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Bondage Safety Techniques

by Jekaterina Gussarova August 04, 2022 4 min read

Bondage Safety Techniques

Bondage Safety Techniques

It takes knowledge, skills, and preparation to ensure an amazing first-time bondage experience. What are BDSM fundamentals? Here are bondage safety techniques to remember when engaging in any BDSM game, including proper timing, selecting safe words, using triggers and applying bondage tools, or establishing boundaries and communication.

Are you thinking about tying your lover up for some erotic bondage play? Or have you ever thought of being restricted when getting intimate? Bondage play is an option that most couples wish to explore for different sensations. But the misconceptions about bondage being painful sometimes makes the whole BDSM practice scary. There are numerous safety guidelines for bondageto consider when trying it out for the first time, including communication, safe words, and types of bondage tools.

Moreover, safety rules will always apply irrespective of the bondage activity. Following the rules stated allows bondage playmates to have a safe and comfortable bondage experience. Nothing should be taken when it comes to fetish fantasy bondage play. Consider keeping these safety techniques in mind to experience a steamy and intense BDSM session.

Negotiation and Consent

Consider having negotiation and communication with your partner about what you want. Also, make your partner understand what will happen. In your conversation, remember to talk about the consent of what you are going to explore. Talks in a relationship are great for any growing or improving sex life.

Furthermore, having the consent of what is going to happen will help your partner to prepare perfectly. Communication might lose meaning when it is done in the middle of the play. Therefore, it is vital to prioritize negotiation and consent and come to an understanding before the play.

Use Safe Words or Signals

Numerous safe words are important for safe and comfortable bondage play. Moreover, there is a change in words, especially in the world of BDSM, because of a wide range of bondage activities to play. Also, the safe words or gestures depend on the game and the bondage tools used. For instance, when using ball gags, you are limited from verbal speech. Therefore, the only thing is learning how to use gestures. You can go for popular movie characters, colors, animals, or foods. But consider discussing these safe words with your partner before the play.

Know Your Body

What do you love individually? Where do you feel highly aroused when touched? Knowing your body well will help you achieve the best from the fetish fantasy bondage game. Does your spouse have any injuries? Do you suffer from any condition? Your health is one of the essential things you need to discuss with your partner before engaging in any bondage play. Because the play might turn out to be painful as you advance, you should always consider your general health. If you are not stable or flexible enough to take in pleasure and pain, then consider opting out to avoid worsening your situation.

Triggers

Bondage playmates have different triggers when it comes to bondage or any other sexual activities. Do you know what triggers you the most when stimulated? Some bondage players would go for canning and flogging, while others will stick with tickling. A trigger might be something new for beginners, so consider communicating before venturing into the BDSM world.

Moreover, you need to know when you feel pleasurable and when you begin to feel pain. Knowing your limits helps you back off without hesitation to prevent deeper damages. Also, keep your partner on the knowledge of where and gives you the best feelings.

Nerve Damage

Touch your nerves and other delicate parts of the body during a bondage session. Therefore, consider discussing with your partner these areas before the play. The most affected parts are the knees, heart, face, kidney, elbows, and chest. You can focus on areas like thighs, breasts, clitoris, penis, butts, and balls. Moreover, the beginner's guide to bondage is to understand the common basics of your partner's body since people have different capabilities. Furthermore, if using bondage ropes, ensure it doesn't go close to your partner's neck.

Know Your Toys

How well do you know and understand your bondage tools? Do you even know how and where to use them? Bondage is well-known for both pain and pleasure. Sometimes pain can be arousing and pleasurable, but you can afford to lose any body part because of the bondage game.

Coupes should be aware of the delicate nerves and tissues. Moreover, some toys are specifically designed for advanced bondage players. So, avoid trying them out if you are a beginner. You can use them, yes, but after gaining enough experience. Also, if you want to explore the Shibari experience, consider tying the ropes perfectly. They shouldn't be tied too tight or loose to encourage discomfort.

Establish Boundaries

Establishing boundaries whenever you engage in bondage play is essential, especial when advancing to wild play. Do you know the boundaries of your submissive partner? Well, it is vital to know and understand what your partner sets as a boundary. Having the full content of what their boundaries are will prevent you from pushing them. Additionally, you can communicate and negotiate with your partner concerning the boundaries before the game to know their limits.

Set a Plan for Play Time

Playmates have different plans for playtime when it comes to bondage play. Some might feel comfortable and safe with longer hours in the game, while others might take short. Therefore, the plan for playtime depends on both dominant and submissive. However, the dominant needs to understand the slave's maximum playtime. That will prevent them from spending more time in the game than expected by the slaves.

Aftercare

Perform good aftercare after having a great and pleasurable sexual or bondage moment with your partner. Aftercare is done to keep your spouse clean, comfortable, and at ease from the erotic painful bondage play. Moreover, you can also try to perform medical procedures where there is a need to keep your partner safe and free from any bacterial infection. Furthermore, this stage is essential since it helps build trust, love, and respect between couples.

Final Thoughts

Erotic bondage safety is one of the critical aspects when it comes to bondage play. It allows you to focus more on pleasures and explore new sensations. With safety, you can apply numerous techniques to experience comfortable bondage play. Herein is a highlight of some essential safety tips to bear in mind.

Jekaterina Gussarova
Jekaterina Gussarova


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