My Wife Wants Me To Be More Dominant

My Wife Wants Me To Be More Dominant

By Tatyana Dyachenko

My wife wants me to be more dominant in the bedroom just like the man in Fifty Shades of Grey. I'm not normally dominant at all and I'm a bit embarrassed but she won't let it go. I want to please her but I don't think I'll do it right and I'll end up looking foolish. What can I do?

Every husband is facing this problem at the moment but it can actually enhance a relationship. If your wife won't ease up despite your protests the best thing to do is to take control of the situation so that you hold all the cards. Pick an evening when she won't be expecting it. Choose her some (easily accessible) underwear and then blindfold her before tying her to the bed. Make sure you have some music on as this along with the blindfold will cover any awkwardness you feel and will mask any mistakes you might make.

Men thing they have to brilliant at bondage to give the girl what she wants but in reality if you have made your wife orgasm through your fingers or tongue before you can give her the time of her life.

Take your time over her body and keep teasing the bits between her legs, kissing her inner thighs. Use a vibrator if you want to but make sure you take at least twenty minutes before you even begin to bring her to climax. When she finally does orgasm have your fun and hope that this induces a multiple!