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January 08, 2020 5 min read

How to Pleasure Your Partner's Prostate 

There are many misconceptions that exist about men's pleasure and sexual satisfaction. For most, men can only attain total sexual satisfaction when they are penetrating and thrusting a woman. The traditional concept of sex and biological anatomy of both male and female has really cemented this ideology, making it almost impossible for many men to enjoy sexual erotism.  

But the male body, just like the female body is created in such a way that it serves as your most profound source of pleasure that you can ever imagine. Like the female G-spot, men have a prostate gland (the P-spot), which is a pleasure point that if well stimulated, can turn up your orgasm levels to note 11. While you definitely have experienced penis orgasms, experts describe a prostate orgasm as “an intense, longer-lasting and heightened sensual exploration” that engulfs your whole body.  Prostate stimulation, whether done through external massage or internal stimulation using fingers, sex toys or pegging, is the most amazing sex dance you will ever engage. You can do it yourself, but is more arousing and easier when you’re dancing with a partner.

What is the Prostate?

The prostate is a gland located inside the rectum, just below the urinary bladder. It can be found between two-four inches up the anus, connected to the front belly wall. Biologically, the prostates gland is what produces a nourishing fluid which is mixed with sperms (forming semen) to propel ejaculation.  The Prostate gland is surrounded by sensitive nerve endings that are tremendously orgasmic when stimulated just right.

To find this magical place, you will need to go through the anus for direct contact. However, if anal play is a no-no for you, indirect stimulation through the taint or perineum, which the skin between the scrotum and anus is also possible, although not as rewarding as direct stimulation. 

When looking for it from the inside, the gland will feel like a fleshy bulb on the front rectal lining. Once you touch it, it will feel more swelled up and flesher than the rest of the surrounding tissue. From the outside, the prostate will be found at the back of your penis shaft, behind the scrotum. This part feels fleshier and softer. Once you locate the gland, you will feel like you need to pee, know you are on the right spot. Now you are ready for the party. It is time to deliver your partner those body-shuddering orgasms he has been longing for.

 Tips to Prostate orgasm

 Clean Up Properly

For many people, the idea that poop comes through the butt can be a put off even when they are playing with their own butt. So you want to be clean and flesh before receiving a direct prostate massage. Make sure to take a shower beforehand, paying special attention to the butthole. Consider using a douche or an enema for a thorough and refreshing cleanse before engaging in butt play. the experience will be more bearable if you use the bathroom for at least two hours before douching to allow the anal canal to clean itself. Using the bathroom is also necessary because prostate massage can give you a sensation like you need to poop and pee. While you will not do either, constantly worrying about it can spoil the fun.

For the giving partner, you also need to cut and file your nails to avoid tearing or scratching the delicate anal skin. Be sure to remove nail polish to avoid it chipping while inside your partner’s butthole. Also thoroughly wash your hands with soap and water even though you will be using a glove or condomover it during penetration.

If you will be playing with sex toys, make sure they are all cleaned, properly dried and disinfected before use. Proper hygiene is crucial to ensure you do to cause anal infections to your partner or yourself.  

Set the Mood

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You want to be extra comfortable, relaxed and aroused if you are to enjoy a sensational prostate massage. As the giving partner, you, therefore, must help your partner get into the mood and have an extra level of arousal before you start. Get him a warm bath with essential oils and bath salts to help him relax and open up. You also want to set the room with candles and scents for a romantic experience. Then turn him on to his prime with foreplay, masturbation or even watching porn, whatever will trigger his animal instincts when it comes to sex. If it is his first time with prostate stimulation, it might need some getting used to. So be sure to practice and loosen his anus a bit with your fingers, and anal training sex toys such as butt plugs. Be patient and make sure to apply plenty of lube before play. Using plenty of anal lubricants will ease anal penetrations as well as make gliding more comfortable. Lube applies to both internal and external prostate stimulation.  

Try Different Techniques

As you experiment, you will definitely need a few different moves and techniques before you find the best that works.

Experts here at Peaches and Screams suggest that you start with your finger. First, try the “come hither” motion. Gently insert your finger into his anus and curl it upwards towards the belly button. Repeat until he gets used to the insertion sensation. You can also use other gentle techniques such as circling, doorbell and finger vibrations to bring him to the point of orgasm, but don't let him there yet!

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Once at this level, now you can use prostate massagers and other anal sex toys designed for prostate stimulation. Simply insert a well-lubricated prostate massager and press it gently towards the belly button. But make sure that the toy has a curved tip and is bulb-shaped for a more sensual experience.  Choose toys that have a variety of vibrations and those with extra sensations such as external perineum stimulators to give your lover that extra sweetness during play.

If you are both up for it, you will find pegging also provide an amazing prostate stimulation while at the same time provide an extremely role reverse opportunity to spice up your bedroom plays. Wear a prostate massager strap-on and fuck the sweetness out of him.

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Best Positions for Prostate Stimulation

The position will be dictated by the kind of massage you intend to give. If you want to use fingers and toys, the face-down and legs up positions are the best. The face-down allows you to have unlimited access to his anus and perineum for all your games. Moreover, the legs up (similar to women's missionary position) give you the best viewpoint and access to his entire groin and anus. So you can play with his penis, maybe even cock it with a plugging ring as you stimulate the prostate through the anus. It will be entirely to your freedom. If you plan on pegging and maximum toy fucking, then one side, one leg to chest and doggy are your best bits. These will let you dance in him so intensely he will feel his orgasm shattering his brain.

So, now that you are in the know, it is time to give him those continues exploding orgasms. Gift him one after another until he can remember his name no more. Let that lad worship your skills because that is the kind of diva you are!


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