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by Katie Peachesa April 09, 2020 2 min read

Three Things He Doesn't Want To Tell You

By Ksenia Sobchak

It's never easy for a man to tell his wife or girlfriend what she does that annoys him, or turns him off. Guys tend to fear that criticism will kill a relationship or lodge in their lady's mind and inspire all kinds of craziness. Most women will admit that when it comes to negative feedback, suck words tend to be remembered for a long time indeed. For the sake of happy, healthy and of course, sexy relationships, communication is necessary. Here are three things he doesn’t want to tell you, but should.

We don’t know what you want us to say or do if you don’t tell us.

Men frequently complain that women speak another language, full of hidden imperatives. Failure to correctly interpret these implicit instructions means we're in the dogbox. Instead of telling us "sure, you can go out with the guys" when you mean "I'd far prefer it if you stayed home", just be up-front about it. Sure, as lovers gradually grow to know each other better, these signals get easier to pick up, but especially for newer affairs, it makes things infinitely easier if we know what we can do to please you. We're not mind readers, but we do want to make you happy!

We don’t care if your butt looks big in those jeans, so stop asking us.
A woman who relentlessly complains about her flaws, putting herself down over shortcomings both real and imagined can be exhausting. Women often feel that they have to be constantly striving for perfection to stay loved and desired, but many men find it difficult to get enthusiastic about a woman who's overly self-conscious. Here’s the truth: your man wouldn't be with you if he didn't like your body and who you are. His sticking around is proof of his adoration and your being persistently self-deprecating doesn't do you any favours.

It’s all about ‘give and take’ in the bedroom.

Unless you’re deliberately exploring the notion of submissives and dominants in the bedroom, you’ve really got to put a bit of effort into your love-making and embrace a bit of “give and take”. "Dead" lovers, or women who simply lie there during sex, are boring. Men enjoy the thrill of conquest as much as women love the chase, and your man deserves a little more than an unresponsive squeeze when it comes to bedroom antics. On the complete flip side of the scale, some women are veritable traffic cops in the bedroom, directing their lover's every move from how fast he's undressing her to when he should run his hands through her hair. Ladies, you can't force every intimate moment to be a replica of your favourite fantasy. The passion has to swell and flow naturally, or your man may simply end up feeling awkward and inadequate.

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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