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How To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom

August 10, 2018

Have Better Sex Tonight - Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Love Life

Have Better Sex Tonight - Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Love Life

Doing the same things in the bedroom over and over again not only makes you predictable but also causes it to lose its taste. Doing things differently, and random can, however, help bring back the flame you once had.  Many people however struggle to take the first step into the unknown. As intimidating as it may seem, shaking things a bit in the bedroom doesn’t have to be as difficult as you might think. Here are a few pointers and tips on how to do this.

Start off with minor changes

Making even the smallest changes in the bedroom can have a surprising outcome. Spicing things doesn’t mean you have to participate in an orgy or go for the intense full-body bondage gear. It means changing things a bit to ensure you, and your partner enjoys every bit of it. Some of the minor changes you should consider include:

  1. Have sex randomly during the day and not the usual 'bed time.' sex
  2. Place pillows under your back, and mainly the butt to create new penetration angles
  3. Quickies also come in handy when in a rush. Focus on spending more time getting intimate and have sex for different lengths of time.
  4. Spend an entire afternoon in the bedroom, just the two of you.

Play With All Your Senses

Make maximum use of all the 5 basic human senses to enjoy every bit of time you are in the bedroom. Sight should be the first sense you capitalize on by making eye contact during intimacy. Try having sex with the lights off, lights on, or even with just candlelight to see what works for you. You could also try watching some porn before or during the deed.

You can also take advantage of your hearing senses by talking dirty to each other, as well as listening to romantic and relaxing music. Use scented candles to help create a musky but glamorous mood for the deed. Put your taste buds to the test by kissing each other slowly in all the sensitive areas. Be sure to kiss deeply to enjoy the varying tastes as you explore each other.

It would also be advisable to start teasing each other with fuzzy scarves, soft feathers, or silk ties to awaken your sense of touch. Caressing your partner's body using varying strokes is recommended as well. Try using blindfolds when exploring these senses. Touch each other's body with other parts of the body but not with your hands or fingers.

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Ban The Common 'Things' In The Bedroom

One of the good things about bringing passion back to the bedroom is that you can set new rules regarding what you want and don’t want to do. For instance, most couples rely too much on the missionary sex style. Banning this style for at least one month, then exploring other options can help spice things up. You could also try something out of the ordinary such as mutual masturbation until both of you orgasm, or even do nothing but kiss for the rest of the week. It is as they say, forbidden fruits are always sweet and attractive.

Some people will go a level further and engage in watching porn together - for a lot of couples, it’s a big turn on. A step further gain is VR Porn - you can do some VR porn comparisons to see what works best for you and your partner.

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Stop Playing It Safe, Experiment

To many people, trying to bring up a new sex style or adventure in their lovemaking session is intimidating. Most people think they will be vulnerable if they bring such to their partners. Playing safe in the bedroom only binds you to the same old ways and methods. Being spontaneous however helps you try your maybes in the bedroom, which again create a new avenue for fun and adventure.

You can bring up maybes you have heard your friends talk about, or even seen on the TV. There is always that one thing you wish you could do with your partner, the 69 sex style, or dominance. Whatever your wishes are, bring them up and trying them with your partner also makes it easy for him/her to open up to theirs as well. It is also in trying new things that you can explore the unknowns, and maybe find something you have in common. Sex is meant to be enjoyed and explored, not just a routine.

Try the 'Special Guest'

No, we aren't saying you should bring in new people into the bedroom, we are talking about props. With the market filled with many different types of sex toys, it shouldn’t be hard to find one that appeals the both of you. While sex toys are designed to be used solo, you can extend its limits by trying it with your partner. Go for toys you can use together for optimal arousal and enjoyment. Some of the toys you should consider investing in include restraint systems, lube, sex swing, and most importantly, sex furniture. Consider investing in one or two of these; you never know when you might need both.

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Make a Game Out Of It

Turning sex into a game can be a great way to liven everything up. As long as you are free with your partner (aren’t afraid of him/her) you should then be comfortable enough to try any extremities that make it fun. There are dozens of ways in which you can turn sex into a game. For instance, you can try board games, silly trivia questions, and such, but while naked. Wrestling each other while naked is not only erotic but also gives your senses a boost and adrenaline rush. Let the price be a sensual massage or something you love doing while having sex.  Find creative ways of working around your lingerie or clothes to make it even more fun. The game shouldn’t be one-sided though, each of you should participate fully to make it fun and enjoyable.

Try these simple and easy tricks to bring back passion into your bedroom.


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