PROSTATE MASSAGE & SUPER ORGASM (SERIOUSLY)

What is prostate massage? What is a super orgasm? How can an individual achieve a prostate massage and a super orgasm? This article explains more about a prostate massage and super orgasm.

Prostate massage is done for either two reasons; medical reasons or pleasure. Either by the masseuse or your partner, the person massaging your prostate should know how to do this right. There is a high risk of injuring yourself if you massage your prostate too roughly. You should know that the massage should not be painful. If it's for health reasons, it's better done by a professional.

Gay sex and its pleasure is not all about anal penetration like you think. You would probably be mind blown or astonished if I told you that a man has a g-spot. It is not talked about for many reasons. Culture and society may consider this terrible, just like gays are considered. Although the world has changed and the LGBTQ have come out of the shadows, some things will never change. Only time will tell. Anyway, the men also have a g-spot, the prostate. It is situated in front of the rectum, between the bladder and the penis, it surrounds the urethra. The prostate is a gland that produces some of the fluid in semen. Though not that popular, some parlors offer prostate massages. When stimulated, one can achieve a prostate orgasm. Here is a guide to which one can achieve prostate orgasm.

Receiver’s Side

You will need to be completely relaxed and turn on to make the experience easier and enjoyable. If you find the whole poop thing abominable, consider taking a shower first with more attention to get it sparkling clean. Prostate stimulation gives a feeling of peeing, just like anal penetration gives a feeling of needing to poop. Don't be worried because you won't do either of those. Knowing your bowels are empty will help you enjoy yourself without any worry. Barsky (2018) explained that individuals should practice getting used to their prostate being touched with their fingers or a sex toy. At last, make sure you lube adequately, especially with water-based lubricant. 

Giver’s Side

Safety and hygiene are the keys. Cut the nails and file to avoid scratching or injury. Wash your hands thoroughly, whether you are using a condom or not. If you are using a condom, stuff the condom with cotton balls for more pleasure. You can also have some foreplay, especially in the shower, to turn things up.

Techniques to Try with Your Fingers

You probably want to explore different techniques with speed and pressure. Here are some that an individual can use with their hands;

• Doorbell: rest the front part of your finger against the outside of the prostate and gently press like a doorbell. Do this with different pressure on longer and shorter intervals.
• Circling: Using the pad of your finger, circle around the prostate gland's whole area, switching up the pressure and speed as you go.
• Come hither: Gently insert your lubed finger into the anus within an upward motion. Do this repeatedly while gradually increasing the speed and pressure. 
• Simulated vibration: just like it is done in women with the vagina. There's a point where you will have to increase the pace. It might be harder with the hand, but it can give vibrated stimulation. 

Techniques with Sex Toys 

According to Wang (2020), sex toys turn things up and take pleasures higher, especially vibrators.

• Depth: Toys have the upper hand when it comes to depth. They make reaching easier, and if you crave to reach unimaginable depth, go for sex toys.
• Pressure: Pressure control with sex toys is on another level, especially when flying solo. Switch up the pressure on the gland with the vibrator to reach an orgasm.
• Sensations: you can get the toys with two ends, one with a stimulator and the other for penetration. This way, you will get crazy sensations that will have your orgasm.
• Vibrations:  you want to buy vibrators that can switch the speed up or down. Play with the settings for your pleasure.

Milking 

Though sometimes it was used by an individual to refer to as therapeutic prostate massage, prostate milking is also the act of massaging the prostate until fluid comes out (Pinheiro et al. 2017). The milky fluid that comes out is prostatic fluid, hence the term "milking". It is ejaculation without sperm. You can continue with the same massage until one reaches an orgasm.

Positions to Try

You all know that positioning is another key factor in sex and pleasure.

Facedown

When playing solo, you want to lie face down, reach your arm behind you and rest your back. Reach your perineum with your finger. When with your partner, you want to lie face down with your arms at your sides and legs slightly apart. Chalker (2018) explained that individuals should have their partner sit next to them on the side and gently massage their prostate.

Doggy 

Get down on both your knees and hands to assume a doggy position. It is if you are alone or with your partner. Reach between your legs for your anus. If with your partner, have them kneel behind you and massage your prostate.  

Legs up

 When doing it alone, you want to lay on your back and pull your knees up to your chest as close and comfortable as possible. Use one arm to hold your leg up and the other to massage your prostate. With your partner, lie on your back and repeat the same process, but you hold both your legs up this time. With them on their knees, let them satisfy your pleasures as they please.

On Your Side, One Leg to the Chest

Just as the name dictates, you will want to lie on your side and bring your leg up towards your chest. You will have them sit behind you with your partner to reach your anus. When playing alone, you will do the same and play with your fingers or toys.

Ussher et al. (2017) explained that prostate massaging also comes with some health advantages other than just orgasming and include;

• It aids with urine flow.
• It improves erectile dysfunction.
• It aids relieve benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) symptoms.
• It aids prevent or even treating prostatitis.
• It aids elevate painful ejaculation. 

Conclusion 

Anal play is not for everyone. We all have different preferences; this is what defines us at a personal level. But in case you want to try or already do this, go for the full-body orgasm. Consent and safety are important factors to consider. If you get this done, then you are good to go. Hygiene is of importance if you are using your fingers. Sex is all about exploring and reaching you're most unimaginable pleasures. Add toys to your sex game to get those satisfactions that you crave.

References 

Barsky, B. (2018). Hot Topics In Oncology Care Conference: Sexuality and Cancer.

Chalker, R. (2018). The clitoral truth. Seven Stories Press.

Pinheiro, D., Machado, J., Viegas, C., Baptista, C., Bastos, E., Magalhães, J., ... & Martins-Bessa, A. (2017). Evaluation of biomarker canine-prostate specific arginine esterase (CPSE) for diagnosing benign prostatic hyperplasia. BMC veterinary research, 13(1), 1-7.

Ussher, J. M., Perz, J., Rose, D., Dowsett, G. W., Chambers, S., Williams, S., ... & Latini, D. (2017). The threat of sexual disqualification: the consequences of erectile dysfunction and other sexual changes for gay and bisexual men with prostate cancer. Archives of sexual behavior, 46(7), 2043-2057.Wang, T. (2020). Selling Sex-Positivity: Exploring Sexuality, Technology, and Pleasure within the Sex Toy Industry (Doctoral dissertation, Pratt Institute).