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by Katie Peachesa February 18, 2021 4 min read

Guide To Bondage Tips And Under Bed Restraints

Bondage bedroom is the darkest pleasure that sounds exciting and dangerous at the same time. Couples usually do it to spice up their sex life. Bed restraints are a kinky way to do that. But all the equipment is not made equal, so you need to a lookout. To have the best output from it, you should not be clumsy because it is so good that it hurts.

What Are Under Bed Restraints

Under-bed restraints are made for bondage roleplaying. One partner gets dominant on another and ties submissive to the bed to dominate. These bondages are usually made of leather straps in the shape of the letter 'X'. These straps are adjustable to any bed with rings in the end to cuff clipped. The whole process is within your bed and mattresses. You are strapping up around mattresses and the rest on top of the bed. After playing, you can put aside the cuffs only if you use it as a letter 'X' shape type.

Advantage

Versatility: Bed restrains more multi-tasking friendly than the handcuffs. It allows tying every four limbs of your partner. Restraints like this give you the real BDSM sensations.

Ease of Use: They are quicker to tie and remove. Other restraints like handcuffs or rope took too much time.

Ease Set Up: You don't need to drill your walls or attach anything with the bed. On the other hand, it works on all types of beds. All you have to do is to put it under your mattress, and there you go.

Mobility: The bed restraint pack is straightforward to carry. It could be quickly taken in a car while going on holiday. At home, you can rack it up in a cupboard or storage.

Two Main Type of Mattress Restraints

There are two main types of mattress restraints. They are X type and The Double Strap Type.

The X Type

This strap kit has four straps. Four straps lead a single joint directed to the middle of the bed, under the mattress. All the straps are easily adjustable. To fulfill desire, Loosen or tighten it as your partner's limbs allow for stretching. This strapping style is very tricky to position accurately under the mattress. You can decide by setting up the strap how far your partner's limbs you want to stretch.

With the fast-removing system, you can quickly switch positions after completing the bondage session. There is no hurry to remove everything or packing a lot. It is handy for sudden fancy tying up.

The Double Strap Type

The double strap type restraint system has two sets of straps that are disconnected. The bottom side straps for the ankles, and the top side are for the wrists.

This strap style has a significant advantage. You don't have to pull the whole mattress. Just lift the two ends. It is even more comfortable to put on. The disadvantage of this style is that you cannot adjust the width. If your partner is shorter, then they may be very far.

On the contrary, if your partner is taller, then they may be too close. Another point is you have to remove it after every play session. Unlike the X type, you must remove it physically and pack the whole set.

 

Set Up Under Bed Restraints

It is an easy process to set up under bed restraints. First, lift the mattress and set the cross in the middle where all other straps join. Then lay the straps to four corners of the bed. Lay back the mattress on the cross strapped in the center. Careful with the restraints, don't scatter them. Now your bed is on the restraints, do it in your way. Put the mattress corner and get the restraints nylon strap. Place the end of the strap on the mattress and clip it with the leather bondage cuffs. Do the same with the other straps. You have to slide two ends of the mattress and clip straps with the double strap type cuffs.

A safe bondage experience starts with good communication. You should know some points to cover your first bondage experience.

Sexual Comfort Level

It is not easy to know your comfort level. Specifically, when you are new to the task, you must take some preparation. It might be that you are not comfortably handcuffed, but you like staying blindfolded during playing. Take it; risks could dig deeper into your bandage to explore your comfort levels.

Share Sexual Fantasies

Share deeper, darker fantasies with your partner. Don't embarrass yourself or your partner by asking for too much. This sexual conversation will help to discover your feel about bondage to your partner.

Have an Open Mind

Free your mind; you are going to enter a deeply passionate, sexy world. Be open to your partner's interests. Make yourself comfortable, just like trying new foods.

Submissive vs. Dominant

Fix your roles in the game. An open discussion could lead you both to deeper sexual desires. No one's role here is prominent. A gentle person in public can be dominant in private and vice versa. If there is confusion to roleplaying, then try to experience both. Don't stick to the same role that would make the game monotonous in the long run. If possible, change it throughout the whole night; no one is stopping you from that.

Pillow Talk

After sex, you both lying breathlessly and exhausted. Don't just leave the bed immediately; cuddle up and talk. Express to your partner your appreciation, discomfort. That will help you get a better result in the next bondage.

Who knew research would help you getting something you are looking for? Just don't try to overthink and take whatever advice you get. There is no perfect technique. In the end, it's you who will get answers from yourself. Remember one thing, never use porn as your teacher. Porn is not real; the actors are just acting in the video. It is wise to avoid porn for the first-time bondage experience.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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