How to Give a Good Blow Job
How to Give a Good Blow Job
By Elena Ognivtseva
I think, some of you know what BJ is, and some of you don’t. BJ is shorter from blow job. This thing is usually disgusting to all of you, or you are just to shy to try, or you are scared of failing.
You should know that every guy dreams about getting great blow job every day, or before every sex by his girlfriend, wife, friend… If you think that we are not enjoying in this kind of game, you are so wrong.
The most important thing in giving a great blow job is to have THE ATTITUDE and of course, not to touch „your toy“ with teeth. I think you should remember those two things.
sucking lipsIf we talk about attitude, you should know that you must show to your partner that you are enjoying giving him a great blow job, putting so much effort just because of him (if you are giving him proper BJ, he will probably give his best between your legs). You must love his cock, love licking it and sucking his balls. If you don’t like what I’m writing, then you will still have that barrier, and you won’t have great sex with your partner. If you don’t like to give a head, then this is a right moment to start loving it. LOVE COCK AND LOVE SUCKING IT!
Maybe I’m rude, but I really have to be, cause this site is made for naughty and rude things…
BLOW JOB TECHNIQUES
While loving enthusiasm over technique is the most important aspect of a blowjob, trying out different and new techniques can be good fun. And what two things are more important to maintain a happy relationship than love and fun!
STROKING TECHNIQUE
Some of you really have no idea how to give proper BJ. You think your mouth are just for speaking and eating? WRONG! BLOW JOB is your mouth’s new “friend”. Don’t forget to use everything you got, not only mouth. To make explosion, you need much more then that. Why limit yourself to only that?
Too many of you girls are “going to war” with a knife (your mouth) – when you could be armed with grenades, shoot guns. Hell – I’ll arm you with an atomic bomb in my friend’s book! You have your tongue hands, breath, nails, teeth (DO NOT use them if you’re a beginner ’cause it can be really painful for your partner), voice, words. Everything…
So, hold that cock and stroke it. Almost always, while you’re giving him head, while you’re holding his cock in your mouth also hold it in your hand and stroke it. The important thing about stroking is Tempo and Pressure. Tempo is the speed you stroke it at, the pace. At the very beginning you should try with really slow tempo, cause it turns on many guys. If you are giving them little, they want much more, so you’ll have one big cock in your mouth in only few seconds. Usually as the blow job is going from beginning to end you have to slowly increase the tempo of stroking. Especially in the end.
For most guys it’s impossible to cum if you’re not stroking it at least a bit. It’s hard to put enough pressure on the shaft by using only your mouth. Never let your hands lie still and go unused when you give head.
USING MOUTH IN BLOWJOB
suck tongueMost guys prefer looking at nice big lips and a big mouth. Somehow we linked up in our mind that a big mouth equals a great blow job. In reality the size of your mouth is not THAT important… Before giving a head you should drink some water. The easier your mouth slides on his cock, from the head to the base of his shaft – the better. Lick his dick until it’s wet enough to slide inside your mouth without any problem. Spit on it if you must (don’t be afraid), suck it hard, cause a lot of us love it that way.
USING TONGUE IN BLOWJOB
This is your major weapon! Use it while your lips are locked over the head of his cock, do some crazy moves around his head. Pay particular attention to the frenulum, which is the loose patch of skin on the underside of the penis where the head meets the shaft. This is extremely sensitive part of a cock. Lick along it. Guys just adore it when you gently lick it there. As I already said before in text about dirty talk, BE CREATIVE. Use your weapon in every possible way… tease him with it. As you hold his shaft stick your tongue out – look at him straight to his eyes, and say something that explains how much you enjoy sucking him up, then lick the tip of his head and give him a naughty smile. We love it, trust me.
Sometimes you just have to act like a pro. It is REALLY attractive if your tongue is pierced by the way… When you stick your tongue out you actually make more space in your mouth so you can get the shaft in deeper. If you want to know something more about sucking a cock, maybe you should send me a message, or just by the book – Jack’s Blowjob Lessons. I met this guy over Internet and he really knows everything about BJ (after this book, my girlfriend is goddess of BJ).
HEAD OF A COCK
The HEAD of a cock is the top of it. This is the most sensitive part of a cock, and the one that you will play with the most. DON’T USE YOUR TEETH ON HIS HEAD. Some girls know how to do it even with their tongue, but don’t try it until you got experienced. There is possibility to hurt him so bad, that he won’t believe in your “abilities”. I’m just saying that is not worth of risk.
HIS SHAFT
Almost always have your hand in a firm grip around it. It’s a beautiful feeling for us and it will be easier for you to control his cock while giving him head. It’s all about knowing how to apply the right amount of pressure.
Recommended Blow Job Sex Toys
White Swirl Stroker with Stimulating Internal Swirls
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Specifications of the White Swirl Stroker with Stimulating Internal Swirls
Length : 2 Inches
Washing : Hot soapy water and toy cleaner
Colour : White
Flexibility : Stretchy
For Who : Male
Material : TPE
Brand : Various Toy Brands
Size : 2 Inches
Opening : Stealth