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July 27, 2022 5 min read

LET THE GAME BEGIN: IDEAS FOR EROTIC CHALLENGES, BETS, AND PUNISHMENTS

Do you know erotic challenges, bets, and punishments strengthen your relationship? Here are the best things to do to have a special relationship: spa treatment, helping hand, yes or no treatment, the loser has to make dinner and pretend to sleep.

Making a sexual bet with your partner is great, and a fun way to spice things up in the bedroom and relationship. It spices life and since humans are unique, trying new things in the bedroom is often at the top of the list to keep the spark between you and your partner burning. Life goes on well if you have a supporting partner. However, romance may fade due to a lack of fun in the relationship. Below is the list of the sensual and sexual games and activities you need to incorporate into your bedroom play for an interesting sex life;

Spa Treatment

Your partner may be exhausted after a hard day at work. Press, et.al, (2017), explained that you can give them a good massage with the inclusion of a waterproof wand massager. It's an easy way to build intimacy between you and your partner. Your partner may love to try this because everyone wants a massage; it would be fun watching your partner trying to compete for a foot or body massage. In turn, massaging those areas might turn your partner on.

Helping Hands

While doing boring chores like washing dishes or folding laundry, your partner uses their hands, mouth, and small handheld massagers to try and distract you from your tasks. You can decide to do the chores topless. Your partner will lick and kiss all the body parts and explore every corner of their divine gift.

Yes Or No Situation

At your normal Netflix on the couch or dinner, set the rules that you will need to remove a clothing one by one.

Looser Has To Make Dinner

It is great to make your partner cook something for you or perhaps take you out for dinner. It's a dream come true if you haven't been able to enjoy this for a while.

Pretend To Sleep and Have Sleep Sex

The loser has to lie on the chair or bed and close their eyes as in a deep sleep. You have to moan, convey through your whole body that you're enjoying rough sex, and move their hands to your body. It can make you laugh because it's hilarious and can make you horny simultaneously.

Looser Has To Drink Something Crazy

If you're on a date with your partner and want to make it better, you can order some drinks and play a game with a fun bet where the loser has to drink it all. You may decide to choose your partner's worst drink. A bet like this will create a memorable moment.

Looser Has To Plan a Mystery Date

The bet will surely make your partner think of an amazing new way to spoil you. It will go so well that you'll have a great date with memories to hold on to. According to Grover & Helliwell (2019), it will build the connection the two of you have, and your partner will pick the best place to have the date to impress you more.

The Loser Has To Kiss the Winner

This is especially useful when there is a spark but no physical connection. Dating bets like this are ideal for new couples because they allow you to get to know each other while also getting you excited to hang out more often.

The Loser Has To Give the Winner a Massage

This simple activity can help you and your partner become more intimate with one another. Because everyone enjoys getting massages, they would jump at the chance to test out a bet like this one. Additionally, watching your partner try to outdo the other in a race for a body or foot massage would be pretty entertaining.

Edging 

One of many excellent femdom punishments is edging. Bring him to the verge of orgasm, then walk away and cuff him so he can't touch himself. Return and continue the procedure.

But edging for women does exist; it's just not as well-known. The easiest way is to stimulate the clitoris, but using a toy to hit her G-spot also works.

Try not to do both simultaneously, as stopping in time for her to be left on edge will be more difficult.

Silly Costume

Make your sub wear something ridiculous out in public. Make them dress in a movie costume, paint their faces like cats, or wear silly knee-high rainbow socks. Whatever you desire!

Please don't go too far with this; you don't want to embarrass them. You want to make them look a little out of the ordinary. You could put them in humiliating clothing, but that's a different category.

Try a New Sex Position

Schein & Schein (2018) stated that couples should always try new things together. Experimenting brings energy to a relationship. Whoever loses the bet tries a new sex position of their choice and spice up things to a higher level. It will bring both you the best sensation of pleasure and orgasms.

Kiss You Underwater

It doesn't matter if your partner loses; treat them well. Ask them to kiss you underwater. Pull your partner by the waist until their mouth comes closer to you and plant a kiss. It will feel deep, and you never know; you may have sex in the water.

Voice Message For Seven Days

If you win, the bet asks your partner to send you a voice message describing how much they love and adore you and why they love you. Their voice sounds like guitar strings playing slowly in the background, a sweat sound that never fails to turn you on or enchant you. Stating their love for you will deepen their feelings, and you will feel blessed to have your partner in your life.

Be Romantic and Make You Blush

Your partner should compliment your smile, eyes, or body, or sing a song that turns their face into a cherry. You've might have tried various tricks to make your partner blush. Your compliments, focused gazes, and romance never fail to make your cheeks turn red. It's your turn to return the love and romance.

Conclusion

The challenge's punishments and bet strengthen your relationship, and the root of love strengthens. Moreover, it gives you an excuse to do silly things, enjoy, laugh together, and have fantastic sex together. The games can be entertaining for both the dom and the sub, or they can be pointless and power-grabbing. Whatever you decide, talk about it ahead so you can stay Safe, Sane, and Consensual. There is no way to go wrong if you are creative with your ideas and tailor them to your relationship. You can change the venue, duration, number of accessories, and difficulty level of these ideas; they don't have to be limited to the bedroom.

References

Grover, S., & Helliwell, J. F. (2019). How's life at home? New evidence on marriage and the set point for happiness. Journal of Happiness Studies, 20(2), 373-390.

Press, L. G., Felman, J. L., Katz, S., Pearlman, S., & Reamer, S. (2017). TO BED OR NOT TO BED: SEX AND THE OLDER LESBIAN.

Schein, E. H., & Schein, P. A. (2018). Humble leadership: The power of relationships, openness, and trust. Berrett-Koehler Publishers.

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