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by Katie Peachesa December 05, 2019 5 min read

How To Use Mirrors During Sex

By Ksenia Sobchak

Sex is very much tied to our visual experience as it is emotional. And for many people, porn has always been a good motivation to try out new styles and experiences. But what about watching yourself get railed. While it might sound awkward for the first time, using a mirror can help you fall in love more with your body and that of your partner. Sex is a visual act and watching you and your partner experience sex is even more erotic. You get more turned on by seeing your partner’s face express lust and arousal, at that moment; you know he will do things to you that will drive you mad with pleasure. But now imagine watching him and yourself in the mirror as you get sexually aroused and excited together.  

With a mirror, you take up two exciting roles. One, the voyeur watching a sexual scene unfolds in front of you and the actor having sex in a super unique and sensual manner. It is a sexual fantasy that manifests your sensually that you every had experienced sex before. Having sex in front of a mirror allows you to see yourself in real-time as your partner sees you while still experiencing every physical touch. You are pleasured by receiving stimulations from your partners and at the same time watching yourself react to the stimulation. It’s like starring in your own home porn.

The mirror also gives you a beautiful and erotic chance to get closer to your partner and improve your sexual intimacy. With a mirror, you can see your partner’s face and lock eyes in positions that you normally have to face away from each other. You get to see how your partner’s whole body enjoys pleasure, how their muscles contract and relax as your pleasure them, how they moan out and twist with orgasms as you bring them to climax. It is simply a heavenly experience that helps you connect more with both their body and soul.  

So the next time you are having sex, you might want to add a mirror among your sexual repertoire. Here are four simple ways to add mirrors to the mix;

Closet Mirror

These are full-length mirrors that double up as your closet door. While many use it to look good when going sex, this low-key mirror will give you that full-length view of you and your partner having sex without ever arousing any suspicions.   Look into the mirror when with your partner and she/he will surely follow suit. However, this might be tricky to pull off if your mirror does not overlook your bed. But don’t be shy to make some pillows and cover down, place it in front of the mirror and give yourselves more unconventional adventures

Dresser Mirror

Will it not give you a full-body view, the dresser mirror is an awesome addition to your foreplay. Massage your girl’s shoulders as she sits trying to apply her make up. Lock her eyes in the mirror as you take your fingers down to her tits and press your weight softly against her back. Follow down her belly with your hand as you kiss her neck. Let her watch as you pull off her gown and reach her lips. Caress them softly and let your fingers feel her wetness. Then look her in the eyes as you ease your finger into her clitoris and then give her a passionate fingering. Watch her bite her lower lip just to keep from screaming out name. As her crit oozes off with pleasure, bend her slightly and give her a fucking standing penetration. All the while, you will both be looking into each other’s eyes, experiences a level of intimacy you haven’t know yet.

Movable and Hand-held Mirrors

Some people love enjoying the mirror experience up-close and personal. So don’t shy away from buying a movable mirror as an addition to your erotic collection. You can put a mirror next to your bed so that you are able to see yourself and your partner from different angles. Besides stand-alone mirrors, some love to bring in hand-held mirrors to have a closer look at how gliding really happens. If you are into this, you will love watching as your partner thrusts you into an orgasm, trust me, it feels even more intense when you see and feel the action at once.

But one downside of a hand-held mirror is that you might get caught up in having a nice and close visual on the mirror, which can end up with you focusing more on the mirror than the intimate moment with your partner.

Self-Pleasure with Mirrors


It is not only when with a partner should you enjoy warm mirror sex. Be adventurous when pleasuring yourself. Sit in front of a mirror when masturbating after a shower. Watch as your face and body accepts the warmth of your finger and your legs open up for deeper penetration. Try using a trusting dildo to see how it really looks when your partner fucks to earth-shattering orgasms.

Mirrors also make anal sex even more heightening. Place a mirror below you or in front as you insert yourself with a butt plug or double penetration dildo. You will love the visual of your anus opening and accepting the crazing fullness of the butt plug, and the arousing look of the flanged stop hanging out. Or even a double penetration of your vagina and anus or cocked balls pulled back into the anus path. Looking at yourself having pleasure allows you to learn more about your body accept your pangs of pleasure and even love your body more. Self-pleasure is actually the pathway to that massive orgasm you have been looking to have with your partner. Only you know how you like it, they can never really know how to please you!

Confidence is Key

With as the sexual erotica that is available to pleasure you, enjoying yourself and getting down to those crazing orgasms is largely dependent on your confidence. You must love the look and feel of your skin. So if you cringe every time you look into the mirror or hate the person on the other side, then mirror sex many not really deliver the most flattering results.


 But don’t it not that bad.  Appreciating that your body is the most wonderful source of pleasure is crucial to boosting your confidence.  You also need to embrace your flaws and curves as the parts that make you the most unique. We can’t all be supermodels, but we can be in charge of our own happiness and pleasure points. And if you need help bolstering your confidence just a little, don’t be shy to wear sexy lingerie for here at Peaches and Screams to dazzle both you and your partner. You might also opt for catsuits and masks to give yourself a more crazy and sexy character that you would be shy to assume. Masking gives you the ability to detach from your shy self and assume a more kinky, naughty and adventurous character. It might surprise you how naughty you can really get, with the mirror as your evidence of fantasy pleasure.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.

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