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by Katie Peachesa April 15, 2020 10 min read

Fleshlight Ultimate Buyers Guide – What You Need To Know

By Ekaterina Mironova

Are you considering buying a Fleshlight male masturbator but are a little unsure exactly what they are or what they do? This buyers guide was designed to help explain everything there is to know about Fleshlight sex toys, what they are, what they do, where you can buy from, and how to use them. By the end of this guide you will have all the information at your fingertips to make an informed decision on whether the Fleshlight sex toys are for you?

What Is A Fleshlight Male Sex Toy

Fleshlight STUIn an era where vibrators have been championed as a means for female sexual freedom and enjoyment, male sex products have remained something of a dirty, unwanted cousin to their female counterparts. By providing a quality, discreet, and tasteful product, we hope to change these perceptions and help bring the topic of male sexuality into the light of legitimacy and reason. With AIDS, violence, and unwanted pregnancy at epidemic levels, there is reason to be cautious. The Fleshlight sex toy will provide an outlet to express your fantasies and impulses in a safe, but highly pleasurable environment!

Fleshlight male sex toys are used by all types of guys worldwide. Whether you are single, in a relationship, gay or straight Fleshlight have a wide variety of products that suit everyones needs. Fleshlight sex toys replicate that of a real womans anatomy which not only teach and educate guys on how to have sex, but provide unrivaled sexual pleasure which stands out above any of its closest competitors.

Why Should I Buy A Fleshlight Male Sex Toy

When it comes to buying a Fleshlight we get alot of questions from our readers on why they should actually man up and buy a sex toy? After surveying a number of readers on our Google+ profile we have compiled a list of the top 5 reasons why every guy should own one.

You’re in complete control – Whenever you want, however you like, the Fleshlight sexual gratification alternative is there to fulfill your sexual fantasies and meet your desires. Whether you’re at work, uni or just waiting for your girl to get home from work, Fleshlight have the largest range of textures and profiles that no matter what your current situation, you can satisfy your sexual needs whenever they occur.

Nothing is closer to the real thing – Fleshlight is soft, pliable, non-vibrating SuperSkin sleeve has been designed to provide the most realistic intercourse simulation known to man. Fleshlight materials are protected by worldwide patents, which means no other sex toy comes as close to the real deal and never will.

Improve stamina & performance – Whether you’re a real Casanova or just a rookie to the game, there is always room for improvement in the bedroom. Test your skills, practice new techniques, and test how long you can last in one of our specially designed inserts, created for maximum sensation. The stamina training unit has been tested and trialled with hundreds of guys. If you can last 10 to 15mins with the STU, you could last up to 30mins with a real woman (or man).
Practice safe sex – The Fleshlight was created in part, to address the risks associated with promiscuity, the spread of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), and unwanted pregnancy. Whether you’re having trouble finding a safe partner or waiting for the right one to come along, the Fleshlight offers a safe and satisfying means for expressing your sexuality & there fun.

Lifetime of pleasure – With proper use and care, the Fleshlight will last you a lifetime. If only it were that easy with real sexual partners. Fleshlgiht have specifically designed care products such as the official Fleshlight anti-bacterial spray and renewing powder. Proper care will expand the life of your prized investment.

I’m A Virgin, What Fleshlight Sex Toy Is Right For Me

If you are a virgin, or have limited sexual experiance Fleshlight have introduced a number of great sex toys and options that will help get you started on your sexual journey.

Option 1 – With over half a million sold to date, alot of first time users and virgins chose the Fleshlight Original Pink Lady. With 3 different textures to choose from – Lotus (vagina), Swallow (mouth) and Forbidden (butt). The Pink Lady Fleshlight range was the first line of sex toys for men with the initial thought that they would replicate the anatomy of a real woman.

Option 2 – Ever since the Fleshlgiht Stamina Training Unit was created, men from around the world have flocked in by the thousands to get their hands on the STU. With the thought that a sex toy for males could help guys learn to control premature ejaculation and help build stamina, The STU has and always will be a popular option for not only virgins, but any guy looking for a little help in the bedroom.

When you start using Fleshlight male sex toys, you are going to have feelings you have never experiance before. Don’t worry to much, these feeling may take some time to get used to, but rest assured they are completely normal. In the wonderful world of sex, never give up! You can never have enough practise in hopes to be the best lover possible.

