Kegal Exercises What are Ben Wa Balls? First off, let me start by saying Ben Wa Balls are awesome. If you don’t think so or haven’t tried them yet, then you’re just not doing it right! Take it from this girl who didn’t know she could have a G-spot orgasm! But, there’s a way to use them properly to gets the best results.
So, a little history about these superb balls. Their origin is kind of mysterious. No body or source seems to be able to pinpoint were exactly, although there’s lots of speculation. Interestingly enough, men are originally thought to have been the first users of Ben Wa Balls, used them to increase their penis size. But, as people often do throughout history, they insert things – and so, Ben Wa Balls for women were created!
I love them. I think they’re freaking fantastic! And there’s a ball for everyone. Beginners should start with the plastic or duo-tone balls. If you dribble or leak when you giggle (or sneeze) then these balls will help to. They’re a little bigger and the plastic makes them easier to keep in, which is good if you’ve never used them before because the metal or glass balls will annoy the hell out of you, slipping out every time you move.
To get the best use out of them there are a couple of little tricks you can do for best results. You NEED to lube them up before you use them. Not all of us are Anastasia Steele and shiver with an orgasm at the touch of a man (no matter what men think), so the secret is in the lube. You’ve GOT to use a stimulating lube (this is really important), especially if you’re not one that normally gets off through the G-spot or are a newbie to this feeling. This doesn’t mean that you won’t get there; you just have to strengthen yourself to Superwoman status. With a little practise and training, it can be done.
Some people like the traditional metal ones and some people like the glass balls. It’s all just a personal preference at the end of the day. You can keep them in as long as you want & use them every day if you like! In fact, if you’re headed out for the night with your partner, why not slip them in prior? By the end of the night, your Tunnel-of-Love will be all stimulated and ready and your partner will be quite surprised at your responsiveness! You can also have sex with them while they’re inside you. Despite concerns, they cannot get “lost” in there. They might get stuck, but they WILL come back out (nothing a little jumping up and down won’t fix). Your body will naturally be wetter & more stimulated, because just using them increases the blood flow down there which is the whole point of the balls!
This is why they’re excellent for women after childbirth. You don’t use them to get you off on the spot. They’re not like a vibrator. But, you use them to HELP you get stronger down there so you can get off through your G-spot. Think of them more as a helper than an actual “sex toy.” For beginners just starting out, are the Berman Shades Anastasia Delight Orgasm Balls. These little beauties are cheap in price but offer maximum pleasure and stimulation, easy to use and great for everyone. For a smaller set, but still highly effective, try the Shots Toys – Geisha Twin Balls.
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