it up from the usual. By trying a whole new variety of toys and accessories a whole new world of fetish play opens up, stretching your imagination to explore new fantasies in bondage will make the experience feel like the first time always. So to help try these advanced bedroom bondage techniques.

YOUR SENSES KNOW BEST

Sensory play is when you restrict sound, sight, hearing, touch or taste, it can serve a prequel to fore play building up excitement slowly, the intensity of being in the dark or the feeling of wanting to reciprocate touch when bound can be quite erotic. Sensory play has many forms and experimenting with each can help enhance bondage play.
Bondage play is like education were aspects of your partner's body are explored and detailed in ways you have never experienced and with sensory play you get to find all those hidden erotic spots on your partner's body. Usually people make the mistake of prolonging or shortening foreplay and rush into sex leaving their partner wanting more, in this light sensory play helps variate and make foreplay a much more pleasurable experience and it works very well with bondage. Be it the anticipation or the suspense of what your lover might do next.

ALTERNATE BETWEEN PLEASURE AND PAIN – Running a paddle slowly on the skin or slowly teasing your partners back with your mouth is quite pleasurable interchange with a little pain by spanking your partner. The adrenaline rush caused by the pain helps your body become more aware and your senses more receptive so when you go back to pleasurable sensations your partner will feel every bit of it and it will be ecstatic. Give your partner an erotic massage mixed with light spanks on the buttocks and the experience can be intense and helps your partner concentrate. All you need is a blindfold and also earbuds for sight and sound deprivation.

PLAY WITH THE TEMPERATURE – Nerve endings respond well to fluctuations in temperature and using toys or objects with different temperatures can also be a kinky. Ice is or melted massage candles can be used interchangeably. Glass dildos can also be used and can be heated or cooled, trickling hot wax down your partner's back then teasing with sliding an ice block down their back with your mouth induces some sweet pleasures.

WHEN YOU ARE A LITTLE TIED UP

Dominant partners control the form of play and the outcomes. When tied up the Sub is guided by the Dom. The Dom teases the sub in various ways, this can control the levels of pleasure and also when and how the sub orgasms. Tie and tease play frustrates your partner but gives an erotic and intense orgasm as the Dom controls when it happens when they are about to orgasm the Dom can slow it down and continue to pleasure you close to that point of no return the toning it down again. This can extend the bondage experience and can help the partner have multiple orgasms. Tie and tease play is all about control and patience and provides an opportunity for both partners to take their time and in some instances have synchronized orgasms, communication is key and both partners need to have cues that guide them through tie and tease and the climax could be a spiritual and an outta body experience.

SOME MORE ADVANCED TIPS

Bondage is not always about binding your partner and restricting every movement. It puts the Dom in a position of control and a role as educator to the Sub, as the Sub is willing to follow each and every command from the Dom. Incorporating tease and denial play as part of discipline play until your lover learns how to do a task properly also gives that intimate feeling of control and trust.

It's not always about restraining your partner entirely, some free movement can be allowed using leg spreaders or over head arm restraints allowing for access to all areas of your partner's body. Also restraining arms for example allows for change in positions since movement of the pelvic area or legs is enabled. This makes love making more enhanced and a pleasurable experience for both partners without taking out the aspect of bondage entirely.

Binding your partner on their knees with their hands tied behind their back blindfolded (execution style) and have them perform oral sex. Have them do it in the way that you want, communicating with them when they perform it to perfection, punishing them when they get it wrong and rewarding them when they get it right.

Remember to always do enough research on bondage BDSM activities require and your are guaranteed to have a sexually satisfying time with dondage and fetish play.

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