Women are more spiritual than men almost in every aspect of life and sex is no exception to the rule. Foreplay is the first stage of sex which incites sexual arousal before intercourse. Oral sex (cunnilingus when performed on a female) is the most popular foreplay, but it’s not always acceptable from all women. The purpose of this article is to suggest some ways in order to get your girlfriend let you go down on her.
To begin with, let’s see why women don’t like oral sex… Like I mentioned above, women are spiritual, so they tend to over-analyze a situation. Especially in emotional matters, they take everything too seriously! So when it comes to oral sex, they never feel comfortable letting a man go down there! First of all, oral sex is still regarded as taboo by many women because it used to be a taboo in many cultures, so they subconsciously feel that they do something bad.
Secondly, some women believe that oral sex is kind of “dirty” or “kinky”, so they won’t let their man do it so that their relationship doesn’t seem meaningless. Thirdly, the majority of women (especially the less experienced ones) don’t like their own vagina!
They don’t think it’s attractive, so they don’t want men to have a close look at it. Last but not least, women, feel exposed when a man go down on them, they feel like they don’t have control of the situation which causes anxiety to them.
Now, let’s talk about what a man can do to calm his woman down before the foreplay. The best way to make a woman feel comfortable in bed is to always compliment her about her body. Show her how much you like her body, touch and kiss every inch of her body, so that she will realize that her body is beautiful. In the beginning, she may not let you kiss her everywhere, work your way down… You have to be smooth and subtle! Once she feels attractive, she’s going to let you do more to her.
Talking is also an effective way to let her know how much you want her… Instead of doing things to her, you can tell her what you want to do to her. But you must be careful, you shouldn’t get too “dirty” or too romantic…The solution is somewhere in the middle, whisper in her ear what you have in mind, let her know what you’re willing to do in order to satisfy her…Remember that women fall in love with what they hear!
Another way to make her feel good about her is to make her feel safe. You should already know that women love to feel safe when they’re with a man! If you can provide a safe environment, she’ll be willing to do more things for you to “thank you”, then you can negotiate for your prize.
To sum up, women are way more complicated than men. Their state of mind is not always easy to figure out and their psychology is a puzzle! When it comes to sex life, women want to feel safe and they hate it when somebody finds their weaknesses, so men should always be alert in order to satisfy their needs. Some things are still considered as taboo by women such as oral sex and only when they feel good about it, they will let men touch this sensitive area!
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