SQUIRTING: IT’S NOT WHAT YOU THINK!
Squirting occurs when our body produces thick, semi-white liquid from the Skene glands found in the erectile tissue at the vulva from the urethra, which also releases urine. In general, squirting occurs upon stimulation of the G-spot. It's not similar to an orgasm, but most people squirt and orgasm simultaneously.
Is Squirting Real?
Squirting is a real thing, though scientists have not been able to find out its nuances.
Two Main Types of Female Ejaculation
Ejaculate Fluid
It closely resembles semen and is always milky white and thick. It’s believed to be secreted by the Skenes glands.
Squirting Fluid
It's typically odorless, colorless, and produced in large quantities.
Is Female Squirting Fluid Similar to Urine?
It’s a misconception to say that squirting fluid is exactly pee. Normally, squirting produces an odorless, watery fluid released by the Skene's glands and expelled via the urethra. However, it's hard to claim that some urine is expelled into squirting fluid. Some people can pee and squirt simultaneously.
It's normal to feel like you need to urinate when you squirt since the tissue surrounding the urethra is full of blood. The tissues contract and press against the bladder.
How To Make Yourself Squirt
Stimulate your G-spot to climax, increasing your chances of successfully squirting. It swells more when you climax, so try squirting when fully aroused. The G-spot is found almost two to three inches inside the vagina with a feeling of a ridge or a spongy bump. Some people might confuse the feeling with urination and hinder their chances of squirting. Therefore, consider visiting the toilet before sex to have fun to the fullest. If you feel it’s being generated, you will have to release it.
If you are worried about how much fluid will come out, use some tissues or lay down a towel. The volume of fluid that will come out during squirting varies from person to person.
Squirting While Masturbating
Most people find it easier to squirt while masturbating and not while intimate with their partner because they will have time to concentrate more on their sensations and adjust appropriately. To find the G-spot, you will need to relax and ensure you are comfortable. Stimulate the front wall of your vagina using a sex toy or your fingers. You might experience a prickling sensation or the urge to urinate when you find the G-spot. To heighten the pleasure, stimulate the clitoris.
Squirting With Toys
Some toys offer G-spot and clitoral stimulations.
Vibrator on the Clitoris
During penetrative sex with your partner, let him stimulate your vagina front wall at the G-spot. Stimulate the clitoris using a vibrator for higher orgasm.
Vibrator or Dildo on the G-Spot
During partnered or solo sex, stimulate the G-spot using a vibrator or dildo. Insert the toy inside the vagina and focus on stimulating the front wall.
Squirting While Having Sex With Your Partner.
While having sex with your partner, you will think of stimulating your G-spot with your fingers or choose a position that will stimulate the front wall of your vagina where the G-spot is located. The positions you may consider in this case include;
Sex From Behind
This makes it easier for the man to hit your G-spot while penetrating. For intense stimulation, lie flat as he retains a slightly elevated position to hit the front wall of the vagina.
Reverse Cowgirl
The guy sits beneath the receiving partner and faces away from him as he penetrates. Both of you can stimulate the top clitoris of one another.
Improved Sex from Behind
This position will require the receiving partner to kneel and bend and have their shoulders slightly close to the ground. The penetrative partner retains an upright position. It will be very enjoyable to rock it back and forth instead of only thrusting in and out.
Myths about Squirting
Squirting is fake
Many people believe there is nothing like squirting. Squirting is real, and scientists have proven it. However, more research is still on what causes squirting and female ejaculation. The main reason for the doubt is that Skene's glands are different in every person. Some women lack it, while some have relatively small ones.
People can Squirt Through the Same Method
People have a different experience while squirting. Some methods can make people squirt more, but no single method makes anyone with a vagina squirt because vaginas are different. Some vaginas don't have the Skene's gland that produces the fluid released during ejaculation.
Squirting Orgasms are Usually High Volumes
Squirting doesn't produce a high volume or soak the sheet during orgasm. The depiction is from pornographic movies. The movies show a large volume of squirting liquid coming from the vagina. This assumption on squirting is not true in real life. Pornographic movies are always very dramatic and exaggerative. However, any volume of squirting is considered valid. People squirt at different levels during sex.
People Squirt Only During Orgasm
As earlier stated, each person is different. Some people may squirt during or after orgasms. Some can squirt simultaneously during orgasm, while some can even release multiple squirts simultaneously.
Conclusion
Squirting is typically the release of liquid, apart from urine, from the urethra via the vagina during orgasm. Some call it female ejaculation, though it’s true that not everyone who has a vagina is female. Most people squirt regularly, and it’s easier to squirt during masturbation than when having partnered sex. The amount of overflow per squirt is approximately 2 ounces. It is good to note down that many qualities facilitate sex that makes squirting easier (focus on pleasure, effective communication while having sex. And readiness to experiment).