Some like it hot, some like it quick and some like it tender. Some, on the other hand, like it oral. It’s all a matter of personal taste. A good number of men and women see regular intercourse as cumbersome and not very exciting, while oral sex is a huge turn on for them. Both enjoy the feeling of another person’s tongue slithering over their private parts and that of lips wrapping around penis or clitoris.
Men are thought to be the most eager for oral sex and many armchair psychologists see this preference for oral sex as a way of humiliating the woman and turning her into an object that gives pleasure on demand. But I’m not so sure that they’re right. For one thing, women enjoy the oral attentions of men just as much as men enjoy themselves when women go down on them. I have yet to hear about a woman who turned down a man willing to go down on her.
Oral sex is a term that describes all sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth, tongue and even throat (in special cases) to stimulate the genital organs. This type of sex may be used as foreplay, as a replacement for intercourse, as a means of reaching the climax after intercourse and even following intercourse. One thing that armchair psychologists should know is that the mouth, lips and tongue are sensitive and well-supplied with nerve endings, which means that oral pleasure is not necessarily one-sided.
It also may be used as a form of contraception, based on the idea that if the sperm does not enter the vagina, conception cannot occur. Nevertheless, one should still be careful if the preferred method of sex is intercourse followed by oral climax because this contraception method is not 100 percent safe. Pregnancies still happen, mainly because of poor withdrawal timing.
The three main types of oral sex are fellatio, cunnilingus and anilingus. Fellatio is the oral stimulation of the penis, usually performed by taking the glans and part of the penis shaft in the mouth. It’s also common during fellatio to caress the testicles with the tongue. Oral stimulation may be accompanied by hand stimulation of the shaft in order to increase pleasure and speed up the orgasm. A well-known variation of fellatio is called “deep throat” and it focuses on taking the entire penis in the mouth. In this case, the glans is pushed down the throat of the person performing fellatio.
Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth and the tongue to stimulate the female genitals and especially the clitoris, which is the most sensitive part of a woman’s genitals. Studies have shown that only one third of all women can reach orgasm easily through intercourse, which makes oral sex and masturbation two very good options for sending a woman over the edge. Since the genital organs of women are more complex than the male penis, oral stimulation requires men to learn how to please partners on an individual basis. Cunnilingus may also be accompanied by the insertion of a finger or sex toy in the vagina or anus.
Anilingus is the technique of stimulating the anus with the lips or by inserting the tongue into the sphincter muscle. Although the practice of anilingus is believed by many to be restricted to the gay community, it is in fact practiced by people of all sexual orientations. The anus contains nerve endings similar to the genitalia, which means that stimulation may result in sexual arousal.
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