Call Us: 03303213145 (lines open 8am to 4:30pm)
Call Us: 03303213145 (lines open 8am to 4:30pm)
Sex Toys for Men
Sex Toys for Ladies
Dildos for Everyone
Vibrators for Everyone
Dildos for Everyone
Vibrators for Everyone
by Katie Peachesa April 10, 2020 2 min read
When I first read an article about the idea of writing up and signing a 'sex contract' with your significant other, I must say that I wasn't all that keen on the idea. The word 'contract' makes it sound like one or both of the people involved in the relationship will be forced into doing something which they would not usually do, or which is against their nature. Who would want to have such a thing on their shoulders when their life is already busy and full of demands?
After I read the article I did a bit of online research and chatted to some of my girlfriends to see what the wider opinion of sex contracts actually was, and what I found out has made me rethink my earlier scepticism. What if the sex contract was more of a way of ensuring that both parties get what they want in bed, while remaining open to their partner's ideas? Surely this would lead to a much more satisfying and adventurous sex life!
Take a look below at my renewed understanding of what a sex contract is, and how to go about setting one up.
A sex contract should be an agreement within your relationship which you both invest time and intention into. It will help to make sure that both of you get what you want in bed, as you've both agreed to try your best to adhere to the other person's needs and wishes, while ensuring that your own are met
A sex contract can be used if you do not feel comfortable talking about the details of sex and your desires with each other. Not everyone does, so don't feel ashamed of this. Sex contracts take the pressure off as you can spend time putting your wants and needs into words before sharing them with your partner
Word your contract in a way that makes sure that the two of you get equal benefit from it. So, you would write 'I'd like at least 10 minutes of foreplay', and your partner would write 'I'd like sex at least twice a week' next to it, and so on
Your contract will only work if you both invest your time and effort into it, but promise each other that you won't just use it as a weapon. This will only serve to decrease the amount of sex within your relationship
I'd suggest steering clear of sex contracts if you've just had a baby, or if you've been through an emotionally taxing period in your life. Other than that, give it a try!
Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.
Comments will be approved before showing up.
by Katie Peachesa September 03, 2021 3 min read
Read Moreby Katie Peachesa June 22, 2021 4 min read
Read MoreDo you enjoy blogging? Would you like to be featured on the Peaches & Screams blog? Learn more here.
Sign up for the latest products, discounts and promotions. By signing up, you will be automatically enter into our weekly prize draws. Keep an eye out on your inbox!
Simply fill out your details below to enter our daily prize draw for your chance to win some amazing products from our website! Keep an eye out on your inbox!