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by Katie Peachesa April 16, 2020 3 min read

Wonderful, Wild and Wet Dildo Games

By Ksenia Sobchak

Those simple dick-shaped pieces of silicone may be nothing more than lumps of inert material, but they sure can deliver a lot of pleasure. But, at the same time, they can cause a lot of misunderstanding. A dildo is just a pleasure toy, and should be used as such and appreciated for what it is, and with the right frame of mind and a few less inhibitions, they can be an endless source of pleasure – not just for ladies who want to play solo, but for partners as well.

The first thing to overcome is for the guys – and here it is. When a lady wants you to use a dildo with her, it doesn’t mean she’s replacing you. On the contrary, she just wants to share her most intimate fantasies with you! Take it as a compliment, and enjoy the ride. Sharing sex toy games is intimate and fun – and should never be taken as an affront to one’s masculinity.

The visual factor

Sex of any type is often highly visual, and we get aroused when we see our partners in sexy lingerie or naked. But the visual aspect that stimulates us so much isn’t just about the other person; it’s about everything else, too. Take your surroundings, for example. If you’re in a messy room with harsh, bright lights and there’s a half-eaten pizza on the bed table next to you, that’s a turn-off. Now clean that room up, light a few candles, and replace the pizza with some strawberries and whipped cream, and voila soon you’ve got something going. The visual factor also extends to our sex toys. Dildos range from the plain and ordinary, to the exotic and colourful, often coming in different shades and colours, and all manner of shapes and sizes. Is it pretty? Cute? Do you like pink ones with little polka dots on it? Or do you prefer realistic ones that look and feel like a huge cock? The toy itself should be visually attractive to you.

The functional factor

Looks are important, but function is what counts, so make sure you get one that does what you want it to do. Length and thickness needs to accommodate you personally. That massively thick dildo that looks so hot in the catalogue may turn out to be painful if you’re small – but if you’re a larger lady, a thinner dildo may just not be enough to get you there. Keep in mind too, that a dildo doesn’t have to be an exact replica of a penis, and the various attachments and designs are often put there for a reason! Ridges, bumps, and G-spot attachments are all designed to enhance your pleasure, so experiment with them and have fun off above all!

Keeping it sensual

Dildo play is just like any other type of sex play, it’s sensual and intimate, and is just part of something bigger. The biggest mistake anyone can make is to approach it mechanically. While you’re using it on your partner, the dildo doesn’t have to be the only point of contact. Keep close physical contact, touch as much as possible and incorporate some deep, passionate kisses while you’re using it, and you’ll both enjoy the experience even more. Get to it guys!

Katie Peachesa
Katie Peachesa

Katie Peachesa is a sex and lingerie blogger based out of the urban chic Wapping in the heart of East London, United Kingdom. In her spare time, Katie enjoys photography, yoga and fitness, a bit of boxing, traveling, keeping up with the latest fashion trends and mudlarking and exploring pastoral settings. You are likely to find Katie in an artisan cafe in Brick Lane on a Saturday afternoon furiously typing her next article on her laptop whilst she is sipping on her flat white and drawing inspiration from the hustle and bustle in the heart of creative London. Katie runs the "Fashion Life Mag" and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, Grazia, Tatler, Evening Standard and other popular media outlets.


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