ANAL STRETCHERS: BEST WAY TO PREPARE FOR ANAL SEX?

Is it your first time trying anal sex? If you want to experiment with anal, you need planning and preparation for a safe play. With enough lube, cleanliness, safety, and enough foreplay, you will enjoy the pleasure. Most people cannot enjoy anal penetration without training and proper stretching of the butt hole. Similar to other body muscles, the sphincter can also stretch further. This article guides you on the best ways to prepare for anal play. 

Anal Stretching Safety

Notably, the anus doesn't self-lubricate like the vagina. Also, unlike the vagina, it has extremely thin tissue with more sensitivity, thus more prone to tearing and infection. For this reason, it is important to use enough lube and take it slow for safer performance. If you have any underlying conditions, are pregnant, or have hemorrhoids, consult your doctor before attempting butt stretching. 

The sphincter muscles will go back to their original role after stretching. This means that it can never get loose regardless of how far you stretch it. Also, the brain controls the contraction and relaxation of the anal muscles. This explains why anal penetration happens easily.

Anal Stretching Toys

Plug

An anal butt plug has a narrow tip, and the body gradually widens down the middle area. This shape allows for easier insertion and containment while inside. Mostly, it has a tapered base to prevent accidents during use. The market contains various shapes and colors. That means you can get your proper size fit depending on your experience level.

Dilator

Medical recommendations involve rectal or dilators used for widening the rectum. This is usually done after an anorectal operation to regulate stool passing. Anal dilators have a soft and tubular shape. 

Realistic dildo

Dildos are mainly made with a lifelike feel. The texture resembles that of real skin. You can find them in almost all shapes and sizes to help get an ideal size. Realistic dildos have realistic veins, color, and balls for a lifelike feel.

Factors to Consider When Shopping for Anal Stretchers

Weight

An anal stretcher should purposefully stay inside your butt. Therefore, get one that stays put inside without coming out when you cough or sneeze. Also, comfort is key.

Material

When choosing a material for sex toys, body safety is key. Choose phthalate and BPA-free materials such as silicone, borosilicate glass, and stainless steel. These are nonporous and simple to clean for the next use. Silicone is the best for beginners. However, do not use a silicone-based lubricant with silicone toys since it'd damage your dildo.

Vibrations

It is best to pick a quiet toy for privacy as a beginner. Other variations involve heated, vibrating, and curved types for stimulating your prostate. All these may be unnecessary in anal stretching, but they assure a pleasurable experience. 

Preparation for Anal Stretching

Try Clearing Your Bowel

During the play, you may feel like pooping. Therefore, one should poop before inserting a penis or anal toy to avoid disrupting the pleasurable moment.

Use Douches and Enemas

You can choose anal douching to facilitate the clearing of poop for a cool game. Douching ensures a clean, safe and pleasurable anal stretching session. On the other hand, an enema is good for flushing out any poop remainders. It works by deeply flushing the poop for complete clearance. An enema is safe, especially when used occasionally. Also, lubrication is important when applying these techniques for reduced friction when inserting.

Relax

Relaxation eases the anal stretching process. Avoid clenching your muscles by using a hot bath, proper foreplay, massage, and lube.

Use Enough Lube

Get enough lube on your finger, toys, and butt hole to avoid pain and discomfort. High recommendations are on silicone lube because it has a thicker consistency, thus lasting longer without reapplication. However, if you are using a silicone sex toy, use water-based lube to prevent your toy's surface from damage. Avoid oil-based lubes because they aren't compatible with latex condoms or finger gloves. 

The Bottom Line

When trying anal sex, preparation is essential for a wonderful sexual encounter. To remove fecal matter, empty the bowels or use anal douches and enemas for cleaning. Also, properly clean your hands or toys before using them. Anal stretching is important for preparing your muscles for butt play. Choose the best anal stretcher for safety. Also, follow the tips discussed above to safely prepare for butt play. If you have any health issues, consult a specialist before engaging in anal sex.