HOW TO PREPARE FOR ORGASMIC ANAL SEX – 14 VITAL STEPS

Do you plan to add anal sex to your sexual repertoire? Enjoying backdoor stimulation and orgasms may not be a simple thing for everyone. However, it becomes easier to learn about the following 14 vital steps towards orgasmic anal sex.

Anal sex is now getting popular in the current sex world. For instance, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), almost 44% of men and 35% of women have tried anal sex at least once in their sex life. At first, anal sex was linked to gays and porn actors. However, this sexual activity has won a new definition, and almost every couple is ready to test and include it in their to-do list. So, are you ready to feed your curiosity and try backdoor stimulation, either solo or with your partner? If yes, here are 14 vital steps to note for orgasmic anal sex.

1. Know Why and How You Want It

The first thing to consider whenever engaging in any sexual activity is to listen to your body. Ask yourself if you are ready for it or forced by your partner. Various horror tales surround anal sex, including infections and loose rectal walls. While a significant percentage of people report these issues after anal sex, most sex educators suggest that the conditions occur when sex is done wrongly.  Therefore, this begs the question; how do you have safe anal sex?

Understanding if your body is ready for anal sex and having the first backdoor encounter is a broad topic. However, once you decide and prepare yourself for orgasmic butt sex, you will experience a pleasurable, satisfying feeling instead of pain, fecal surprises, and angry moods.

2. Talk to Your Partner

Don't surprise your partner with a crazy anal sex demand and expect them to say 'Yes.' Of course, your partner will not buy your idea the first time due to their fears and concerns. But if you talk to them severally and romantically, they may agree to try it too. Your partner needs time to think about the idea, feel comfortable, and relax in the bedroom. Talking to them beforehand allows them to prepare mentally and physically for the coming event.

3. Know When It Is the Right Time for Anal Sex

Besides mutual sexual pleasure, enjoying anal sex depends on several factors, including stomach upsets, Irritable Bowel Syndrome, and Crohn’s Disease. People with these conditions should wait to heal before trying anal sex. Also, those suffering from hemorrhoids and herpes should avoid butt sex to minimize transmitting the viruses to their partners. Therefore, it is recommended to wait until you have a clean bowel and regular movement to engage in anal sex and avoid embarrassment.

4. Hygiene Is Key

Once you are certain your safest period to try anal sex, the next vital factor to check is your butt hygiene. Anal hygiene involves using douches and enemas. These products help to remove all the fecal matter and foul odor from your backdoor region. They also help relax your anal muscles and prepare you sexually and mentally. Ensure you wipe yourself with a clean towel once your walk out of the shower.

5. Trim or Shave Your Genital Area

It is not mandatory, especially if you have short hair. However, if you want, you can shave the hair around the butthole for easier and smooth penetration.  A clean anal area also minimizes transferring bacteria from the anus to the vagina. In this case, you can use shaving, creaming, or waxing techniques for intimate hair removal.

6. Prepare the Room

We hope you are ready for the next big thing. But is your room ready to welcome your screams and mourns resulting from unhindered anal orgasms? Preparing your room for any sexual activity impacts your overall excitement and comfortability. It also helps relax your mind and set the mood. You can start by cleaning the room, spreading a towel on the bed or floor to prevent staining your bedsheets with lubes, and lighting candles to create an erotic ambiance.

7. Use Anal Sex Lubricants

Another vital thing to remember is that the anus is not self-lubricated like the vagina; hence equipping yourself with a bottle of anal lubricant is necessary. Before penetration, always apply plenty of anal lubricant around the butthole and on the penis or anal toy. Silicone-based lubricants are the most preferred, but you can use water-based lubes, especially when using silicone toys. You can also use oil-based lubes due to their thickness and durability, though they are incompatible with most condom materials.

8. Avoid Numbing Agents

Most people are tempted to use numbing agents since they believe they prevent them from feeling pain the first time. While this sounds like a great idea, numbing agents also prevent feeling pleasure and reduce sensations. A man will also lose his erection once the numbing agents contact this penis.

9. Take A Comfortable Position and Relax Your Muscles

Anal sex is enjoyed in various positions, including doggy style, bend-over, missionary with either the receiver or giver on their back and any position you can think about. Doggy style is the easiest of all positions, though most givers want to see their partners' faces and gauge their reactions. Therefore, get a comfortable position that allows control and gives you satisfaction.

10. Explore Yourself First

The best way to relax involves exploring your butt before allowing your partner to penetrate you. You can do this by playing with your fingers around the butthole, making circular motions before inserting your finger inside the anus. Once you can freely insert and remove one finger, add one or two more fingers to stretch the opening and relax the sphincter muscles.

11. Start with Gentle Penetration

Once you are free for actual anal penetration, allow your partner to penetrate your gently. Let him insert the penis and stop to allow you to relax and adapt to the new wave. He can push deeper as he listens to the reaction before slowly removing the penis. When you are used to the penetration, your partner can now increase the pace and pump inside you for intense and mind-blowing orgasms.

12. Utilize Anal Toys

Anal toys such as butt plugs, anal beads, and vibrators are also helpful. Luckily, these toys can provide a perfect dual stimulation by penetrating both the giver and receiver. However, ensure the toys are compatible with the lubricants and condoms used. Anal toys should also have tapered tips for easier insertion and flared bases to prevent deeper penetration. The double stimulation is pleasurable since it allows both partners to climax faster.

13. Avoid Mixing Vaginal and Anal Sex

The vagina and anus are flooded with bacteria, both healthy and unhealthy. For instance, the vagina has hundreds of healthy bacteria that help balance its pH levels; hence disrupting the balance can cause infections such as yeast and urinary tract infections. Therefore, when having anal sex, avoid transferring the penis directly from the anus to the vagina without changing condoms and sanitizing the penis. Doing this introduces harmful bacteria to the vagina, leading to infections.

14. Aftercare

What you do after sex determines if your partner will allow you to have it again. Anal sex is an intense sexual activity that can inflict pain and fear in your partner. As such, after a mind-blowing anal orgasm, ensure you curdle with your partner to help them reset back to their lively moods. You can perform aftercare practices such as massage, showering together, or even helping your partner to clean up. With all these techniques at the end of butt sex, you will realize having orgasmic anal sex is easier than you thought.