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July 27, 2022 5 min read

FEMALE ORGASM DAY IS FOR EXPLORING

The Female Orgasm Day has been set aside for the women in Brazil, and other women worldwide can join in to enjoy their sexuality. On female orgasm day, you should celebrate the day by having a solo play as a woman. You should get a mirror to find out what a vagina looks like, find your clitoris, and find other erogenous body parts to explore yourself.

Orgasm day is every day. The Female Orgasm Day on August 8 was officially made a holiday in Brazil by councilman Arimateio Dantas to create awareness about female sexuality. A 'sexual debt inspired it.' Women all over the world can celebrate female orgasm day. A day to focus on orgasm forces the world to pay attention to the female orgasm. Llyod (2009) stated that Some women have believed that having fun during sex is all about pleasing the man, refers to as bias toward male sexuality. It does not matter whether they enjoy sex. Some have to fake orgasms because the men expect them to have orgasms. But cheers for the International Day of the Female Orgasm. You should spend the orgasm day exploring in the following ways;

Get A Mirror and Find Out How The Vagina Looks Like

Some women have no idea what their partners see when they look at their vaginas, and you need to get out of that circle. Get a mirror and see what yours looks like. Exploring orgasm starts with understanding what our bodies look like, especially the part responsible for the ultimate pleasure. The vagina may not be the most aesthetically beautiful part of your body, but it is beautiful for its role. Appreciate it.

Find Your Clitoris

Some women have never experienced a vaginal orgasm, but they know what an orgasm feels like because they have experienced a clitoral orgasm. The clitoral, also known as the clit or the bean, has numerous nerve endings responsible for the pleasure you experience when you stimulate it properly. When you straddle your partner and riding him seems extra pleasurable, the clitoris is the part that is causing most of the pleasure. Chalker (2018) stated that therapists give women recommendations on how to get their sexual excitement and that the most important recommendation is to get acquainted with their genital anatomy.

Find Other Erogenous Parts

You may use your sex toy to stimulate your erogenous zones. Your partner may help you using a sex toy. You may have some lube. Explore your body

Find other spots that you have that may feel good. Comfort (2003) suggested that you could touch your nipples, your vulva, your clitoris, and your ears and tour the areas with your fingers and sex toys. The exploration usually ends at the vagina with the vulva and clitoris like your vagina because it is the part that unites all the erogenous parts of your body.

Kick out The Shame and Guilt

When you take your mirror to see what your vagina looks like for the first time, you must have felt shame because you have grown your whole life knowing that your vagina does not need any special attention. You probably believe that your vagina belongs to your partner. You know about masturbation- that it is a bad thing. Masturbation is not bad. It is self-love, and you love your body, and that's why self-pleasuring is as much fun. It's not only about masturbation. Some women believe that sex is dirty. You may need to consult a therapist to replace the feelings of guilt and shame with wanting pleasure if you feel this about sex.

Masturbate

When exploring the bodies, masturbation is the end game. You will not look at your beautiful self in the mirror and not have the chance to feel pleased with yourself. People will do the following for a great self-pleasuring session;

Clean up

The room needs to be cleaned so that the place is comfortable, and you need to jump into the shower to feel great. People feel sexy when they get naked, and that's the mood you need in your bed. Besides, how would you feel in a sexy mood if your room is dirty and you smell sweet? Clean up before any sexual activities.

Lock The Door

No one wants to be disrupted when having a great time, and no one wants to be burst legs apart with fingers and toys. It is not about wanting to keep your masturbation a secret but privacy. Having your own space to enjoy your privacy can allow you to feel comfortable and more confident than you would be if you could not lock the door. It also lets you have time for yourself.

No phones

You are having a 'me-time. It would help if you did not let people distract you with other issues through the phone. It is orgasm day, and you only want to focus on one person- you. If you want the phone to view erotic stuff, keep the airplane mode on so that you may not get an emergency call while you are almost climaxing.

Touch Your Body

Hite (2003) advised that you could touch every part of your body and stimulate yourself by touching the erogenous parts. You could go straight to getting the dildo and start thrusting, but when you are masturbating, stimulation and getting arousal are important as they would have been if you were having sex with a partner. You may want a quickie with your lube tube for excitement, but it is an international orgasm day. People have all day to be excited and take their time having fun. Touch the vagina too. The best way to touch yourself is to imagine that your fingers do not belong to you. Insert your fingers gently, then increase the speed as the sensation gets more pleasurable. You may get the toys involved too. Remember to enjoy the moment and not focus too much on having an orgasm. It may be orgasm day, but you do not have to get it, so do not force it. Instead, enjoy the journey.

Conclusion

Sex is no longer a taboo. People talk about it and even think of ways to make it better. Brazil gave an international day for the female orgasm to be celebrated every year on August 8. What will the woman who does not experience orgasm do on that day? That's the day they ought to know that women worldwide are eager to take a trip across and inside their bodies to achieve the most pleasure. It's an orgasm day, after all. Every woman should have a day aside to have an orgasm day, and she can have that every day. That's even better.

References

Chalker, R. (2018). The Clitoral Truth. Seven Stories Press.

Comfort, A. (2003). The Joy Of Sex. Simon And Schuster.

Lloyd, E. A. (2009). The Case Of The Female Orgasm: Bias In The Science Of Evolution. Harvard University Press.

Hite, S. (2003). The Hite Report: A Nationwide Study Of Female Sexuality. Seven Stories Press.

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