Bondage Gear & Fetish Clothing - BDSM Toys & Accessories

Step into the daring realm of BDSM with our curated selection of bondage gear, fetish clothing and bondage toys. From essential bondage equipment to stylish men's fetish wear, explore kinky bondage at your pace and discover bdsm sex toys designed for comfort, control and consent.

This is where you can find all of your fetish and bondage needs, including clamps, ball gags, restraints, impact implements and light kits. With proper caution and use, everyone can enjoy a little fetish bondage. Here you'll discover premium bondage gear and fetish clothing in the UK designed to fulfil fantasies with your lover using these toys. We offer a wide range of bondage sex toys for beginners and advanced players, along with fetish clothing and men’s fetish wear to set the scene. If you’re just starting, browse our light kits. If you’ve been exploring for a while, you’ll also find an extensive selection of sex toys to satisfy your desires, plus options suited to extreme bondage gear when you’re ready to level up.

Our bdsm sex toys are made from various materials to suit different preferences; some are designed to sting while others focus on comfort. You and your lover can explore that thin line between pleasure and pain with proper stimulation and caution. We have light bondage toys for both beginners and advanced users, breast and nipple toys for stimulation, restraints for creative foreplay, impact implements to please and punish, cock and ball devices focusing on intimate areas, headgear and clamps—all to complement your favourite fetish attire and accessories.

What is BDSM?

BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism. It is consensual adult sexual expression using power dynamics, role-play and physical or emotional stimulation. Bondage involves restraining a partner with bondage equipment such as ropes, cuffs or similar devices. Discipline uses agreed rules and structure. Dominance and submission describe power exchange, while sadism and masochism refer to giving and receiving pain or pleasure.

Activities can include spanking, flogging and other forms of impact play; sensory deprivation such as blindfolding or earplugs; and psychological play. All participants should agree clear boundaries and limits before any activity. Establish communication and consent, and use a safe word or signal to stop. Plan aftercare to support everyone’s wellbeing.

BDSM can be a fun way to explore new forms of pleasure, but it’s not for everyone. It is not abuse or violence; it’s consensual power exchange between adults. Scenes can be emotionally intense, so take care of yourself and your partner before and after play.

Types of BDSM Toys

Chastity Devices

Chastity devices are gender-specific and used to cage a man’s member for teasing and control. These examples of hardcore bdsm toys resemble lifelike cages and keep hands away to delay climax until release. Most come with locks for a clear power exchange.

Blindfolds, Gags, and Masks

A blindfold heightens anticipation by adding mystery. Bondage masks are often soft and comfortable. With masks and blindfolds, the submissive partner becomes more sensitive to every touch. A ball gag can be the perfect accessory if you want to limit speech. With mouth gags, you can consensually and safely muffle your captive.

Restraints and Handcuffs

Restraints are core bondage toys for couples looking to intensify play. Handcuffs are a classic for bondage enthusiasts. Add variety with bondage rope and tape for creative ties and body-safe restraint.

Bondage Kits

Beginner-friendly sets that bundle essentials. Most kits include starter restraints, ticklers, spankers, blindfolds and cuffs—an easy way to try sex toys bondage without overthinking combinations.

Nipple and Clitoral toys

For focused stimulation, nipple and clitoral toys deliver precise sensations. Nipple clamps offer gentle to intense pressure, while pussy pumps can increase blood flow for heightened sensitivity.

Bondage Furniture

Accessories such as chairs, machines and sex swings make scenes more versatile. Consider position aids and sex machines for more advanced bondage equipment.

Spankers and Whips

For impact play, riding crops, spankers and whips offer a spectrum from thuddy to stingy sensations. Explore paddles and floggers to fine-tune intensity.

Female Bondage Gear

From silky cuffs and blindfolds to nipple clamps and corsets, female-focused bondage gear blends elegance and control. Ideal for exploring kinky bondage with pieces that balance comfort and restraint.

Luxury Bondage Accessories

Premium materials and craftsmanship elevate the experience—think leather cuffs lined with velvet and beautifully finished handles. Luxury bdsm sex toys and accessories add longevity, safety and style.

Light Bondage Toys

Feather ticklers, satin ties and cute cuffs are ideal for dipping a toe into bondage. Start soft, build trust and progress to more advanced bondage toys as confidence grows.

Extreme BDSM Toys

When you’re ready for more intense sensation, explore extreme bondage gear such as metal restraints, advanced suspension points and heavy-duty impact tools. Prioritise skills, communication and safety at all times.

Male Bondage Toys

Enhance play with cock rings, sleek restraints and stimulating devices like prostate massagers. Combine with collars or cuffs for layered sensation and control.

Gay Bondage Equipment

Harnesses, restraints, gags and cock rings help tailor scenes to your dynamic. Build from beginner pieces to hardcore bdsm toys as your skills and interests evolve.

