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HOW TO USE A G-SPOT VIBRATOR

HOW TO USE A G-SPOT VIBRATOR

HOW TO USE A G-SPOT VIBRATOR

What is a G-spot?  How can one get pleasure through the G-spot?  What is a G-spot vibrator?  How effective is the G-spot vibrator, and how best can an individual use it?  This article explains how one can use a G-spot vibrator on their partner.

The G-spot is a small area in the vagina that usually leads to orgasm when stimulated.  A woman has to locate the G-spot with her fingers before using the G-spot vibrator.  Read this article to know how to use a g-spot vibrator.

The G-spot has been defined as the key to achieving orgasm.  The woman gets an orgasm when a finger is inserted in the vagina and comes in contact with the spot when the finger is still in the vagina.  If you continue moving the finger-like, the woman will achieve an orgasm.  G-spot vibrators are sex toys that stimulate the g-spot (Grafenberg spot).  While some people argue and claim that the G-spot may not be real, others believe that the G-spot is a thickened tissue that is one to three inches inside the vagina.  However, some researchers have disputed that it is part of a woman's body.  Most researchers have realized that the G-spot may be a part of the clitoris, so when you are trying to stimulate the G-spot, you are stimulating a part of the clitoris.  The following are the steps to take in using a vibrator;

Locate the G-spot

Ong (2018) explained that before you insert your vibrator into your vagina, you must find the G-spot with your finger.  It may seem like a hard task, but it is not if you read this keenly.  The G-spot is a few inches behind the vaginal entrance and is close to the belly button.  An easier way to find it is to think of a clock while thinking of the vagina.  The G-spot will be between 11 and 1 o'clock.  The G-spot is easier to find when roused because the tissue swells more when the woman is sexually excited.

Use Lube

According to Silvestro & Dalton (2022), the lube helps in arousal, and as you try to find the G-spot, you do not want to hurt yourself because the skin inside and around the vagina is sensitive.  You do not have to wait until you are aroused to start your adventure.  Once you apply the lube, the toys and the fingers can slide in easily.  Attempting to find the G-Spot without lube can make it painful.  It's even worse if your partner tries to find the spot for you.  But if you use lube, you can relax and take your time locating the G-spot.  You could even use your toy to find it because you have lubed up and so there is no need to be nervous and worried about hurting yourself.

What to Do About the Pressure to Urinate

G-spot stimulation feels like having the sensation of relieving yourself of urine, and that's because the G-spot and the urethra are the part responsible for urine and are neighbors.  When you go for the G-spot, you add pressure to the urethra, which eventually pressures the bladder.  When that happens, you will want to take a break and rush to the washroom, and that's okay.  Beginners will soon realize that taking breaks will not be necessary soon.  Once the beginners turn into pros, they will be able to relax.  They will be able to control the G-spot massage properly and not be uncomfortable as individuals know their bodies best.  You do not have to endure physical pain in search of the g-spot.  If you are feeling any pain, you will need to stop.  Finding the G-spot is better when the G-spot explorer explores by herself because she knows when to stop.

Start with the Fingers

Vieira-Baptista et al. (2021) explained that the search for the G-spot should start with the fingers because when you use fingers, you can know where exactly you should touch and where you should avoid it.  The explorer can know where the best sensations are and where she needs to touch more to increase the arousal.  Remember to do that when your mood is right and aroused.  Do not forget to add lube.  Using lube does not mean you should start finding your way inside your vagina right away without being roused.  Yes, you can, but always remember that finding the G- spot is easier when aroused. 

Use Your G-spot Vibrator

So you went shopping and found the vibrator that you feel is perfect for you.  It is meant to stimulate your G-spot specifically, so here we are.  You have also located your G-spot with your finger, and you now know where it is based.  The first rule is to get aroused.  Foreplay is not for partnered sex only.  You will not enjoy using the vibrator when you are not aroused because finding the G-spot is easier when you are aroused because it swells.  Vibrators are usually bumped, ridged, or bent so that you touch the G-spot with the swollen end.  Insert the vibrator slowly with the swollen end in first.  Do not go in too deep.  The second rule is that you should lube up.  If the vibrator is made with silicon, you should use water-based lube because silicone lube will mess up the vibrator.  Remember to place it at the angle that you kept the finger because that was the concept behind finding the G-spot with the finger first.  Individuals wanted to have an easy time with the vibrator.  You have therefore replaced the fingers with the vibrator.

Conclusion

The first thing that beginners should do is empty their bladder so that they don't get interrupted by the urge to run to the bathroom.  Most beginners cannot cope with the discomfort when the urethra and the bladder are under pressure.  Being aroused is important because finding the G-spot is easier when the woman is sexually excited.  Arousal also ensures that they are lubricated enough to ensure the sliding and gliding of fingers and toys without injuries to the areas inside and around the vagina as they are very sensitive.  The beginner must have tried to find the G-spot before trying it out with the toy.  The toy user should place the toy in the same position as the finger.  Do not insert the toy inside the vagina without sufficient lubrication.  The woman should insert the vibrator slowly, and once they get to the spot, they should massage the G-spot with the tip of the vibrator.  To make the experience even better, the woman can rub their clitoris while enjoying the sensations in their G-spot.  Rubbing the clitoris keeps them more excited and therefore more aroused, which ensures more lubrication, and eventually, they may have both a clitoral orgasm and a G-spot orgasm.

References 

Ong, G. (2018).  Finding the Clitoris: Societal Clitoridectomies Created from Pushing (for) the G-spot in the 20th and 21st Centuries.  Historical Perspectives: Santa Clara University Undergraduate Journal of History, Series II23(1), 15.

Silvestro, S., & Dalton, A. (2022).  Vaginal dryness: causes, symptoms, treatment.  Women's health.

Vieira-Baptista, P., Lima-Silva, J., Preti, M., Xavier, J., Vendeira, P., & Stockdale, C. K. (2021). G-spot: fact or fiction?: a systematic review.  Sexual Medicine9(5), 100435.

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