FEMALE EJACULATION: WHAT IS SQUIRTING?
Ejaculation is a strong bodily experience mostly linked to male sexuality and penises. However, vaginas or vulvas can also undergo a similar thing. It can be during, before, or after an orgasm. Herein is everything you need to know about squirting, including the tips on how to get her to squirt.
Most individuals allocated the female reproductive organs with birth, suggesting they're not sexual tools. However, there has been an increased frankness and awareness about females’ sexual desires, sexual biology, and appetites. With this awareness, the issue of squirting has surfaced, with many women finding this practice highly satisfying. So, what is squirting in female ejaculation? Read on to find out more.
Understanding Squirting
Nigro (2018) described squirting as the involuntary fluid emission experienced by women during intercourse. This fluid consists of plain pee filled with uric acid, urea, and creatine. These products get flushed out from the Skene's gland sited at the urethra's lower end. Squirting originates from clit stimulation or G-spot stimulation. Sometimes it can be simultaneous stimulation of both organs. The Skene’s gland and G-spot’s location are almost similar. For this reason, stimulating one can affect the other, leading to squirting.
Tips for Getting Her Squirt
Would you like to get your female partner to experience squirting? Here are the techniques to achieve this and take your sex life to the next level.
Proper Hydration
If squirting is part of the plan, ensure to hydrate more with water. Sex therapists explain that squirting depends on how hydrated one is. Let your partner drink lots of water and electrolytes during and before sexual sessions.
Overlook Your Expectations
Squirting in women comes with pressure sets, and most women cannot achieve it. According to sex experts, nobody should be made to do anything regarding sex. If your partner can't squirt, there's no way to force her. The squirt emotion may also not feel great for everyone. Lowering your expectations can easily result in squirting, especially if you don't anticipate it. Simply perform the tricks for enjoyment, and squirting and orgasm can occur.
Develop the Correct Mentality
Getting in the correct mindset entails getting relaxed and uplifting your mood. Squirting requires release, meaning you should relax to let yourself feel the pleasure without tension. Ensure your woman trusts you and feels safe throughout the session for her to let go of everything. Let her be 100% present and fully relaxed in the mind and body. Allow your body to enjoy and understand that squirting is not the main goal of your sexual adventure.
Warm-up to Arousal
Squirting requires full arousal in the vulva and vagina. Take things slowly and explore every sweet spot. It's best to understand your body and know the sensitive spots contributing to your general sexual arousal. Arousal is great for naturally making the vagina wet. The labia and clit become darker and swell, leading to more sensitivity. Such a heightened arousal situation is the stronghold point for squirting. To get to the eventual release, you must willfully allow yourself to ride up to the climax.
Trace the G-spot
According to Schubach (2009), the G spot is a walnut-sized tissue around two inches in the top vaginal wall. Reports show that most females that experience ejaculation say that stimulating the G-spot can cause squirting. The best positions to achieve this internal stimulation include missionary and cowgirl sex styles. It's easier to squirt if the penetrator concentrates more on the G-spot. You can also let her ride you and help pound the G-spot to get the steam. If these two positions aren't enough to get you there, have your partner lie facing up. This is followed by inserting two fingers in her vagina and begging to create hither movements that arouse the internal sweet spots.
Involve Sex Toys
If you want to up the game, introduce sex toys. The G-spot can be manually stimulated to give pleasure, but you can use a curved magic wand for enhanced sensation. You can also try a toy with suction to suck your clit or nipples. Talk to your partner, inform what feels great, and alert them if you need anything adjusted. If you prefer using vibrating sex toys, intense pressure, or a circular motion, let them know.
The Bottom Line
Many couples that try out squirting during sex have an increased sexual bond. For this reason, it's a thing worth exploring in your relationship. However, this doesn't suggest that all ladies can squirt. This article highlights a few hits on how to achieve squirting. You can go through it and perform the techniques involved for a different bedroom experience.
References
Nigro, S. A. (2018). Sex Revolution II–is the only way to defeat Sex Revolution I.
Schubach, G. (2009). The G-Spot and Female Ejaculation.