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by Katie Peachesa April 23, 2020 7 min read

New Year’s Romantic and Erotic Ideas

By Tatyana Dyachenko

Since I could remember New Year’s was the time for festivities, but when I look back toward childhood I always remember how simple my needs were back then. Think about it and remember the time when your parents watched you fight that need for sleep, just so you could wait for Santa Clause and finally see that weird old man who left you presents. There was always a nap somewhere around 4pm, because in no other way could your body keep up with what was going on. Of course if you successfully completed battle with your own natural instincts you would get chance to take a sip of champagne and watch fireworks!

Those were the times when what made us happy and satisfied was rather simple, as we grow older so do our needs. And as our needs start to change, so does the way we want to be entertained or, even better, satisfied! Here is few ideas, scenarios; you could try out in order for those needs (cravings) to be completely satisfied.

ROMANTIC GETAWAY!

This is the most complicated one.

You are female so wake up that sleeping romantic soul within yourself and pay a visit to the closest IKEA. sexy leather lingerieWhy this kind of store? Because it’s perfect for details and when it comes to romantic New Year’s Eve – GO FOR THE DETAILS!

Buy a lot of candles, small ones in whichever colors you like and couple of glasses; make sure they are made from gray or stained glass.
Lingerie! Lace, lace, and more lace! Embroidery and make it white. Or buy edible lingerie!

Buy some red wine, oranges and dark chocolate, my personal recommendation is 70% cacao, or go with white wine, apples and honey!
Buy some silk or linen scarves

Buy napkins!

In the room:

Fill the glasses that you bought with water and let the candles float in them. Arrange those glasses against the walls of the room and in all possible corners. The light of candles through dim glass will give room a pleasant and rather romantic atmosphere, candles will move in water and the light will dance against the walls when it happens.

Cover all other light sources with linen and silk scarves that you previously bought and arrange some pillows on the floor (make sure you have rug or blanked underneath those pillows). I would advise to use some sturdy wooden box to be covered with scarves and used as improvised table. The rest of scarves you should put underneath the pillows.

Make food that can be eaten with fingers (include oysters or black olives) and for the desert serve melt dark chocolate, orange slices and red wine (or honey, apple slices and white wine).

Enjoy the evening and be spontaneous! Greet him on the door wearing nothing but lingerie and some nightgown to partially cover it. This will be interesting for him, because it is what is not shown that makes him excited.
You should try playfully leading him to start feeding you (don’t let him see what is desert), if you don’t know how to lead him toward it here is few tips:

Put piece of food only partially in your mouth and tease him to bite the rest of it off

When he takes a piece of food, ask him to give it to you!

Try to steal it!

Try feeding him first, but tease him – don’t give him the piece instantly.
This way, he will probably be relaxed enough and ready to feed you desert.
Do not strip yourself in front of him, but rather let him do it. You can dictate the rhythm and speed of how long it will last, but you shouldn’t start stripping him before he strips you completely. You can use those extra scarves to get tied together or let him tie you. You could try blindfolding your partner while giving him a blowjob. Don’t go for the bed, because floor offers far more space and you don’t have to worry about candles, because once they burn out they will sink into water.

For this kind of night, sky is the limit after all.

WELCOME HOME, MASTER!

For this kind of New Year’s eve you need to be open minded and visit a local sex shop, pull out the highest heels you can muster walking in and be prepared for little roleplaying! I know that many have serious problem with entering a sex shop, which is closes you for huge amount of opportunities! So, for this kind of details – GO FOR THE EXTREME!

French maid uniform

Put together a French maid uniform! Not complete! You need white stocking, black simple push up bra and black thongs, a black laced choker, laced white cuffs, white apron and white laced headband.

For food go with some omelet, cake with strawberries and champagne.
Buy cuffs, I would go with leather cuff they are far more comfy then metal ones.

You could also go with gag ball

For this kind of night you don’t need any set up in the room, but rather one in your own head. When your boyfriend comes by you should greet him with “Welcome home, master.” From that moment on you are his servant and whatever he asks from you, you need to deliver. If you fail to deliver he should be allowed to punish you. I would recommend that prior to this kind of night you present him with idea that you two should sign a contract in which it will be written what the other one likes and doesn’t like in bed. Both of you should sign it so when the night starts, you should present him with that same contract saying that you are his servant as it was agreed under those conditions. On one table you can set up things he can use on you, like whipped cream, chocolate syrup, gag ball, cuffs…

For anything you would like to do to him and he hasn’t asked for it already you need to ask his permission.

After all it is all about you fulfilling his every whim.

SEXY YOU!

Every woman has it. No matter how much you would like to hide it or don’t want to admit it exist – it is there! After all, that is what makes you a woman! Visiting sex shop for this scenario is also a must, not to mention 12 cm high heels and attitude! THIS IS WHEN YOU TAKE CHARGE!
For this kind of night you need

Black corset, thongs and sexy stockings

HIGH heels

Music from movie “From dusk till dawn” or something a bit more aggressive
A mask (just to go over your eyes is enough)

Cuffs! Leather ones!

A chair, a bed and room that can fall into complete darkness
Now, let’s explain some things on this list.

Corset – it will make your figure more feminine. You will feel far sexier when you see yourself in the mirror and, trust me, it does miracles for your confidence.

HIGH heels – Only thing more beautiful from woman in heels, is woman in high heels. Your legs will look longer and all muscles will seem far more defined when touched.

Mask – because in Masquerade we are never who we truly are. It is far easier to be someone else when wearing mask. It will help you feel free.

When you greet your boyfriend be firm, act seductive and tease him a lot. You need to be in the outfit that is written on the list, except for the cuffs.

Put cuffs on your boyfriend from the back and without letting him resist pull him into the dark room. Turn on the music, this is in order to confuse his sense of hearing, and make your boyfriend sit on the floor. Make a note that room should be clean and that you know exactly how it is arranged.

In darkness all senses go wild so have fun, don’t let him touch you too much or know where you are positioned around him. Kiss him on the neck, but in next second go with your fingers across his back. If you want to make sure you are in control step on the chain that cuffs have. That way you will pull him spine backwards and he will be in submissive position, he will have very little chance to feel balanced, leaving him completely in your control. Let him feel your scent, the softness of your lips, the way your teeth graze across his skin – because of the position you have put him in his senses will go into overload.

You should use this to your advantage. Make sure that you have control over the chain of his cuffs most of the time, whether you are holding them in your hand or stepping on them doesn’t matter. Do not forget your own enjoyment, so when you desire to be satisfied lead him or order him to do it. Whether you two should use floor, chair or bed is your decision as well.

When you are ready to start removing your clothes make him do it with his teeth. There is a chance he will probably rip your stockings, but it will be worth it. Because of this I recommend buying corset that has a zipper, rather than a cord. Do not let him remove your mask and use sex positions in which you are on top of him.

Enjoy having the upper hand and control your partner toward his own satisfaction.

THE CHANGE OF SCENERY…

Instead of paying to go to some formal dinner or party for New Year’s Eve – book a room in a hotel.

Romantic New Year's EveIt will cost you almost the same money you would give for all inclusive party and yet it would be money better spent. The change of scenery can help both of you feel more relaxed and enjoy the evening.
Book a room, buy some nice lingerie, check into hotel earlier and use all the extras that go with the room – spa, massage, swimming pool… And in the evening have a dinner that someone else has made just for you and enjoy the sheets you won’t have to clean.

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Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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