Why Some Women Love Strap-ons

Why Some Women Love Strap-ons

By Tatyana Dyachenko

Men’s bums are gorgeous, we all know that! We all love a bit of light spanking, pinching and grabbing, but some women are taking this obsession with their partner’s derriere to the next level. I guess you could say that using a strap-on on your man is all about power and there is probably some truth to that. Being the one with the object to insert is a powerful position to be in and is something which a woman would not get to experience without the aid of a strap-on, dildo or vibrator. We women are used to being the receivers, the more passive role. Suddenly being given an object with which you can assume the mantle of ‘taker’ can be an extremely empowering experience! The combination of this increased sense of authority and the novelty of doing something new with your man’s super sexy arse can be a heady mixture for any woman.

Using a strap on cannot only be fun for the lady wearing it, it can also be enjoyed immensely by the person on the receiving end…so to speak! Whether the receiving partner is a man or a woman they can get a great deal of pleasure from using the strap-on so long as they are happy and comfortable with the situation. No one should ever be forced into trying something which they are not 100% happy about as this could spark off feelings of resentment, and even shame in some cases. If both partners agree to give strap-ons a go then that’s great! But if one person isn’t so sure it’s best to concentrate your efforts on something else.

If you do fancy giving it a go proceed with caution. First of all your partner may feel that they are exhibiting homosexual behaviour by letting you insert something into their hiney. You need to explain that this just isn’t the case and that there’s a good reason why most gay men say they have an amazing sex life; stimulating the prostate gland via the rectum can be extremely pleasurable indeed! Also, work up to using a strap-on by practicing with a butt plug for a while, don’t just ram a huge strap-on home and hope for best, you’re probably not going to like his reaction. Ease the poor fella into it! You may find that it takes a little while to get the right kind of pressure, speed and placement that feels good for him, but practice makes perfect. Take a look at our Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit which includes two small dildo to attach to a velvet harness and a bullet to provide vibration. If you are after something a little larger but still manageable try our Together Forever Wireless Strap On which comes with a 6 inch vibrator.