Now this sucks, big time, at least for me. Whenever you have to be apart from a long term partner, or from your dominant / submissive, its never easy. For most people its the sexual build up that happens when you are apart. Well you could just masturbate, but thats not exactly exciting. And for some submissives you can be put under a ‘no masturbate’ or ‘no orgasm’ rule. What do you do then? What do you do in the mean time without actually breaking any rules? Or what can you do to make the wait bearable but without killing the want? Well heres some ideas.
For the ‘no orgasm’ rule you could simply, repeatedly, take yourself to near climax then stop. Which means when you get around to your partner giving you one its all the better. However aside from vibrators, shower heads, and a good old finger, theres not much to make this massively exciting. This maybe because I really and all for partners pleasuring partners with toys. And lets face it, this doesn’t really help with the ‘no masturbation’ rule.
Its not an uncommon thing for a dominant to put these rules on their submissives, as it means that when they are reunited the sex is a lot more heightened, a lot more energetic and arousing. Well the thing is that for a submissive it is vital to stick to any rules set down by their dominant, its just a given. No cheating the rules without permission. Theres not much you can really do then is there? Well, only a few things.
If you enjoy watching porn you can do so without masturbation. You would read any form of erotic literature, watch Hentai or view erotic art. The main thing here for a submissive is to completely and repeatedly arouse themselves without actually doing anything about it. Imagine doing this for one day, then another and perhaps for a full week. By the time the week is up you’d be craving your dominant so badly that you may never get around to setting a Scene, you may simply end up having some of the hottest sex you’d experience. Thats the best thing about waiting, its the way you build yourself up.
So, next time your partner has to go out of town, or you have to be apart for a period of time, think about waiting. See if you can handle it. If you can let us know all about it.
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