Some people assume that women are the only young demographic who occasionally fail to get into the correct ‘state’ for love making, and that young men find sex extremely straightforward and easy. Just as the occasional bout of vaginal dryness is enormously frustration for us women, many men feel very upset and embarrassed when their little man fails to perform on demand. Erectile dysfunction can be blamed on a whole host of issues, and it is best to visit your doctor initially to rule out any medical problems. If you find that there is no medical reason for your situation it is time to look the environmental and psychological reasons for your frustration. Do you feel nervous, have you been fighting with your partner, or has one instance of failing to get an erection caused you to become paranoid about it happening again…which is a self-perpetuating situation?
Whatever the reason there are some practical steps which you can take to remedy this situation which will have you on your way back to a normal and healthy sex life in no time.
First of all you need to take the pressure off. If it looks like sex is on the cards try not to over-think. Relax and perhaps suggest to your partner that you partake in a bit of sensual massaging before you move onto the foreplay. This will serve to melt away any tension you are feeling and may well lead to a harder and longer lasting erection.
You could also consider employing the aid of sex toys to help you to achieve and maintain your erection. The most essential piece of kit is the cock ring which is usually made from stretchy silicone and is designed to sit at the base of the penis to trap blood in the shaft and help to keep it erect. Cock rings can also help to control premature ejaculation. This RingO Super Stretchy Gel Erection Cock Ring is ideal, as is this TitanMan Stretchy Cock Ring. If you would like to add a bit of vibration to the proceedings consider this O Wow Reusable Cock Ring Bullet!
If you don’t fancy a cock ring you could go for one of the myriad creams and gels out there that are specifically designed to produce easier, longer lasting and harder erections. As with any products that you rub into your skin you must be careful about what you are buying. This organic Stimul8 Erection Cream has been designed to make erections firmer and easier to achieve and to make them last longer while also being gentle on your skin. This Kolossal Sex Cream does a similar thing but requires daily application in order to achieve the desired result.
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