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by Katie Peachesa April 14, 2020 2 min read

Delayed Orgasm Makes For Delicious Orgasm

By Tatyana Dyachenko

Delaying orgasm is recommended for many reasons. It may be that you are looking to extend your performance time, increase your pleasure or experiment with new techniques - whatever your motivation, putting it off usually ramps it up!

Third Time Lucky

If you are truly in tune with your partner’s sexual responses, you will be able to sense exactly how close they are and when they are beginning to orgasm. This will take sensitivity and practice and is unlikely to occur with someone who is not a regular partner. You can also encourage your partner to tell you what is happening for them; it can be very sexy to hear them talk about the build up of their orgasm!

Slowing down or releasing some of the pressure on the genitals when they are about to cum can be exciting as long as you don’t leave it too late: if the orgasm has passed the point of no return they are likely to carry on moving even if you are intending to stop! If you do stop at the right moment, don’t release contact entirely as this may be too much of a shock. Carry on with gentle stroking or thrusts as their intensity subsides slightly, and then build back up again. This can be repeated up to three times - more than this can start to cause frustration - and on the third occasion let them go for it! They will have a mind-blowing orgasm.

Multiple Orgasms

Men may eventually be able to train themselves to have orgasms without ejaculating through this method. This will enable them to carry on to further orgasms during the session or to continue orgasming. Women can learn to decrease the time gap between orgasms and have more or ongoing orgasms in one session. Pelvic floor exercises, performed by both women and men, can help strengthen muscles and improve ability to orgasm more strongly and frequently. Remembering to continue with breathing or to deepen or quicken breathing while experimenting with orgasm can also heighten ability. As with all sexual techniques, practising while alone will help to develop skill.

Don’t obsess

Making orgasm the only focus of sex can be a turn off and can dissuade the body from orgasming at all – so don’t make it the be-all-and-end-all. Experimenting should be fun and success should be judged upon whether sex between partners increases pleasure, communication and understanding, not on whether you cum or how many times.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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