Introducing a Double Dildo into Your Sex Life

Introducing a Double Dildo into Your Sex Life

By Tatyana Dyachenko

All new sex toys are exciting and fun to play with when you get used to them.

In the beginning, both partners can be a bit anxious as well as excited especially when it comes to less conventional toys such as the double dildo.

You can have a lot of fun with this adult toy provided that there is a good communication between you and your partner. It is important simply to take things one step at the time.

Double Dildo: Partner Talk

You should certainly chat about the use of the double dildo when you are in private and in the mood for some fun. You can readily share your fantasies with your partner.

Men are often quite nervous about getting anal penetration so it is important for the partner who will provide it to view the experience from her lover’s point of view. Try to describe the pleasure he could get from anal sex.

The female partner should assure her male partner that giving him anal sex will not make him less manly in her eyes. You can readily talk about giving him pleasure with the double dildo just like he gives pleasure to you.

You can think of positions which will allow him to be in greater control during the play with the toy.

It always helps to have an ally when introducing a man to the double dildo. You can readily get a book and/or a film which introduces heterosexual couples to pegging, which is the practice of a woman giving a man anal pleasure using a strap on dildo.

You will be more relaxed about using the toy. What’s more, you will discover great positions which will give you even more pleasure.

Double Dildo: Taking Things Slowly

It is a good idea to take your time when playing with a double dildo. The first time, the female partner may provide just a bit of anal massaging to her partner using the toy.

A male partner may want to try using the toy to provide double penetration to the female partner. Things like that will certainly make him more comfortable with the toy and more excited about it as well.

Communication during play with the double dildo will make the experience highly pleasurable for both partners. The penetrating partner should always stick to the desires of the receptive partner. That way, both can have the most fun.