Puppy, Kitten, Pony Play: Roles, Gear, Training
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🎀 Prance Through the Key Points 🎀
🐶 Puppy Play is all about loyalty, obedience, and wagging tails—woof your heart out!
🐱 Kitten Play thrives on sass, elegance, and a healthy dose of mischief—purr and play coy.
🐴 Pony Play is about grace, performance, and trotting your stuff like a show pony—neigh in style!
🪶 Gear matters: tails, collars, bits, ears, and more—express your inner beastie with flair.
🎭 Roles vary from pets to handlers—find the dynamic that makes you wag, purr, or gallop!
🧠 Tips and Tails from Our Expert Menagerie 🧠
🎩 "Ease into role play—don’t expect to gallop before you trot!" – Lord Wigglesworth, Pony Play Coach
🧤 "Kitten play is about attitude—sass it up, stretch slowly, and bat with intent." – Madame Meow, Feline Fantasist
🐾 "Build trust like a good pup—treats, commands, and comfy naps are key." – Rex Barkington, Obedience Whisperer
🎠 "Gear is your second skin—choose quality pieces that spark joy *and* bark." – Trixie Tails, Costume Connoisseur
Ever wondered what it’s like to be a playful pup, a curious kitten, or a proud pony? Welcome to the world of BDSM pet play — where role play meets power exchange, and the bedroom turns into a wild, whimsical zoo. Whether you’re after obedience, affection, or elegant showmanship, animal role play kink offers a creative way to escape reality and dive into something primal.
Beginner-friendly pet play isn’t just about the look — it’s about the feel. It’s about being adored, owned, trained, and tamed. You’ll find playful pups, sleepy kitties, and strutting ponies — each with their own quirks and gear. Fancy finding your inner animal?
We’re breaking down roles, gear, and training — everything you need to know to start your pet play journey. Ready to unleash your wild side? Let’s begin.
Types of Pet Play
Pet play isn’t one-size-fits-all — every animal persona brings something unique to the scene. Whether you're feeling cheeky like a kitten or proud like a pony, there’s a role for you.
Puppy Play: Loyal, Playful, and Energetic
Puppy play is all about energy, loyalty, and playful chaos. Think tail-wagging, barking, fetching, and joyful obedience. Submissives take on the role of eager pups, ready to serve, cuddle, and get a good belly rub. Owners, or handlers, provide commands, cuddles, and correction when needed.
"Puppy play allows people to explore vulnerability through joy and obedience — it’s submission without fear," says Katie Lasson, sex and relationship advisor from Peaches and Screams. “It’s often freeing, especially for those who find comfort in structure and praise.”
Pups often wear tails, hoods, and harnesses to really embody their canine side. Whether they’re rolling over or begging for treats, it’s all about letting go and being loved.
Kitten Play: Independent, Affectionate, and Mischievous
Kitten play is softer, sassier, and a bit more independent. Kittens enjoy being adored, but they’re not afraid to scratch when they’re moody. Common behaviours include purring, stretching, grooming, and curling up beside their “owner” for a nap. It’s playful yet sensual — a purrfect balance.
Tatyana Dyachenko, a sexual and relationship therapist, explains: “Kitten play appeals to those who crave affection, but on their terms. It’s flirtatious, teasing, and emotionally charged.”
Expect lace, bows, delicate tails, and metal claws that add a touch of edge. It’s a fantasy of control and charm, one paw swipe at a time.
Pony Play: Elegant, Obedient, and Powerful
Pony play is the most physically demanding — and the most glamorous. Ponies are trained to trot, pull carts, or simply stand tall in shiny tack. Obedience and performance take centre stage here, often mimicking equestrian sports. There’s grace in the gait, strength in the stance, and pride in the presentation.
"Pony play transforms submission into performance — it’s where discipline meets display," says Barbara Santini. “Many find empowerment in the sheer control and spectacle of the experience.”
You’ll find bits, bridles, blinders, and more in pony play gear. It’s showy, structured, and deeply symbolic — ideal for those who crave ceremony in submission.
Other Animals in Pet Play
While puppies, kittens, and ponies rule the scene, they’re not the only pets in town. Some enjoy role playing as foxes, wolves, rabbits, or even pigs. These roles are more niche, often blending primal instincts with creative costume play. You might have to hunt for accessories — or make them yourself.
No matter your chosen animal, there’s room for self-expression, fantasy, and connection. After all, every pet deserves a little playtime.
