There are many things you can do as a couple to improve your sex life. Some of the items that can be found all over the media are ‘top 10' lists. These infamous lists include elaborate suggestions such as:
Role-play or dress up in sexy costumes
Have a threesome or visit your local swingers club
Dirty talk in the bedroom or phone-sex
Experiment with restraints and blindfolds
Get frisky in public places
These are great suggestions in theory, but with busy day-to-day routines, not at all practical. Sure, you might be able to find a sexy little pirate outfit in which to greet your partner at the door, but what if it's not your partner at the door? What if it's your neighbour wanting to borrow a cup of sugar? Although that might be a great way to get yourself invited to the local swingers club, it might also be a disaster waiting to happen.
Keep It Super Slippery
As with everything in life the KISS principle reigns supreme. For those that are not in the know, the KISS acronym stands for ‘Keep It Simple, Stupid' and is used to help people remember that the simplest solutions are often the most effective.
Keeping it simple is also the best approach to take when you want to improve your sex life. The smallest things can have the biggest impact. Here are the two best suggestions of all time:
Take care of yourself. When you feel better both physically and mentally you will be more attractive and you will also increase your libido. Eating better, remembering to take your vitamins, getting more exercise, and even visiting a registered massage therapist from time to time are all easy ways to improve your health and your confidence. This is sexy for both you and your partner.
Personal lubricants. With today's micromanaged lifestyles it can be hard to fit in a goodnight kiss let alone the foreplay that most woman think necessary to make sex comfortable and pleasurable. Lubricants can speed this process up exponentially. The key to making this suggestion work is understanding that lubricants aren't meant as a replacement for nature but rather as a implement for your body to realize that, yes, it is in the mood. Research has shown that most women who feel that they find themselves initially uninterested in having sex also find that their bodies seem to respond wonderfully during the actual act of intercourse, exactly the same as if they had experienced a decent amount of foreplay to begin with.
In addition to the suggestion above, they can also be used for those times when, miraculously you and your partner do find some time for some cuddling. Many of the personal lubricants on the market also double as adult novelty items like massage oils and edible products.
The next time you find yourself on the world-wide-web, take a moment to check out an online adult novelties store to explore the selection of personal lubricants available. You will notice a great selection and even better prices for you to take advantage of. Better sex is only a click of the mouse away and the best part is that when your lubricant arrives in the mail it will be so discreetly packaged that your neighbours won't notice and you can delay that invite to the swingers club for just a little bit longer.
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