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by Katie Peachesa April 10, 2020 3 min read

The Fallouts of Threesomes - What Can Go Wrong

By Elena Ognivtseva

When threesomes are mentioned as a fantasy they're usually related to a males mind however research shows that a threesome is the top fantasy for women too. In fact women's fantasies of threesomes are even more erotic as they switch between two men and two women knowing they'd get a lot of pleasure from both.

Although it is a top fantasy for women, its men that generally want to take it to the next level by acting it out in reality while women are usually happy to let it stay in their head. Women know that they'll feel jealousy seeing their man share intimacy with someone else, however men think they're immune to these feelings seeing it as sex and nothing else.

Why do many threesomes go wrong?

Reason No. 1

The man gets jealous

It's true that the number one reason a threesome goes wrong is because the man gets jealous. This statistic, bizarrely relates to the two women/one man scenario.

A woman will often agree to a threesome only if the extra girl is bisexual or a lesbian willing to have sex with a man too. When the girlfriend gets attention or enjoys the physical touches from the female, emotions surface in the male that he doesn't quite expect.

All of a sudden many men have admitted to worrying that their girlfriend will enjoy it more than having sex with them and therefor leave them for a woman. They also worry that the extra girl will be able to pleasure their partner more easily, when they've taken weeks to learn how to make her come. This makes many men call a stop to the proceedings. Much to the disappointment of the women involved.

Reason no. 2

It's clumsy

It all flows brilliantly in your head, as pone licks cock the other receives oral sex while passionately kissing the man. In reality there's no actual script. Three people's climaxes are expected and everything must work so these are close together, if not simultaneous. This produces clashes of heads, cramp as you try to incorporate the other person, falling off the bed and a whole host of other mishaps. Have you ever received a blow job off a woman while she receives a knee to the face?

Reason no. 3

The woman doesn't like it

There's a reason this is bottom of the list, it's because by the time the threesome comes around the woman has explored every emotion in her head and is prepared for every situation. Unlike the man who keeps the fantasy scenario alive up until he comes or doesn't; sometimes though these feelings are just too much. The main reason a woman calls a stop is because her partner acts completely differently, for instance he laps up the attention and has sex with the third party while completely ignoring his other half. This of course makes it infidelity, not a threesome and the woman has a right to walk away.

The difference is a threesome can be a magical exploration of sexuality between a couple, where they bring another into the mix to be pleasured TOGETHER, to enhance their own lovemaking. When this becomes simply, the man having sex with the extra head, with the girlfriend having nothing to do except stroke his balls or play with the girls nipples, he may as well have gone out and simply cheated instead.

Not surprisingly it's this situation that sees the majority of relationships break down soon after the threesome ends.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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