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by Katie Peachesa April 28, 2020 6 min read

Best Vibrators for Beginners - How to Buy Your First Vibrator

By Tatyana Dyachenko

Why Use a Vibrator?

For many women, masturbation is a learning experience that teaches them how to orgasm and what sensations their body likes. Vibrators have played a big part in teaching women how to pleasure themselves so that they can become orgasmic. In turn, this allows women to take charge of their sexuality and enjoyment, and, if they wish, to easily to show their partners what turns them on. In addition, as a woman ages, it may become harder for her to orgasm, and she may find that her body has more difficulty producing its own natural lubrication. Vibrators can help bring back her libido and make sex much more sexy and slippery. Also, with sex toys, a little extra lubrication helps the toys slide much easier, and makes penetration, as well as clitoral stimulation much more arousing.

According to several scientific studies, “50-75% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm and cannot achieve orgasm via intercourse alone” with “33- 50% of women rarely experiencing orgasm and unhappy with how often they can achieve climax.” If this is your first time trying a vibrator and exploring your orgasmic potential, this information means that you will probably want to start with a vibrator that stimulates the clitoris.

In a 2011 survey about vibrator use, researchers found that women who use vibrators more recently and frequently, have “higher levels of arousal, lubrication, orgasm and sexual satisfaction, and lower levels of pain during sex”, and these researchers recommended vibrators as “treatment for female sexual dysfunction… and sexual problems…” According to Joan Price, an expert in senior sex, vibrators are tools that can help older women get their sexy back: "As we age, we get less blood flow to the clitoris and vagina, and the vaginal walls get thinner. Most of us need more arousal time and more time to reach orgasm after we're aroused. Vibrators enhance sensitivity by increasing blood flow to the genitals quickly and powerfully, and by directly stimulating the clitoris."

Can I Become Addicted to Vibrators or Desensitized to Other Types of Pleasure?

There are lots of myths surrounding vibrator usage. One such myth is that vibrators are addictive, or that they can desensitize your genitals so you can’t orgasm via regular sex. The fact is: most women can’t orgasm via “regular” sex (i.e.: penetration) anyway, and they need external stimulation to climax (such as fingers, oral sex, or using a vibrator). So, vibrators are not addictive, but are more of a helpful tool to get you there. But, like anything else (missionary position for example) using them can become a habit, and habits can become boring after a while, so it is always good to continue to explore your pleasure zones and try new ways to stimulate your body as well.


In some cases, your clitoris may become numb from using a vibrator for too long- just like lying on your arm will cause it to go numb. Once the blood flows back into the genitals, just like your arm, all feeling does return. Vibrators do not cause permanent loss of feeling or damage, and vibrators are not associated with any negative side effects. Furthermore, vibrators are just a simple and reliable way to get that adequate clitoral stimulation. Indeed, vibrators can be great tools that couples can use together, so both partners can achieve climax and enjoy a satisfying sex life.

Pocket Rocket style vibrators

Pocket Rocket style vibrators are small, discreet and made of hard plastic which resonate vibrations well. They are also fairly strong for their size.

Vibrating Eggs

Vibrating Eggs are inexpensive, made of hard material, and are very small and discreet. They usually come in multiple speeds and vibration patterns.

Palm-sized Massagers

Palm-sized Massagers were created to rest against a woman’s vulva for external stimulation. They are very discreet and usually have multiple speeds and functions.

Mini Wand Massagers

Mini Wand Massagers are great for beginners. They are the most powerful of mini clitoral vibes, and are easier to position because of their wand style. They feature a spongy, flexible head which makes it very comfortable.

Clitoral Suckers

Clitoral Suckers marry the functions of suction with vibration for two very different, yet pleasurable sensations. These are great if you want more than vibration and also are relatively inexpensive for the first time buyer.

Discreet Vibrators

Discreet Vibrators are vibes that are often disguised as something else, like lipsticks, make-up, cute toys or animals. They are perfect if you want a vibrator that is incognito and great for travel.