Which Fleshlight Insert Is Right For Me

This is one question we get more than any other into our inbox. I wish we could provide an answer for this question but unfortunatly we can not. Every guy is different and has different fantasies and thoughts to what stimulates them personally. To help you make an informed decision, please consider the following factors.

Penis Length & Girth – When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your penis’s girth which is equally important to it’s length. When erect, the average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of approximately 4-5 inches. Refer to the illustration on the right for an explanation on how to measure your penis’s length and girth. Use of a measuring tape is suggested for taking the most accurate measurements. The correct measurement can make the difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight experience. Choosing too small of an insert diameter will result in discomfort during use, while too large of an insert diameter will offer a less sensational experience.

Choosing Your Inner Texture & Orifice

The first thing you need to consider is the Fleshlight insert color. This is a fairly easy decision which involves simply choosing whatever color suits your needs. When choosing ice color, you are really selecting ‘no color’. When you select ice, just remember that the lack of pigment leaves the ice inserts slightly stickier than the rest so it’s important to follow the correct cleaning procedures. Make sure to choose an ice case, if you decide on an ice insert to experiance the full pleasure and stimulation ice offers.

Next, you will need to decide on the orifice, which is the external appearance of the Fleshlight inner insert. Choose the orifice that is the most visually appealing to you. The lady (vagina) is the most popular choice, followed by the butt. The mouth is chosen by men who prefer the experience of a blowjob over other sexual acts. However, there are a few minor differences to point out. The butt orifice is the thinnest of the three, letting you get to the inner texture sooner, and the lady has the largest opening allowing for easier access. At the end of the day it is really a personal preference to what you prefer.

The final and most important step is to choose the correct sensation. Do you prefer a textured or smooth insert? How tight do you like it? Refer to the size chart above and descriptions below to help you to decide.

Fleshlight Girls Range & Options

Get inside today’s hottest adult stars. Stoya, Jenna Haze, Lisa Ann, Bibi Jones, Tori Black, Jessica Drake, Alexis Texas, Teagan Presley, Asa Akira, Jesse Jane, Misty Stone, Riley Steele, Tera Patrick, Kayden Kross, Katsuni, and Nina Hartley. Available in realistic flesh tone color with our popular Lotus texture or the all new unique signature line of textures. Each custom-molded Fleshlight Girls masturbation sleeve is an exact mold of each star’s most intimate parts. Every Fleshlgiht Girl featured in the range has featured in numerous adult movies and is well known across the world. No matter who your favourite porn star is, Fleshlgiht give you the opportunity to get up close and personal like you never could have imagined.

I Am Uncircumsized – What Fleshlight Do You Recommend

Many uncut men have expressed their love for the Fleshlight, with little to no problems at all. It is important to use an adequate amount of lubrication. Uncut men have stressed the importance that the more you use the smoother the experience. Some uncut men have suggested the use of bands/rings or even a condom to keep the foreskin tightly pulled back. While this is suggested by some, this is certainly not necessary and use of a condom is never required.

What Is The Difference Between Fleshlights

This is the insert that started it all! The Original Fleshlight canal is 3/4″ (19mm) diameter and untextured. By untextured we mean smooth. Due to it liberal size, well-endowed and uncircumcised men tend to prefer this insert. If you have aggressively masturbated with your hand for a long time, then you might have noticed a decrease in penis sensitivity. The Original is a great way to transition away from your hand and regain penis sensitivity so you can once again train your penis to enjoy sex.

Fleshlight Sex In A Can

The Sex In A Can is a lighter, smaller version of the Fleshlight that makes for easy carrying and storing. The inside canal is a 1/2″ (13 mm) diameter and textured similar to the Wonder Wave, with the waves being fatter and slightly more separated. This is a good change for the frequent user who is well rehearsed with the full size Fleshlight sex toy. Not only is the insert tighter, but the orifice is smaller too. The SIAC can easily be controlled with just one hand and it’s decreased weight makes it easier to maneuver and hold for long periods of time. The whole can itself measures approximately 7 inches (178 mm) in length, compared to the normal 10 inch (254 mm) Fleshlight case. The size of the SIAC makes it favored by less endowed men. An additional difference is that the bottom of the can has a hole in it, not a screw on cap. You can regulate the suction easily by covering it with your finger.

