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TOP CLITORAL VIBRATOR TIPS

TOP CLITORAL VIBRATOR TIPS

TOP CLITORAL VIBRATOR TIPS

What is a clitoral vibrator? How effective is a clitoral vibrator to an individual? How can an individual purchase such a toy? What are some aspects to consider when purchasing a clitoral vibrator? This article explains the top clitoral vibrator tips that an individual needs.

The clitoral vibrators are for stimulating the clitoris. When a vibrator is meant for the clitoris, the simple procedure is to hold the vibrator against the clit and guide the vibrator into giving you the sensations you want. You may have to run it along with the clitoral hood, tap the head of the hood or make circular motions around the clitoris. As you get comfortable with the toy, you will be able to try out different positions and motions. As you continue using the toy, you will understand your body better to know more ways to stimulate your clitoris with your toy. The following are the clitoral vibrator tips that every clitoral vibrator user should know;

Know your Body

Wallace (2019) stated that beginners should explore their bodies first before using the vibrator to familiarize themselves and find out which parts of the clitoris are more sensitive than others. As the user touches herself, she will know the pressure she would like in some areas.

Read the Instructions

Reading the instruction is very important because some instructions may be special, such as how to use them, clean them, and how it is built. You need to read the instructions properly because you do not want to be interrupted by the need to seek clarification after you have started pleasuring yourself.

Charge the Batteries Before the Date

No one wants to start recharging batteries when aroused. Every time you have used the vibrator, it may be best to recharge them so that the next time the toy can be at your service promptly. Imagine waiting for the batteries to charge while you are horny.

Be in the Mood

If you are not in the mood to have some fun with the vibrator, it will take you longer to be in the mood than if you were already in the mood. Dewitte et al. (2020) explained that being in the mood is important in all types of sex, whether solo or partnered. It would help if you built the anticipation to have fun with your vibrator before touching it. Keep the place tidy and feel fresh. You may bathe first because the scent of clean skin is also arousing.

Take your Time

Give yourself time to get aroused. You may watch porn or read erotic stories. If a beginner uses the vibrator when already aroused, she will have the confidence to enjoy the stimulation. When people are aroused, they tend to have more fun.

Find Other Erogenous places in the Body

Let the vibrator walk over the body to find other spots that make you turn on. The vibrator need not be on the clitoris only. The user can use the external vibrator on any other body part. Run it on your skin, your nipple, your neck, and the soles of your feet. As it roams all over the body, the clit will be bursting with excitement. During foreplay, your partner may run the vibrator on your body before using it on the clitoris. When you are having partnered sex, clitoral vibrators are very useful during foreplay and sex,

Understand the Settings

If your vibrator has buttons for settings, you will need to start with the lower settings. The sexual sensations one has always wanted more until they have orgasms. When you kiss someone, you want to hold them, and after you hold them, you want to have sex with them, and when you have sex with them, you want to continue until you have an orgasm. Using sex toys is no different. It is advisable to start with the lowest setting for the best sensations. Then you keep on moving to the next setting, depending on your arousal level. You start with the low setting and end with the most intense setting. If the lowest setting is intense, you may run the vibrator over your underwear so that on the next level, you will take off the underwear. Considering the setting is also important because some vibrators have extra-powerful sensations and can cause numbness.

Use Lube

According to Mernone et al. (2019), lube is not only used by older women and women with dry vaginas. Lube is for anyone that wants to have extra fun. You may be getting wet, but you add lube to make yourself wetter to increase the sensations that you may get from the vibrator. You add the lube to the toy and your genital area. After that, try the different motions possible to feel good. You can use it on other areas, such as the vulva and the vaginal entrance.

Relax

Having fun with the vibrator will only happen when you are relaxed. When you relax, you get aroused faster. The woman should enjoy the moment without distractions. She should focus on the motions and feel the places where she gets the best sensations so that she may play with the vibrator more on those spots.

Include the vibrator when having sex with a partner

If you are nervous about introducing the vibrator to your partner, you can plan a role-play and tell them to use it on you. Using the vibrator may give your partner ideas on how to turn you on. Your partner may also enjoy using the vibrator. If you have the vibrator with your partner for the first time, it is important to use small vibrators because they are less intimidating than bigger vibrators. When the couples explore their full bodies with the vibrator, they will enjoy a stimulating and relaxing experience.

Cleaning

The last thing you want to get is some vaginal infections from the vibrator. Please keep it clean and dry to keep away infections that may be caused by a lack of hygiene when handling the vibrator.

Conclusion

You buy the vibrator to have fun with it, and that should be the end-game. You should be able to have pleasurable moments with the vibrator alone or with your partner. The main tip that you should follow when using a vibrator is to listen to your body. You need to be mentally prepared for it because good sex starts in our thoughts. Be gentle with your sex toy and enjoy the sensations. Nothing will go wrong if you have the right mood and attitude when using your clitoral vibrator. The more you use it, the more you become a pro.

References 

Dewitte, M., Otten, C., & Walker, L. (2020). Making love in the time of corona—considering relationships in lockdown. Nature Reviews Urology, 17(10), 547-553.

Mernone, L., Fiacco, S., & Ehlert, U. (2019). Psychobiological factors of sexual functioning in aging women–findings from the women 40+ healthy aging study. Frontiers in psychology, 10, 546.

Wallace, A. M. (2019). Curving Spacetime: On Performance, Pleasure, and the Imaginary Black Girlhood Sexual Politics.

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