Guide to Pegging (Female to Male Strap On Sex)

Guide to Pegging (Female to Male Strap On Sex)

By Elena Ognivtseva

Strap on sex for men isn't solely for males who struggle to achieve or maintain an erection. The art of pegging (where a woman wears a strap on dildo to penetrate the male anus and have female to male strap-on intercourse) has become increasingly popular lately. Heterosexual men are more inclined than ever before to allow the prostate gland (located approximately 2 inches inside the inner wall of the anus) to be stimulated. As the prostate (P-spot) is linked to the testicles and the penis, when this gland is stimulated, all parts of the genitals will be affected which can lead to some incredibly powerful orgasms.

If pegging is something that both you and your partner would be happy to try out, select an appropriate strap on dildo and a good quality anal lubricant. The best strap on dildos for beginners to pegging are those that are slim and come with a tapered end to make insertion an easier process. The Beginners Strap-On (priced at £29.97) comes with a soft jelly dong that is narrower at the end for easy entry and slightly angled for p-spot pleasures. Likewise, the Sportsheets New Comers Kit is also designed for pegging. The four way adjustable harness comes with a 4.5 inch long, 1.25 inch wide silicone dildo included which has a smooth rounded tip and a soft yet firm consistency for easier penetration. More experienced anal play users might want to try something that has more girth or comes with multispeed vibrations.

Men aren't the only ones who can feel the benefits from pegging. The female penetrating partner can also experience wonderful sensations when pegging with a strapless strap on (which fits inside the vagina arousing the G-spot) or from wearing a strap on harness that comes with a pocket at the front for a removable bullet vibrator to stimulate the clitoris. The Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Strapless Strap-on (priced at £39.99) is a fantastic example of a hands free strap on that can be used for pegging as well as vaginal penetration. Due to its slightly larger size, it's recommended for more experienced pegging players.

Starting Slowly

If you aren't used to anal play, it's important to try and stay as relaxed as possible. Before you start to use your strap on, try a little anal foreplay. Massage and stroke around the outer ring of the anus with lubricated fingers before gently entering it making sure that your fingernails have been cut short and do not have any sharp edges that could damage the anus. You can also lubricate a small butt plug and use this for anal foreplay. When you feel ready for strap on penetration add plenty of anal lubricant onto the strap-on dildo. A good lube to use is Give Lube Silicone Premium Lubricant Mini 30ml (priced at £5.95). This is a strong, long lasting anal lubricant that is designed to keep working for as long as you need it to. It can also be used for vaginal and oral sex, masturbation or massage.

For strap on dildo penetration, the receiving partner can either lie on their back and raise their legs or bend over doggy style to find the most comfortable position for penetration. Begin by penetrating slowly building up to more powerful thrusts when the male partner is comfortable. If it doesn't feel right or it's really painful then stop. If this is the case, the anal muscles might not be relaxed enough. You don't have to rush things. Go back to some anal foreplay or try again another day. Pegging isn't for everybody but those who do enjoy it can be blessed with some incredible orgasms.

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