Essential Gear and Accessories
Getting into character isn’t just about attitude — it’s about the gear. The right pet play accessories help you look, feel, and act the part.
Common Pet Play Gear
Some BDSM gear works across all types of pet play. You’ll often see collars, which symbolise ownership and submission. Ears and tails help set the animal identity — often attached to headbands or butt plugs. Mitts or paws limit dexterity, while kneepads protect when crawling on all fours.
These basic pieces are a great start for any beginner-friendly setup. They’re playful, affordable, and perfect for experimenting safely.
Puppy Play Gear
Puppy play leans into bondage-inspired animal role play equipment. You’ll find puppy hoods shaped like a dog’s head, along with harnesses that wrap around the chest. Muzzles, cones, and bodysuits (usually latex or faux leather) complete the look. Some pups also wear cock sheaths — canine-style coverings for added fantasy.
Each piece enhances the physical and psychological shift into pup mode. You're not just pretending — you're embodying.
Kitten Play Gear
Kitten gear is softer and flirtier. Think pastel colours, lace, bows, and dainty tail plugs. Some add metal claws to their fingertips for a more feral edge. The aesthetic is often feminine, cute, and more fashion-driven than functional.
Kittens tend to value style as much as role play — beauty and bite in one sleek package.
Pony Play Gear (Tack)
Pony play gear — also known as tack — is modelled on real equestrian kit. Expect bits, bridles, blinders, saddles, and hooves. Hobbles restrict movement, adding control and elegance. Some ponies wear bodysuits or decorative wraps for show.
Pony gear can be pricey but transforms the scene into a full-blown performance. It’s serious, sensual theatre.
Training and Behaviour
Training is where pet play really comes alive. It’s not just about fun — it builds trust, boosts obedience, and enhances the entire BDSM training dynamic.
Puppy Training Kink
Puppies thrive on structure. Simple commands like “sit”, “fetch”, and “kennel” help reinforce playful obedience. Add a leash, a few treats, and a cheerful tone, and you’ve got a happy, tail-wagging sub. It’s all about reward, repetition, and that eager-to-please energy.
Kitten Roleplay Behaviour
Kittens are curious and cheeky. Use voice commands like “paws up”, “groom”, or “crawl” to guide their movements. Their training often involves teasing and light discipline — paired with purring, rubbing, and plenty of petting. It’s subtle, sensual, and full of attitude.
Pony Play Commands
Ponies follow clear commands with grace and control. You might teach “trot”, “whoa”, or “stand” using reins, voice tones, or even body signals. Some ponies respond to sounds like clucking or kissing. It’s less about speed, more about style — like a dressage routine with a dominant twist.
Training tools vary — leashes, treats, clickers, even posture collars. But the most important tools? Consent and communication. Every pet role play behaviour should be agreed, rehearsed, and safe for both partners.
Done right, training isn't just hot — it's a whole new language between you and your pet.
Reward and Punishment in Pet Play
Every good pet needs a reason to behave — and sometimes, a reason to behave better. That’s where reward and punishment in pet play comes in.
Rewards That Keep Tails Wagging
Praise goes a long way, but so do cuddles, treats, and sexual favours. A kind word, a gentle pat, or a favourite snack can work wonders. Pets often crave attention, so focused affection is the ultimate high-value reward. It’s not just play — it’s emotional bonding, too.
Punishments That Reinforce Play
Punishment must always be consensual, controlled, and safe. Light bondage and discipline might involve temporary confinement, sensory denial, or removal of privileges. A pet might be crated, ignored, or told to “stay” in place. It’s about correction, not cruelty — and always within pre-agreed boundaries.
The Power of Aftercare and Safe Words
Safe BDSM play means respecting limits, using safe words, and checking in after scenes. Aftercare helps soothe the body and reconnect emotionally. Many pets feel loved and “owned” through these rituals — it’s nurturing, not just kinky.
The Bottom Line
Feeling curious?Excited? Maybe even a little nervous? That’s normal — stepping into kink takes courage. Pet play offers more than gear and games; it’s trust, freedom, and emotional release wrapped in fur, leather, and fantasy. No need for fancy gear — just curiosity, communication, and consent. Explore UK BDSM scenes, online groups, or start small at home. This guide isn’t just kink — it’s confidence, connection, and a playful path to discovery. Now go on — unleash what’s been waiting.