How to Have Sex Outside & Make It Incredible

How to Have Sex Outside & Make It Incredible

By Tatyana Dyachenko

Like a fine dish, the pleasure of sex can be even better when enjoyed al fresco. Outdoors sex is a common fantasy, but few people are brave enough to go through with it, or have no idea how to go about it. If you're enthusiastic about the idea then there's two questions you should be asking yourself: "where?" and "how?".

An appropriate spot is important because you're looking to set the right mood. Just as you'd light a few candles or scatter some rose petals, you want your location to be conducive to romance. Back alleys and the scary dark woodlands won't be putting her in the mood any time soon. Also, whilst the thrill of getting caught can be a major aphrodisiac, getting your freak on in an elevator or public park is probably a very bad idea.

An ideal spot for al fresco friskiness would be the beach. There's endless opportunity here. Find yourself a secluded stretch of shoreline shielded by rocks, and spread out a beach towel. If that's not available, a rock pool or even the surf can conceal your lust beneath the water. An even more exciting option would be to row out to calm waters. If you can find yourself a tranquil, isolated spot, the thrill of doing it in a boat can be intense.

Then there's the comfort factor. You might both be champing at the bit, but I guarantee you'll be feeling far less enthusiastic when foliage starts working its way into interesting places. This is where the question of "how" really comes into play. Doggie-style really isn't going to work underwater, and missionary is a bad idea no matter how pretty that forest glade might be. There's thorns about you know.

Picking a position that doesn't see you getting dirtier than you might have liked is only part of it though. Your dress is important too! Outdoor action doesn't lend itself to frilly, fancy wear or clothes with an excess of zips and buckles. Keep it simple so that if you are interrupted you can get presentable fast. Ladies, we're talking skirts and dresses, and guys will want to wear jeans that aren't so tight they take ten minutes to get back on properly.

Outdoor sex can be sensational, but it's worth keeping these tips in mind lest you risk embarrassment or discomfort. There's no quicker way to ruin your sex on the beach than by getting sand where it doesn't belong!