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HOW TO INTRODUCE BONDAGE TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

by Jekaterina Gussarova August 03, 2022 4 min read

HOW TO INTRODUCE BONDAGE TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

HOW TO INTRODUCE BONDAGE TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Are you contemplating introducing bondage to your relationship? The bondage aspect of sex isn't an easy thing to incorporate in relationships. Still, once you have the skill, training, and consent from your partner, you can take baby steps towards achieving sensational bondage pleasures. Therefore, here is a complete step-by-step guide on introducing BDSM games in your relationship and having the best bondage experience.

Do you think your partner will run away screaming when you mention BDSM? Then consider implementing other ways to make your girl embrace it willingly without any fears. To most lovers, especially beginners, BDSM is all about pain. Introducing bondage games in a relationship to most couples is generally challenging. However, it would help if you took things slowly to keep your partner in the system with the new sensations for things to be better.

Moreover, proper introduction of kinky bondage games can help improve your sex life and harden your bonding. Also, communication is paramount when it comes to introducing new exploration in your bedroom. Therefore, ensure you consult your spouse before to make it easier for you.

Guide to Introducing Bondage into Your Relationship

Participating in erotic bondage play depends on the couple's general understanding. Therefore, before introduction, ensure your partner fully understands what BDSM means. That will prevent fear and discomfort during the play. Also, talk to your partner about the impact the fetish fantasy bondage games have on sex life. Here is how you can successfully introduce bondage games in your relationship without any challenges.

Begin with Kinky Conversations

Before you begin sexual exploration, ensure you have a proper understanding of your partner. Give all the details concerning what you are introducing. Also, consider doing research, reading books, or listening to podcasts. This will help your partner understand more about what a bondage game entails. You can also go through different sexual ranges and pick what will impress you and your partner. Comfortably talking about what you need in a relationship makes it easy to introduce or explore new sexual sensations. Proper conversations also help build trust and intimacy before starting.

Balance the Power in Your Relationship

Balancing power in a relationship creates a perfect background for discussing sexual matters. A healthy relationship cannot be one-sided. Once you have dominance and power over the other partner, things can easily fail to work. Feeling like true equals in and outside the bedroom prevents misunderstanding. Also, power balance gives you the confidence to share what you want in a relationship with your partner. Therefore, consider treating your partner well to have a perfect environment to introduce your bondage.

Don't Blur Boundaries.

You always need to maintain boundaries in any BDSM game. However, power exchange is generally temporary. Therefore, whenever you introduce bondage in your bedroom, it starts and ends there. Spanking is the best bondage game you can play. But this doesn't permit you to spank your partner's butt whenever you want. It is healthy to be nasty in bed and not out of the bedroom. Consider building mutual love and respect to avoid crossing boundaries, making it easy and comfortable to bring in new sexual explorations in your sex life.

Get Specific About What You Want

Have you talked to your partner about what you want in a relationship? A kinky and fulfilling sexual experience with your partner can only happen when you understand what you desire and what your partner prefers. Do you love it when you dominate your partner, or is it the other way round? Being open about what you want makes it easy and creates a good sexual environment. Do you want your partner to go rough or gentle?

However, your context of roughness might be different from your lover’s. Therefore, ensure you get specific on what you want to make it easy for your partner before experimenting.

Take Baby Steps

Bondage doesn't necessarily involve pain. Generally, it depends on your personal choice and desires. You will only go for extreme and intense BDSM if that’s what you desire. As for beginners, mild bondage play makes the right choice because of less experience. Always consider taking baby steps when exploring kinky fetish fantasy sex to reduce unnecessary injuries and focus on the things that arouse the most.

Begin with simple and soft wrist bondage cuffs that can add love and enjoyment simultaneously. If you want intense and mind-blowing sensations, consider starting with mild spanking. Leave the wild whips for the advanced bondage players.

Switch It Up

What do you think about switching in the bondage play experience? Normally, switching in the BDSM world is generally advisable as it gives both parties a great chance to explore different bondage sensations. Moreover, switching involves one who enjoys the power of dominance and submission. However, it is healthy to explore newer sensations by switching. It can be once in a while.

Additionally, it is easy to understand the power equation in a relationship when exploring switching. Also, this helps you to find new inner arousing pleasures and work on them. Have your partner beg for mercy, and feel dominant.

Get Trained

Training is one of the fundamental skills you always need before doing any activity. Like the athletes, you need to train on what you will practice on your submissive partner. Don't make rash decisions of exploring erotic or kinky sex with less experience. Training will always give you the proper chance of learning all the basics of bondage. Moreover, learning kinky BDSM sex skills is a great move to make whenever you introduce bondage in your sex life. It offers you enough confidence to explore kinky sex freely while reducing risks. You can also consider training with your partner together to make your bondage experience more sensational and pleasurable.

Final Thoughts

Bondage games are among the thrilling and sensational sexual activities. Like any other new sensation, you always need proper guidance to introduce them in the relationship. Creating the best bond between you and your partner makes it easy to introduce any bondage game in your sex life. Communicate with your partner on every step you make during sex to enhance understanding and trust improvement. If you are exploring safe bondage games, consider following the pleasure mechanism to derive better erotic adventure.

Jekaterina Gussarova
Jekaterina Gussarova


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