The Secrets Behind the Multiple Orgasm

The Secrets Behind the Multiple Orgasm

By Ksenia Sobchak

It seems that we all covet the multiple orgasm, with some women declaring they have them without effort, the rest of us feel as if we're missing out on something very special. As it takes women longer to orgasm than men we feel we should be allowed this extra perk as part of our package.

There are a few secrets to attaining that longer lasting big O. The first one may seem simple but it's amazing how many women don't even know the different types of orgasm they can have. By understanding the capabilities of your body you can train it to multiple bliss.

The Different Types of Multi-O's

There are three different types of multiple orgasms; the first is one without breaks. Some women don't even realise this is happening as they expect their multiple to come after a wind down.

The second is one with just few second intervals and the third is one with minutes in between. All are attainable as long as you're in the know and of course as long as your partner is too!

A Willing Partner

Very few men don't care about the satisfaction of their woman. If you've expressed a desire to have multiple orgasms, he should be trying his best to please. You need him to WANT to make you squirm with pleasure as this is the only way you'll achieve it unless you prefer it solo.

Explain that he needs to control his own orgasms so you can spend longer getting off on him. Explain that you may be sensitive after oral sex, but other parts of your vagina and body aren't and would relish further stimulation. Let him know where your G-spot is. There are so many routes to multi orgasm with combinations of vaginal penetration, nipples, clitoral stimulation, even the neck and anus play a part, so test his willingness to be the best lover you ever had and see if he's willing to release those O's for you.

Go Solo

If you've had multiple orgasms alone, you can definitely have them with a partner. The trick is to explore where is sensitive after the first orgasm. If you used your fingers for clitoral stimulation, try stroking the outer lips with lubrication whilst playing with your nipples as you bring yourself to a crescendo a second time.

Come First

It's much more difficult to have multiple orgasms if you come last, as you need different types of stimulation to ring you to climax or to sustain that big O. You can have great orgasms with clitoral stimulation that then moves onto his fingers massaging your G-spot whilst his tongue explores all areas; however this is much more pleasurable if you can use his penis for penetration instead.

If he does always come first, or heaven forbid sometimes leaves you without an orgasm at all, try a quickie and hope he'll be ready for round two by the time you're ready to scream with delight.