HOW TO GIVE ORAL SEX TO A GUY-ORAL SEX TIPS

Oral sex entails stimulating your partner's naughty bits or anus with your mouth or tongue. It is a personal experience, and not everyone enjoys or chooses to engage in it. This article highlights oral sex tips for a pleasurable experience.

Some people enjoy oral sex because you can suck, lick and excite someone in various ways. It is crucial to discuss your preferences with your partner to figure out what you both appreciate and what you'd rather avoid. Whether you're considering oral sex for the first time or want additional knowledge, this article will help you and your partner understand the two types of oral sex, fellatio (blowjob) and analingus (rimming), as well as what to remember when performing the acts.

How To Give A Blow Job (fellatio)

Undress If You Want To

Clothing is unnecessary unless you're in a situation where you can't go nude. While some people may opt to keep some clothing on, others are more attracted to naked skin and fetish clothes, ranging from elegant lingerie to woolen sweaters and leggings. It's entirely up to you to decide what turns you on the most. 

Move Your Hands

Add in some handwork for an excellent blow job. Wrap your dominant hand around your spouse's shaft, then slide your mouth and hand up and down the shaft simultaneously. Rotate your wrist to improve this action as you move up and down. The blowjob is less constant when done with hands because it will allow you to come up for breath without interrupting stimulation. To avoid uncomfortable friction, make sure you use lubricants. Once you've mastered the technique, softly rub your spouse's testicles with your other hand.

Have an Ejaculation Plan

If you're planning on bringing your spouse to orgasm, make sure you're ready for ejaculation. Let your lover know ahead of time if you don't want them to ejaculate in your mouth. Before climaxing, your mate can give you a heads up, and you can transition to hand job-only mode. Consider whether you'd prefer to spit or swallow the semen if you're cool with your spouse climaxing in your mouth. If you decide to swallow the semen, be rest assured that it is completely safe to consume.

Show Enthusiasm

You can try foul words to demonstrate your passion or talk to your partner to show that you care about their happiness and are receptive to feedback. When going down on your spouse, look up now and then to maintain eye contact and show that you're having fun. If you don't enjoy performing blow jobs, communicate with your partner.

Use Your Tongue to Stimulate the Penis Head

You should perform soft suction to the penis with your tongue as you move your mouth down and up the shaft for the most part of the act. Try focusing your tongue on the penis head and the frenulum, the delicate strip of skin on the backside of the penis head, for a fun change of pace. Hold the lower shaft in one hand and lick the tip of the penis in a slow circular motion with the tip of your tongue. With a wide, relaxed tongue, lick your partner's penis upwardly.

Practice Before Trying to Deep Throat

Some blow job receivers will enjoy some deep throat action, but you should only go as far as you feel comfortable. If you want to try deep throating, you should first practice without a partner to strengthen your gag reflex. Begin by moving a toothbrush carefully toward the back of your throat and holding it there for ten seconds. Relax and suppress your gag response by taking deep breaths. Move on to a larger object like a dildo once you've made it ten seconds without gagging. Repeat the process until you're confident enough.

How To Give Analingus ( Rimming)

Clean Up First

Maintaining proper hygiene measures is essential for safe rimming. Before participating in anal play, shower with your lover and clean your orifice with warm water and gentle soap. If you're still concerned about sanitation, try an enema or an anal douche. Overuse of douches or enemas, on the other hand, might result in the alteration of beneficial gut microorganisms. If you have gas, constipation, or diarrhea, wait until your digestive tract is back on track before getting a rim job.

Experiment With Different Techniques

Explore numerous techniques to pleasure your partner's nether regions while conducting a  rim job. Kiss the perineum,  the spot between the anus and genitals, of your spouse. Consider teasing your partner with your warm breath, then loosen your tongue and begin giving them slow, lengthy licks. Make a circular movement with your tongue around your partner's anus. Ensure you are both on the same page about what feels good and what doesn't. Remember that you can stop rimming at any point if you or your partner feels uncomfortable.

The Bottom Line

You and your partner can decide whether or not you're ready to try oral sex since it's a personal decision. Consider if it feels right and whether you are happy with the decision. It will be best to discuss protection with your spouse before starting oral sex because infections can be transmitted even if there are no noticeable symptoms. Although it may be embarrassing, taking responsibility for your own and partner's safety is crucial while having oral sex. If talking about it makes you uncomfortable, you might not be ready for oral sex just yet. You should never engage in oral sex simply because you feel compelled to do so. If you want to spice things up in the bedroom, the tips highlighted in this article may help improve your sex life.