Submissive Toys

Collars, soft restraints, feather ticklers and blindfolds support trust, anticipation and guided surrender. Choose bondage toys that match the mood you want to create.

BDSM Fetish Clothing

Leather corsets, lace bodysuits, latex and harnesses all contribute to the look and feel of a scene. Clothing can signal roles and set expectations before play begins.

Leather Bondage Gear

Leather cuffs, collars and harnesses are durable, comfortable and classic. They’re a reliable choice for both light exploration and more demanding bondage equipment needs.

Female Bondage Equipment

Silken restraints, elegant collars and plush-lined cuffs prioritise comfort while delivering secure restraint. Add blindfolds to heighten focus and sensation.

Bondage Dolls

A playful way to practise ties or explore role-play scenarios. They can help you test new techniques before trying them with a partner.

BDSM Vibrators

From discreet bullets to powerful wands, vibrators add tease and control to bondage scenes. Use for edging, rewards or intense finishes.

BDSM Dildos

Body-safe shapes in varied sizes and textures, many harness compatible, support hands-free control or pegging dynamics within bondage play.

Metal Bondage Gear

Cool-to-the-touch cuffs, collars and chains offer firm restraint and striking visuals. Ideal for those who enjoy a weighty, secure feel.

Deepthroat Gag Toy

A challenging tool for experienced players that combines silence and endurance training. Requires clear signals, patience and trust.

What to Look for When Buying BDSM Equipment

Consider the following when buying the best bondage toys:

Level of Bondage Interest

If you are starting out, choose simple gear that is easy to use and clean. Furry handcuffs, blindfolds and feather ticklers are a safe place to start. You can invest in a bondage starter kit packed with everything you need. If you already enjoy bondage, refresh your kit with metallic cuffs, cock rings and nipple clamps—and consider electro play as your skills improve.

Feed your Bondage Fantasies

Discuss what excites you both and shop accordingly. Maybe you love spanking and restraints while they’re curious about a vibrating cock ring, or perhaps a massage candle and puppy play appeals. Explore your fantasies and we’ll help you feed them.

Pay Attention to the Materials Used

Collections may include leather, metal, silicone and fabrics like satin, silk and velvet. For toys requiring insertion—such as butt plugs, dildos and vibrators—choose body-safe, non-porous materials that are easy to clean. Avoid sharing insertable toys and always clean thoroughly with toy cleaners.

Check for Quality and Durability

Choose robust stitching, smooth edges and secure hardware. Ropes and restraints should be strong and reliable. High quality gear lasts longer and is safer to use.

Basic Safety Rules on Bondage Play

Only play with people you trust. Bondage is a game of trust and consent. When restrained, you rely on your partner to monitor comfort and safety.

Communicate before play to set expectations and boundaries. Agree on safewords. Avoid extreme bondage if you have medical conditions such as thrombosis, heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, epilepsy or if you take blood-thinning medication.

If your partner is tied up, watch for colour changes, numbness, coldness or sharp pain—signs of restricted blood flow. Release immediately. Keep safety scissors nearby for quick release.

Factors to Consider When Purchasing Bondage Sex Toys

Type of Sensation You Need

Choose toys based on the area and intensity you want—nipple clamps for focused pressure, a paddle or whip for thuddy or stingy impact.

Quality of the Accessory

Opt for reputable brands known for functional, durable designs.

The Fabric Used

Common options include soft leather and lined metal cuffs to prevent bruising during play. Pick skin-friendly materials that don’t irritate.

The Price Point

Leather gear often costs more than fabric alternatives. Choose within your budget—price alone doesn’t guarantee quality.

How to Use Bondage Toys

Prioritise safety. Communicate, agree consent, be risk-aware and start slow. Learn from trusted blogs, podcasts or tutorials before trying new techniques. Establish safewords and practise releasing knots.

Safety Tips

Always communicate openly with your partner. Start with simple ties and avoid copying risky stunts from films. Tie one area at a time, and leave advanced moves to experienced players. You can begin with household items before upgrading to professional gear. Consider bondage hoods only once you’re confident with monitoring breathing and comfort.

Conclusion

Create an erotic mood and play within agreed limits. Bondage is about negotiated submission, not coercion. Explore safely, shop bondage gear in the UK here and enjoy the journey.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does Bondage Tape Cause Discomfort?

It can if applied too tightly or used for too long. Check circulation, communicate and remove if uncomfortable.

Does Bondage Tape Stick on the Skin and Hair?

Bondage tape sticks to itself, not skin or hair. Read the instructions and test fit before play.

Why Should I Always Prepare for an Emergency While Using Bondage Tape?

Situations can change quickly. Keep safety scissors nearby and agree signals for immediate release.

Is BDSM Tape Safe for Use?

Choose body-safe materials and follow the instructions. Avoid wrapping too tightly and always monitor comfort and circulation.