Recommended Vibrators for Beginners

3.5-Inch Rocks Off RO80mm Black Magic Bullet Vibrator

3.5-Inch Rocks Off RO80mm Black Magic Bullet Vibrator

The 3.5-Inch Rocks Off RO80mm Black Magic Bullet Vibrator is a petite but powerful sex toy, measuring just 3.5 inches long, with a circumference of 2 inches and 0.75 inches diameter. This 3.5-Inch Rocks Off RO80mm Black Magic Bullet Vibrator although very small size-wise is actually a little beast, It is packed with tremendous power to succeed where bigger toys have failed; a tsunami of intense passionate ecstasy is yours for the taking, simply turn on this mini vibe; and erupt in flaming passions as multiple releases drive you wild with indescribable pleasure. The RO-80mm black mini vibe is a truly versatile vibe, and can be used for both solo stimulations, as well as with a partner to enhance playtime during sex. It is small and sits just nicely between you and your partner, and will very easily and quickly transport you to giddy heights of sweetness. This wonder toy is particularly suited for women who find it difficult to achieve vaginal orgasm without any clitoral stimulation, and it’s also travel-friendly, whisper-quiet, lightweight and very user-friendly. Another amazing feature of the 3.5-Inch Rocks Off RO80mm Black Magic Bullet Vibrator is that it is extremely versatile, and can be inserted into, or paired with other sex toys or sleeves to provide a variety of sinful thrills. The 3.5-Inch Rocks Off RO80mm Black Magic Bullet Vibrator is designed with a smooth round head, and a pointy tip that is made for pin point accuracy, while power is supplied with 1 N battery for long-lasting performance; the toy is nonporous and waterproof for wherever pleasure takes you. So take aim, with your finger on the push button and catapult yourself to a paradise of unimaginable pleasure. Don’t forget that big things do come in small packages, look beyond the size; focus on the performance.

Specifications of the 3.5-Inch Rocks Off RO80mm Black Magic Bullet Vibrator

Length : 3.25 Inches
Lube Type : Water Based
Washing : Hot soapy water and powder
Insertable : 1 to 5 inches
Diameter : 0.75 Inches
Width : 2 Inches
Colour : Black
Flexibility : Rigid
Controller : Built In
For Who : Both
Brand : Rocks Off Ltd
Power : Included
Size : 3.25 Inches

Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator

Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator

The Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator is the toy that concentrates on your most prized areas. 
Made of safe materials, the Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator makes it a point to highlight both your comfort and pleasure at the exact safe time. As you revel in its vibrations, you'll also be thrilled with its amazingly soft exterior.

Features of the Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator

Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator

The Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator features over seven intense patterns that are guaranteed to blow your mind and make your night. The Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator comes with a distinct pleasure feature at its pleasure tip. This serves you the different patterns of vibrations that lead all the way up to the big orgasm that you've been looking for.

Power Source

Since the Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator is such an active toy, it needs a power source in order to keep going strong all night long. Load a set of four triple-A cell batteries into its battery pack and let it light up your night.

Cleaning the Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator

The Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator needs to be cleaned after every use. Warm soapy water mixed with sex toy cleaner will suffice. After you've cleaned it, make sure to rinse it and dry it off with an equally clean towel.

Extra Information 

The Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator comes with a storage bag where you can keep it clean.
Shop for the Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator now!

Specifications of the Jopen Key Vela 7-Pattern Intense Vibrating Masturbator

Washing : Hot soapy water and toy cleaner
Colour : Purple
Flexibility : Firm
Controller : Built In
For Who : Female
Features : 7 Settings
Brand : Jopen Sex Toys
Power : 4 x AAA (Included)

10-Function Vibrating Rose Gold Bullet Masturbator

10-Function Vibrating Rose Gold Bullet Masturbator

The RO-160mm is a big bang bullet that is guaranteed to hit your passion sweet spot every single time. Specially designed for the lovers of the RO Bullet range but this time it and rsquos bigger, bolder and seductively beautiful. This powerful passion bullet will glide, stroke and tease with every tingling pulsation it gives you.10 explosive functions 100 percent waterproof Batteries Included

Specifications of 10-Function Vibrating Rose Gold Bullet Masturbator

Length : 6.5 Inches
Washing : Hot soapy water and toy cleaner
Insertable : 5 to 6 inches
Diameter : 1.25 Inches
Colour : Gold
Flexibility : Rigid
Controller : Built In
For Who : Female
Features : 10 Functions
Material : Plastic
Brand : Rock Rings
Power : Included
Size : 6.5 Inches

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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