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by Katie Peachesa April 24, 2020 2 min read

So You Have A Rape Fantasy? Don't Worry, It's Ok

By Elena Ognivtseva

Some people consider this a rather sensitive subject as it concerns the word rape in it. I am inclined to disagree as, essentially, it has nothing to do with rape at all. The new phrase is ‘forced sex fantasy.’ I am not sure if this makes it sounds any better personally but there you go.

So, what is the rape fantasy? First and foremost, it is not about being raped. It is almost an animal instinct of you being taken ‘against your will’ by your partner. To clarify, it is not really against your will, it is best to actually set a date as it were for it to happen. It is usually considered a BDSM scene without wanting to admit you are in to BDSM.

I mentioned setting a date, and this is the best way. Naturally it is not a rape scene when you say ‘take me now,’ so set a week period. So at some point in that week your other half will come in, throw you to the floor ‘carefully’ and take you then and there. Now, seeing as it is basically one of the first steps into BDSM it is always best to have a safe word. That way if anything happens that is too painful, or you don’t like the way things are going, you can just say it and everything will stop.

So why is it number one? Well as stated it is the first steps into BDSM without really admitting it. It is the basic animal lusts to just be taken and ‘carefully’ abused. The loss of control can provide a massive high, while still having a safe word to stop the high turning into fear. A large percentage, almost two thirds of women and a third of men, admit that they would like to participate in a rape fantasy. About half of this number admit that they have actually done it, ninety five percent of which stated they enjoyed it.

See, an article with actual facts and figures, it is possible. I am not sure all these figures are 100% accurate as it is hard to ask every single woman and man in the world, but it is a nice base demographic to work from. I think, so long as you trust your other half, more than fifty percent should take part in this. The thrill given by losing control can cause very powerful orgasms and can create a huge boost in the trust of one another. If any of you have a rape fantasy, or have participated in one, tell us about it.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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