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by Katie Peachesa February 16, 2021 4 min read

Guide To Bedroom Bondage Kits

Are you willing to spice up your sex life a bit more? Do you want to understand what you have to do and what you don't? Here's everything you need to know about the first bondage toy.

What is Bondage

Well, BDSM involves sensual binding, tying, or restraining your partner for satisfying erotic or tactile stimulation. Many people experiment with bondage without knowing how to express this subject to their partners. Before you jump to it, put an idea to your partner's mind that you want to try this. Getting used to the picture could change your partner's perspective. With distinctively picked lingerie and sex toys, you can be able to break your bedroom boundaries.

Why Bondage is Alluring

People bondages for so many reasons. Restraints give you so many excitements and adrenaline activity that boosts your sensuality while playing. Blindfolds raise sensitivity to your other body parts. That activates your brain more to the feeling of joy and excitement.

Misconceptions of Bondage

Bondage can be a very romantic way to express your love and to enhance your love life. Bondage is like tasting new curries. So, what are you waiting for to jump into the world of curries?

At this point, you can relate bondage to spicy and hot food. Many could find spicy hot foods challenging to eat. It depends on your taste what you like to eat that suits your preference best.

At the beginner level, you will go for sweet and tasty foods. Like in a curry home, no one will force you to taste the spicy one for the first time. You are free to take what you want. If you're going to stick to the same food every day, it will fail to charm you after a specific period.

Communication is The Key

Bedroom bondage games are based on complete trust. Your partner can give you full joy while tied up. It depends on the communicating skills between you and your partner. Just a single safety word would determine full surrender.

We all have a safety word for all kinds of sex. That is common, 'No.' But sometimes, the safety word can be dangerous to the beginner. They might think it will be going to be a scary play. In this case of fetish playing, the term 'NO' could not be enough.

It is the point, and a fetish play can be incredibly romantic. You are giving yourself to your partner. It will help to create trust and build a stronger relationship. It can be sensual and romantic in the same way.

The couples that have enriched relationships are mostly honest. Sharing everything with your partner you desire can improve your relationship in a different way than any other thing. So, don't hesitate to role-play.

Careful in Choosing Position

After finalizing the decision of the first try, couples get confused about labeling their position. First-timers become confused to be submissive or dominant.

There are some irrelevant notions about this subject. Many men think that they are privileged to get dominant every time. Often it is noticed that women hate to get subbed every time. But there should be no discrimination, especially for the be. Beginners should try both characters at their first stages.

Besides these two options, there is an entire third way to explore. That is to switch positions. Many people might not have done this experiment in their whole sexual life. It will be enjoyed by those who like to flip during playing. Switching will help you to expertise in playing and getting more pleasure from it. There's nothing wrong with being sub and dom simultaneously; re-explore your sex life.

Try it First

While doing something new, be the first to approach. It helps you and your partner to ease the situation. Volunteering it first is a great idea.

You can try it by asking to wear blindfolds or want to take a massage. It could be anything, but it will surely encourage your partner to do so. Appreciate your partner after the play. Tell your partner how you enjoyed it when you were blindfolded or tied up. Say about your needs; it works as reverse psychology. That way, They will try to do better the very next time. Along with your partner, you will discover your fantasies.

Start Simply

Don't load up too many tools at your very first step. That will complicate things unnecessarily by distracting rather than enhancing. For beginners, it is wise to start with simple things like blindfolding.

When someone's view is blocked, their other organs start sensing more. All other body parts become highly sensitive to touch response. It enhances sensitivity during special moments. Here bondage plays a psychological game through physical acts. Simple massaging can be very sensible and pleasurable if put on blindfolds. A lot of people think about spikes, leather chains after hearing about bondage. But this simple but powerful thing blindfold can change their thoughts.

Blindfolds create a barrier to bring your partner closer to you. Blindfolds can boost your confidence too. You do not have to worry about your facial expression while performing. You have total control over your partner while being blindfolded. Just mind partners body language. You will see how your partner reacts to every touch without making eye contact.

You can experience it further by adding hot and cold play. All you need is ice to warm up your sensuality. Hot honey could also be a great option. There is another soft sensual appeal gearing accessory is lingeries. Beginners could do it all without shop accessories.

Bondage Restraints

Restrain your partner's hand just where you want them to be. Using handcuffs or straps, you can take control to get the real BDSM pleasure. Use your hands to see where your erotic mind wants to play in your partner's tied up body. You can use a shirt tie or stockings to tie up.

People want to take the benefit of the chances. Bondage gives you the real possibility of getting the ultimate opportunity to heat the game. Knowing it will help you enjoy sex more and relax.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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