Stamina Training Unit

Often compared to the Speed Bump, which also has a 1/2″ canal diameter, the STU is designed to provide an extremely pleasurable and challenging venue for those seeking to practice techniques and improve sexual stamina in the bedroom. As you enter the STU you will notice the smooth pillow like texture massaging your penis, however as you get closer to the point of orgasm your penis naturally expands increasing the sensation of the texture, and magnifying intensity.

The purpose of providing this challenge is to allow you to learn to recognize when you are going to orgasm and provide experience in delaying the process should you desire. The Speed Bump in contrast is an extreme sensation throughout the whole use, right from the start. The STU is also reported to feel a lot gentler than the enhanced inserts on uncut men, especially on the way out. The STU bumps rub you on the way in, but the ridges really grab your penis on the way out. The STU has been described as feeling like “little fingers” tickling your penis in an unbelievably intense way. The STU canal is 1/2″ (13 mm) and has a completely unique texture.

The first of a new class of insert sleeves that feature not only incredibly stimulating textures, but also variance in canal diameter, the four spiraled chambers of the Vortex will bring you to never before seen pleasures. The Vortex Fleshlight has been in production for over a year. The Vortex insert was designed to create a mesmerizing combination of suction, texture, and an unforgettable squeeze as you pass through each pleasure chamber.


In designing the Lotus texture (vagina), Fleshlight had one goal in mind; to create the absolute most realistic vaginal intercourse sensation possible. The Lotus begins with our smooth ultra tight entry, then blossoms into a slightly wider, more comfortable canal, exactly like its human counterpart.

An inverted node awaits a few inches inside, further adding to the complex fantasy as it simulates the subtle sensation of brushing the cervix. To help finish you off, four tightly spaced chambers await you at the end of the insert. Built to provide the most sensitive part of your member with continued sensations. If you want to know what its like to have sex with your fantasy girl, nothing will bring you closer than the Lotus texture!

Final Thoughts On Fleshlight Male Sex Toys

You found this page for a reason! You are searching for something to help lighten up your relationship or to help expand on your solo masturbation sessions. No matter what your goals are with male sex toys, Fleshlight has you covered.

Recommended Fleshlight Girls

Teagan Presley Primal Fleshlight Girls Vagina Male Masturbator

Teagan Presley Primal Fleshlight Girls Vagina Male Masturbator

Wrap your meat up in some Teagan Presley when playtime comes by getting your hands on the Porn Star Teagan Presley Primal Fleshlight Girls Realistic Stretchy Vagina Masturbator for Men. Modeled from Teagan Presley’s intimate folds, the fleshlight is designed to give you a reason to enjoy every second spent getting yourself off. The inside of the fleshlight has an amazing design with intensively stimulating chambers, each designed to tease and rub your dick in a different and amazing way. Once you put your dick in, you are immediately delighted by the texture of the fleshlight and the further in you go the better the feel, having you dip it all in just to get the whole dick feeling amazing. The fleshlight has a whopping 12 inch insertion length, making sure that you get to have your whole dong caressed and massaged as you stroke up and down. The sleeve has a great texture that allows for easy handling and grip, making sure that the masturbator does not slip from your hands in the throes of passion as you lose yourself in the feeling. To get you going, just use some water based lubricant and dip into the sensations that will have you closing your eyes as intense pleasure waves take a hold of your body. After you are done, enjoy a quick cleanup as the masturbator is easy to clean, only requiring hot soapy water and toy cleaner. Enjoy every second with this masturbator and watch as your orgasms take a hold of you whether you are rubbing one out yourself or your partner is helping.

Specifications of Porn Star Teagan Presley Primal Fleshlight Girls Realistic Stretchy Vagina Masturbator for Men

Length : 10 Inches
Washing : Hot soapy water and toy cleaner
Insertable : 9 to 12 inches
Diameter : 4 Inches
Colour : Flesh
Flexibility : Very
For Who : Male
Brand : Fleshlight Masturbators
Size : 10 Inches
Opening : Vagina

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.

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