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by Katie Peachesa January 11, 2021 4 min read

Full BDSM Guide to metal bondage sex toys

BDSM activities involve restraining your partner for erotic stimulation.  The act of using restraints on someone can be stimulating, and it can make the experience more pleasurable. In this article, we'll be discussing a practical guide to metal bondage sex toys. Below are the reasons why metal bondage sex toys are good:

  • They are more restrictive than other bondage sex toys.
  • It is more durable than other types of sex toys.
  • You can use it for temperature play
  • They are easier to clean and sterilize than other types of bondage sex toys.

Guide to using Metal Bondage Sex Toys

Add a blindfold.

You can add a blindfold to build tension and increase sexual stimulation. With a blindfold on, other senses are more sensitive,making the experience more intense and exciting.

Trust and communication are key

BDSM activities require communication because it implies a surrender of control by a restrained partner to the dominant partner. Before you begin, it's essential to implement a safe word. It ensures that there's trust, andsaying the safe word will stop the play immediately.  When you are using safe words, sometimes saying no might not be enough. Safe words are words you don't say on a typical day, and they are usually random. They are random, so when your partner says it, you have to stop what you are doing immediately. That's why trust and communication areessential when you are using safe words. You have to be honest about how youfeel and immediately say the safe word when you feel uncomfortable.

Choose your position carefully

Often, people feel pressured to be either submissive or dominant in BDSM activities. If you are a beginner, thisis irrelevant.You might find that you prefer one type to the other. Your partner may choose to be the dominant one, and you hate being the submissive. So rather than sticking to a particular side, why don't you try out both sides to see what appeals to you? You can also decide to switch between both sides, depending on your mood and your partner's wants. There's nothing wrong with switching between both sides as long as you choose a position that's comfortable for you and your partner.

Use Handcuffs

Handcuffs are commonbandage sex toys you can use to spice up the activity. They are also easy to use, and you don't have to worry about tying them together. The metal handcuffs are the best to use for BDSM activities.

Always keep it simple

When you are using bondage sex toys, you should start with the simple ones. Don't make things complicated using a lot of tools, which can be distracting.

Test before trying it out on your partner.

Beforeusing any bondage sex toy on your partner, it's essential to try it out in a non-sexual setting. It's important to know how to use it safely without causing harm or injury to your partner, especially if you are using handcuffs. When you are using handcuffs, always leave a gap between the handcuffs and your partner's skin; if it's tighter, it will limit blood circulation, leading to injury.

Have an emergency BDSM first aid kit.

Safety is essential when you are using a BDSM sex toy. Ensure you have an emergency first aid kit during any BDSM activity. For example, lubricantsfor sex toys and spare keys for your handcuffs. You will need things if things go wrong.

Use Lube

It's important to use lubricants on your sex toys before use. Once you have purchased thesex toy you want, apply a drop of lubricant before use. Ensure the lubricant is compatible with your sex toy. The best option is the water-based lubricants. They are suitable for all kinds of material. It doesn't stick to any material, and it is long-lasting, so you don't have to keep re-applying.

Take it Slow

For you to have a pleasurable experience, it's necessary to start slow. If you are a beginner, you want first to explore what turns you on and how.  So, it's important to start slowly   or use it slowly on your partner. Rushing it can make the situation awkward and painful. 

Always take safety precautions

Safety should be a top priority when using metal, bondage sex toys. It can lead to long term damage if things go the wrong way. The last thing you want is to take your partner to the emergency room during role play. When using a metal bondage sex toy, ensure you avoid some areas on the body that can harm you. Also, practice before using it on your partner. It will ensure your partner does not get injured in the process.

Clean the toys after use

Metal bondage sex toys are easy to clean. Like other sex toys, metal bondage sex toys require cleansing, especially after use. You should clean them according to the material they have.  If you have a wooden paddle, you can clean them with warm soapy water. You should also check for splinters before use. For leather paddles, you should wipe them down gently. Do not submerge them into water. You should always check the instructions for proper ways to clean paddles.

Always Buy Safe Equipment

There are different types of metal bondage sex toys, so it's important to buy safe equipment. You can buy them from a physical sex store or an online store. With an online store, you have different options for sellers to choose from. Ensure your research and ensure you are only buying from a legitimate online store and read the product description before buying it.

Conclusion

Metal bondage sex toys aremade of metal, and they are used to restrain a person who is usually the sub in the role play. They are easy to clean and use.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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