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How To Choose A Strap-On Harness

by Jekaterina Gussarova August 03, 2022 4 min read

How To Choose A Strap-On Harness

How To Choose A Strap-On Harness

Want to buy a strap-on harness, but you don't know how? This article will help you through it. A strap-on is a sex toy enhancer used for holding dildos when having vaginal penetration among lesbians or during pegging. Ladies and gentlemen can wear them comfortably. There are various strap-ons of different sizes and shapes in the market. You may find it challenging when selecting the right strap-on harness. The following is a guide on how to choose a compatible strap-on.

Selecting A Harness.

With many straps available in the market, how to choose the right strap-on harnesses, and choosing what style, material, or price point you need might take some discernment. If you want to use it with a partner, make sure to make a final joint decision. Because you will use it together, it is only natural that your partner's thoughts must be included. However, if you are buying it for solo use, consider the price, ease of washing the toy, your body size and shape, and how you intend to use the strap-on. Here are the factors to consider in selecting the right strap-on harnesses.

Selecting The Right Harness Style

When pegging or penetrative sex is considered, there are only two main straps on styles. The styles are underwear and strap-on. The underwear-styled harness resembles underwear ranging from thongs, boxers to shorts. The strap-on style harness has adjustable codes, making it fit different body sizes. The strap-on style is the most recommended type because it is compatible with most body shapes and is durable.

The firmer the strap-on holds on to your body, the easier your movements will be. The dildo will be held in place even with vigorous thrusting. There are various strap-on styles, however, the ones preferred are the thong styles and jockstrap styles. The thong-styled strap-on is advantageous for ladies. On the other hand, the Jockstrap style is perfect for both genders because its codes surround the butt cheeks and waistline. Additionally, it also leaves a space for testicles to hang freely, eliminating any possibility of discomfort.

Material Which the Harness Is Made Of

Harnesses come in different materials, such as leather, rope, spandex, nylon, polyester, or a mixture. Also, a harness may come with a dildo attached to it but mostly comes separately. You may need a strap-on that can be easily cleaned, especially if it's to be shared. A harness material that can be machine-washed is ideal for you. Also, removing the lube oil used on it will be easy to pick the right material. All harness materials can be machine-washed except those made of leather or rubber. However, check the labels on the package for further instructions about cleaning the toy.

Ensure That the Strap-On Harness Is Compatible with Your Dildo.

Some harnesses may be used with various dildos, but some only fit specific sizes. Make sure that the base of the dildo firmly fits your harness to minimize the possibility of injury or the dildo sipping off, especially the vibrating dildo. Also, the stability of the dildo should be considered. You can try fitting the dildo into the harness in the sex toy shop. If that is impossible, take some measurements to be accurate.

Other Things to Consider When Shopping for A Strap-On Harness.

Some strap-on harnesses such as Velvet Vibrating Harnessesare designed with pockets. The pocket may be for carrying a bullet vibrator used during clitoral stimulation.

Additionally, other straps-ons come with cock rings. The cock ring can be added to the dildo for more stimulation without the need for a vibrating dildo. Lastly, most rings that come with a harness can be changed, but few are permanent. In the case of the changeable one, ensure that the ring fits your dildo.

Getting Used to Your Strap-On Harness.

After getting your strap on ready, the following step is familiarizing yourself with using it. You should take your time and use it in solo play before introducing it in a partnered play. Put the strap on, then figure out where to place the dildo. Start masturbating with it. That will help you build confidence in your body movements and how the toy operates.

For big-bodied people, try to put the harness at the plushy part of the tummy. That should be about half a distance from the pubic mound to the belly button. It will help you control the strap-on with the dildo without losing some inches of the toy through your body skin.

The Bottom Line

When shopping for a harness, consider the factor above. Also, remember to include some lube or oils in your play. The lubes should be selected properly according to the material of your sex toy. Penetration using a strap-on harness is fun if you get one with a compatible dildo. If you are a beginner, a strapless option is an ideal choice for you. After familiarizing yourself with it, you should go for a strap-on harness.

Jekaterina Gussarova
Jekaterina Gussarova


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