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by Katie Peachesa April 19, 2020 3 min read

Submissive Women Love it – Be the Cave Man Your Wife Needs

By Ekaterina Mironova

Is your lover into sado-masochism as a submissive female? Do you need to learn to be the cave man your wife needs?

A lot of men who have grown up being told that women want romance or gentlemanly behavior miss the fact that once you finish foreplay, your wife may want to you to help unleash fantasies where you dominate your wife.

Even some of the more conservative women may enjoy being a submissive girl every once in a while and find ideas like bondage curious or appealing.

Here are some tips to sexually dominate your wife in a way that will have her thinking dirty thoughts about you all day.

To begin with, get a sense of what your wife is into. Your wife has imagination and she may worry about your judgment. So one of the most important elements for bringing out her dirty thoughts is to reward her for her openness.

Being non-judgmentalism is ten times more effective than pressuring her to bring this out. You may even excite girls by unleash her sexually over-active side.

You may think that she enjoys romance, but you must remember that romance is one element of sex. She may prefer that you dominate a woman than that you stick only to sensual foreplay. Find out.

In order to get into domination, you must realize that it is not always as extreme as you might think. Sure you can get into bondage domination in ways that involve complex knots, but what really matters is the psychology.

The big element that a submissive girl is looking for is dominance. You can do this in several ways. To begin with make simple demands instead of asking for permission.

If she doesn’t like something she’ll indicate it. If you are worried, establish a safe word that she can say to indicate you should stop. Another element you want to add is dirty talk. Be comfortable telling her she is a dirty girl or that you enjoy taking her from behind.

You may even consider entertaining a fantasy through role playing. In fact, simply instructing her about what you want, even if it is for her to be on top and ride you, gives her a surge of excitement

Another element that you want to add in is dominant physicality. For example, pin her arms down while you are having sex. This makes her feel like the submissive girl she wants to be.

You can also use your body weight to keep her pinned to the same effect. Another thing that you want to consider is moving her around. If you want to take her doggy style, then move her without asking.

Consider more primal actions such as tugging her hair while you are taking her from behind or playful biting (i.e. her inner elbow or ear loves) When you sexually dominate your wife physically, she will want more sex from you. Other elements to consider include spanking her as you talk to her about how bad she has been.

Finally, if you get these elements down, you can introduce her to more developed aspects. For example, basic beginner bondage may teach you to use scarves to tie her down before you go to ropes.

Doing this is much less of a reach if you have been pinning her arms down during sex. Another example is that you may want to add an element such as a blindfold to the mix. Something simple as this introduces her to more compliance, even if you are giving her simple demands.

Another way to dominate women who want to be a submissive female, is to add a light element of pain. You may have introduced this to her with spanking or lightly biting her nipple, but you can also do this different ways.

For example, you may use elements such as an ice cube or eventually tools such as whipping. However, most submissive women need to be trained to get to such a point. What is important is that you communicate as you progress through different types of domination.

Overall, submissive women love it when you totally dominate her. If you follow these tips on introducing sado-masochism, she will thank you with more sex as you bring her dirty thoughts and fantasies to life.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.

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