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BOOK ENDS SEX POSITION

by Jekaterina Gussarova August 01, 2022 5 min read

BOOK ENDS SEX POSITION

BOOK ENDS SEX POSITION

Bookends are a type of sexual position used by individuals to bring some excitement into their bedroom. This article focuses on the bookend sex position, what to consider when planning for the sex position, and who between the two genders should be active when engaging in the sexual position.

The modern world has made people curious about different sexual positions. Well, there is nothing wrong with getting some insights about the sex styles out there. Some have raised a lot of questions about the bookend sex position. Nobody wants to have a boring and normal sex life. There is always a style that can spice up things in the bedroom and eliminate boredom. Some can help you create a bond and intimacy with your significant other. The latter describes the bookend sex position. This article discusses what the bookend sex position is all about.  

What Is a Bookend Sex Position?

Most couples find it hard to get through with penetrative sex while in this position. This may make it seem like it does not bring about much fun when making out with your significant other. It brings about bonding, and you are guaranteed a great time.

According to Leach et al. (2021), the Bookend sex position requires partners to be on their knees while on the bed and face each other. The man is supposed to have his knees spread out slightly so that they can be lower than their partner. The woman remains in the same position so she can be taller than the man. A man is supposed to be slightly lower than you to penetrate the dick inside the vagina. The woman can also help the man get it in. once the dick gets into the vagina, the man can raise himself while the woman can lead backward to aid with the thrusts and make the whole thing more enjoyable.

However, there are instances when the man may be taller than the woman. The penetrative sex cannot happen, but you can still try and rub the dick onto the clitoris. Bookend sex position does not necessarily mean that penetration sex has to happen; it does not. The main aim and end goal are to make sure you bond with your partner and build some intimacy.

Who Should Be The Most Active In The Bookend Sex Position?

There is no specific role for the genders as everyone needs to participate. This is because both of you want to feel the pleasure. This means that both the partners should be actively involved when engaging in the Bookend sex position. Get to build some bond between the two of you.          

What Does the Woman Do In the Bookend Position?

A woman must also participate when engaging in the Bookend sex position. This position does not give out the possibility of deep strokes because of their position. The woman can grind on their partner while they are thrusting. This will help in the clitoral stimulation. It isn't easy to get through penetration at times, and the woman or both partners should focus on the intimacy. Most of the time should be spent trying to bond with their significant other. They can do so by hugging and kissing them passionately. They can kiss them on the cheeks, lips, ears, and neck while their hands are wrapped around their man. You can also play gently with their scalp by massaging your fingers through it.  

What Does the Man Do in the Bookend Sex Position?

According to Santelli et al. (2018), the man may find it hard to keep up with the penetration because of their position. The penis may find it hard to stay inside the vagina and sometimes slip out. They may see grinding against their partner as the better option. The best thing in this instance would be to grab their partner by their waist and have their hands wrapped up around them or the butt. They can grind on their partner while holding on to their butt.

Sløk-Andersen (2019) suggested that since penetration seems hard to maintain, they should also focus on intimacy and bonding. The man can also apply all the activities that the lady does. They can try kissing, hugging, holding them tight and rubbing their back, or even grabbing their ass. There is no harm in being naughty with them. The hands are pretty much what is mostly used when being in this position, and they should take advantage of it and create a bond by becoming close.  

What to Consider When Engaging In the Bookend Sex Position

People have tried the bookend sex position and have come up with some things one can consider when engaging in the sexual position. Some of these considerations include

  • The bookend position will always work best for you if you are into cuddling and massaging with your partner and you always want to be close to them every time.
  • According to Gagnon & Simon (2017), the Bookend sex position does not have to lead to penetration sex. All your significant other can try and do is to have their dick rubbing against their clitoris or vulva instead of stressing about the thrusts.
  • It may be the perfect time for you to bond with your partner. This can be possible when you are so close to your significant other and you can make eye contact with one another. 

Conclusion

Getting intimate with your partner does not only mean having penetrative sex with them. It might seem like a necessity, but in a real sense, it cannot be enjoyable if you do not have a sexual bond with your significant other. This is why most people have tried engaging in the Bookend's sex position. This is because it is mostly about the bond and the intimacy between partners. It is more about the foreplay activities as the couples may end up making out after grinding, kissing, and getting aroused by each other. A woman should also engage in foreplay activities and initiate sex. A woman can ride on a man when having sex and stimulate the clitoris for more pleasures. A woman can become the dominant partner in a bookend sex position. Bookend send position favors partners who like cuddling and massaging. It is a high-end fun sex position. Couples can engage in talks concerning their relationship by maintaining eye contact to help enhance bonding.  

References

Gagnon, J. H., & Simon, W. (2017). Sexual Conduct: The Social Sources Of Human Sexuality. Routledge.

Leach, M., Macgregor, H., Scoones, I., & Wilkinson, A. (2021). Post-Pandemic Transformations: How And Why COVID-19 Requires Us To Rethink Development. World Development, 138, 105233.

Santelli, J. S., Grilo, S. A., Choo, T. H., Diaz, G., Walsh, K., Wall, M., ... & Mellins, C. A. (2018). Does Sex Education Before College Protect Students From Sexual Assault In College?. Plos One, 13(11), E0205951.

Sløk-Andersen, B. (2019). The Butt Of The Joke?. Cultural Analysis, 17(1), 25-56.

Jekaterina Gussarova
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