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Using Your Own Vibrator on Him

Using Your Own Vibrator on Him

Using Your Own Vibrator on Him

By Tatyana Dyachenko

Every woman should own a vibrator or two, whether single or in a long term relationship. Handy little numbers for bringing quick relief they make love making easy and solo sex much more fun. No matter how good your lover is a vibrator makes quickies fun for you too as you can achieve climax without worrying about him waiting for you to take twenty minutes to reach that all elusive orgasm.

No matter how big or small your vibrator, from a life-size penis size to a sleek bullet that fits in the purse, there will be a little envy from your other half. He will feel a little inadequate sometimes that this battery powered object can create climaxes with the touch of a button when he’s left trailing behind.

The WeVibe has thought of this using a sleek design that allows him to take part in the good vibrations on offer, however they’re not the most affordable sex toy and not within everyone’s budget. You may also have a hard time convincing him that forking out £100 on a new sex toy will give him the thrills you often experience as men view many sex toys with suspicion preferring a hand, a tongue or an intimate hole.

To change his mind you can use your own vibrator on him, to show him just what he’s missing as you intensify his orgasm with your own bedside buddy. There are many ways to do this, but personally for the first time I think easy does it.

Add it to Fellatio
If you’re giving him a blow job you can easily conceal a bullet shaped vibrator in the palm of your hand, ready to use when he expects it the least. For the first time it’s important that he is fully aroused from your mouth or hands, as his suspicious nature may quell the desire if you try to use it from the outset.

The best areas to tackle first are the base of the penis and the perineum. The perineum is the join of skin behind the balls and before the bum. As you hear his excited groans that mean he’s only a minute away from climax hold it there on its lowest setting.

Don’t Tickle
It’s important when using vibrators on men not to tickle as you would yourself. They have different sensitive areas and the wrong placement could make them laugh out loud rather than scream with delight. You have to be a little more firm, holding it against the area you want to target without moving it. Let his body adjust to the extra sensations and carry on as before.

Avoid the Tip
The tip of the penis is the most sensitive and probably best avoided for the introduction as it can make him feel as you would if someone held the vibrator to your clitoris after your orgasm had passed. You don’t want him trying to squirm away so stick to the base, and if you must go near the tip make sure you remove it as he climaxes so you don’t give him those uncomfortable aftershocks.

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