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August 04, 2022 4 min read

Confinement Confidential: Four Bondage Fetishes Unwrapped

BDSM play is a lifestyle and a subculture to some bondage members. Bondage play entails various forms and flavors that vary in most couples. Bondage sex ranges from soft play to intense hardcore plays. There is more to bondage play rather than sex only. Contrary to the belief that bondage play requires hardcore toys such as ball gags, whips, and leather cuffs. This erotic practice allows the use of various devices to create plenty of bondage play options.

BDSM kink and technology play comes with different erotic spans from latex-clad dominatrixes to silky soft restraints, ticklers, and feather teasers. BDSM couples can engage in many bondage games to feed their inner fetish desires. The one rule of bondage play that must be observed always states that, no matter what bondage play you engage in, consent, communication, and course constraint is important before play. This enhances comfort, trust, and bonding in partners. So whether you like to exchange tickles and licks or intense exquisite bondage torture ensure you engage your partner before trying out.

Desire and fantasy are pleasingly unique to all of us. What your partner likes might not be what you prefer. Dominants should listen to their submissive suggestions before indulging in any bondage fetish. There are various bondage fetishes that you can engage in with your partner. They range from pleasure, pain, and everything between pain for pleasure purposes. Before trying out any bondage fetish, doing research is essential to know what it's all about. We have four of the best kinks and fetishes that you can unwrap with your partner to spice your intimate moments. They include;

The Not Just for Last Night’s Leftovers

For couples who have kitchen and utensil fetishes, this type of fetish is worth the try. Most of the items in our kitchen cupboards are not ideal for bondage play. Our common kitchen utensils don’t fire up our libido quickly as they are not fetish toys. However, with the cling wrap, you will likely see your partner's eyes melt in desire as the fetishists rise. The cling wrap is not just for wrapping your leftovers. It can be used in bondage play to wrap a partner in a completely immobilized position. The firm plastic holds in your partner in the position of your choice compressing the skin tightly.

The restrained partner is likely to enjoy the tightness and closeness. The cling of the material also creates deep erotic sensual excitement. Kinkier connoisseurs can take the fetish up a higher notch by wrapping the head completely leaving the nose and mouth for easy breathing. The nipples and genitals are left bare for more sensory play. Use your fingers or vibrators to tease and explore your partner’s most erogenous parts. The erotic element of this fetish is not only in the immobilization and control but also in the dangers that can come from cling wrapping. This fetish is ideal for experienced bondage members and needs the maximum attention of the dominant throughout the play.

Baby, I’m in Chains

Chains and shackles are common BDSM toys used by bondage champion chains to spice up their BDSM play. Chains fetishes are for bondage games such as prison guard and an inmate or hostage and capturer fetish. Metal handcuffs, chains, and hooks have distinct erotic slants. They are difficult to escape on and render the sub at the dominant partner’s control and mercy. Chains create an aesthetic bondage look that is visually enticing and pleasing. Seeing your partner restricted in hard metals as the soft skin is tightly compressed is actually a huge turn-on.

Chains have a distinctive clinking when fastened. Bondage chains are used to keep the sub-partner in an immobilized position. The dominant can tease, whip, or even penetrate their partner with ease while restricted. However, chain fetishes call for high trust levels between partners. Engage in chain bondage with a trusted partner to avoid getting abused when shackled up and completely vulnerable. Communication is important before you go full-on dungeon with chains. Creating a safe word or sign promotes safety during bondage play.

A Reason to Love Vacuuming

Vacuum beds or latex vacuums bring about a unique fetish that is likely to spark your erotic BDSM life. Vacuum beds are unique kits that are very effective in bondage restraining. Submissive partners who like being fully restrained and immobilized should try this specialist piece of kit with their partners. Latex vacuum beds come with latex bags that get airtight and close with your sub inside. Air is then sucked out using a suction pump creating a vacuum. The latex body bag clings tightly on all the curves of the restrained partner. The vacuum bags come with a breathing tube that links the mouth to the outside.

Vacuum beds have two erotic benefits; they enhance visual arousal. Seeing your partner totally restricted in a latex bad enhances aesthetic pleasure in the dominant partner. The restrained partner experiences the thrill of being totally immobilized, isolated, and being left in darkness. This enhances sensitivity in other parts, as simple touch or lick is exaggerated and leads to intense stimulations. This fetish carries lots of risks. The dominant partner should always monitor and never leave the partner alone. Attentive aftercare is essential with this fetish play.

Knot for The Faint-Hearted

Rope bondage is a unique fetish that came from the Japanese rope arts. Bondage has been elevated to art form using the kibanku and shibari rope practices.  Shibari and kibanku relate to the BDSM aesthetic pleasures of totally restricting the sub with a rope tied in firm elaborate ornate knots. Kibanku rope art refers to the sensual eroticism that comes from elegant rope play. It covers the sensation the material offers on the skin, the exertion of control, immobility, and vulnerability of the sub-partner. Feed your rope bondage fetishes with this rope art. Dramatic suspension knots can be used to take things up a notch.

Conclusion

Bondage play covers sex tips and sex advice for even better intimacy and many fetishes that couples can try to spice their erotic moments. Beginners to bondage should always start with simple sex accessories that provide softer erotic sensations. If you like any of the above kinky fetishes, turn your fantasies into reality by trying them out. Have fun while tied up but ensure you practice safe play for more bondage pleasures.